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| 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Limus: 1:53pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
8 WAYS TO KNOW THAT YOU’VE FOUND A TRUE GENTLEMAN. 1. His intentions are good. A gentleman may not always say or do the right things. He may not always succeed. But he tries, and that’s what counts. A gentleman’s primary goal in life is to leave the world a better place than he found it. He might do that by raising a family or starting a business he believes in, but the goal is the same: to make a positive difference. 2. He respects the needs of others. Maybe your need in a relationship isn’t to be pampered with chivalrous gestures but rather to maintain a healthy degree of independence. A true gentleman will respect that, and he will respect the needs of everyone else. If you have to call off a date because your best friend just lost her job and needs support, he’ll respect that as well. 3. He takes care of himself. If a man chooses to destroy his mind and body with excessive alcohol use, sleep deprivation or one of the other many vices of life, what makes you think he holds anyone else’s mind or body in any higher regard? A true gentleman sees the value in life itself. That can be seen in the way he takes care of not only his appearance but also his physical and mental health. He will undoubtedly encourage you to do the same. 4. He knows where he stands – and he respectfully sticks to it. According to The Gentleman’s Journal, a gentleman is able to display confidence without being arrogant. He knows what he believes in and he’s not afraid to say and act in accordance with it. He doesn’t expect anyone to look up to his moral standard or change his or her views to match his but he will not go along with things that contradict his core beliefs. 5. He can be self-sufficient. If a meal isn’t cooked, a gentleman doesn’t grumble and complain that his wife is being lazy. He gets up and cooks it himself. When dating a gentleman, you never get the impression that he expects you to be like a mother to him, coddling him and taking care of his every need. Rather, you feel that he sees you on the same plane. That’s why a gentleman dates – He wants someone of similar maturity and mind to challenge him. 6. He makes you a priority in his life. If he didn’t have the time for you, he wouldn’t be dating you. When dating a true gentleman, you’ll never get the impression that he’s simply putting up with you because he doesn’t want – for whatever reason – to call the relationship off. Because as a grown man, if he didn’t think things were working out, he would confront the issue instead of dragging you along on an emotional roller coaster. 7. He has self-control. Even in the most heated of arguments, a true gentleman will never make you fear for your own physical safety, because you know he has a firm grip on himself and his emotions. Make no mistake – he feels just as deeply as everyone else. The difference is in how he expresses his emotions. 8. He is thankful. Lastly, a true gentleman knows that – no matter what his position in life – he is fortunate in one way or another. That is at the root of his kindness and loving demeanor. He sees the world around him not as something out to get him but as something that, though flawed, contains a great deal of beauty and happiness. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
 Lexxburg plz confirm this ooo |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
I guess i'm a gentleman.  1 Like |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by MUVA(m): 1:58pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Too tired to read this shxt. |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by SweetieConstie(f): 2:02pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Fynestboi, are you a gentleman? |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Rexhenrex(m): 2:04pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
.ladies if you want all this in a guy just wait for the lords second coming chikena. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Op, you just described Jesus 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Charlesberry(m): 2:05pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
No 5  ?? For how long?  |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
I dnt find this piece useful.A man can ße wateva 2 get wat he wants...Pretenders crew |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by SweetieConstie(f): 2:07pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by kinglekan: 2:08pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
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| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
All my gfs and bfs keep saying I'm a true gentleman so i guess the criteria up there isn't my biz cos there is only one way to know if ur really a gentleman : >You would know ur a gentleman if those around you call you a gentleman. 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nasri100(m): 2:32pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
9- females will disrespect him. 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by SweetieConstie(f): 2:32pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by kinglekan: 2:40pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
mimzy: Op forgot to add No 9. "He can die for you". |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by SweetieConstie(f): 2:50pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by gbens2000(m): 2:57pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
okay a gentle man right nw?,u better get clay and make u self one.  |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
kinglekan:  In case you find him before i do, tell him I'Mpatiently waiting 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by ariyebaba(m): 3:06pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Am a GENTLEMAN...................... |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Dotwillis1(m): 3:07pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
ladies don't like gentle men 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Lexxyburg(m): 3:17pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:I'm just what the OP is talking about. |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Lexxyburg: aaawww my NEW BOO is here... How's ur day been going?  |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Lexxyburg(m): 3:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:good, guess you asleep atm. sweet dreams. |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Lexxyburg: I'll catch u when I wake up Have a great evening ahead my new Boo |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by ITbomb(m): 5:24pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
How to know that you have found a gentleman (by mamagee) 1. He has money 2. He spends the money on you 3. He is caring 4. He has much money 5. He has spendable cash 6. He is not stingy 7. He spend cash on only you 8. He doesnt disturb you with cooking, he takes you out 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Section8(m): 5:27pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
ITbomb:This is the true list, respect this list!! Not the fakery conjured by Op |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Dannidom(m): 5:49pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
OP am a gentle man just that I don't do most of the things you listed sorry! bae is not complaining and I am the perfect gentleman to her |
| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by Slimberry1(f): 6:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
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| Re: 8 Ways To Know That You've Found A True Gentleman. by firstking01(m): 7:01pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Op how you take know all these things cos you just defined me  |
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