tkb417:

true talk but. . .
what about taking a break to clear the air and when the coast is clear, im sure the urge to be together will spring up once again.

but like you said, if its an irreparable damage/winding up, then i guess if they are both left on an isolated island, nothn good will come outta it

Yumi:

Life is too short really for long breaks. I think if you don't make up and speak within a week then whats the point really. If a man can go without speaking to you for a week then he really doesn't care about you.

tkb417:

i agree 100%
if i love a babe and i dont get to speak to her in 2 weeks
then i'll probably jump on d plane and run to honolulu or one distant place cos i no go fit work

but pls read well o, i said if i love the person o

Yumi:

So I am waiting it out to see if he loves me or not. If he doesn't speak to me soon then he doesn't really care and I should move on. Thanks I will keep that in mind.

tkb417:

kpele. . . he'll call you tonite
hold on to your fone

tkb417:

Shrimp
You love a gurlie and the next thing is for u to let her go?
u dont know what misery means do you?

u havent stopped smoking this thing ehn

CHIC

u havent stopped smoking this thing ehn Grin Grin

german007:

Believe me, The so-callled breaks are totally unecessary and dangerous.      I know so because im talking from experience. Love or no love everyman has his sexual needs and desires.     During the so-called break a man will spread his wings simply because he feels temporarily free and has the mentality of " a little fling wont do no harm" but trust me, that little temporary fling can turn to be disastrous and can cause problems when you two do get back together,



Women  on the other hand have a lot more self control.

german007:

who asked for the time apart, you or him,  or was it a mutual agreement?

Its a little bit complicated as noone really did but a series of events happened and communications got a bit tense.  Noone really asked for space or time apart.  Its just the last conversations were not so good and its been a week since they happened so its probably time to move on as it doesn't look like he wants us to fix it.  He has to be the one to break silence as he said some things which means he has to break it and he hasn't.  So its time to move on I can't keep crying over the same man and the same problem.   If he doesn't want us to sort it out, its better to leave it and move on with my life.  I think I will be single for a while now, focus on myself a bit.

tkb417:

so did he call you?

tkb417:

so did he call you?

Yumi:

Life is too short really for long breaks. I think if you don't make up and speak within a week then whats the point really. If a man can go without speaking to you for a week then he really doesn't care about you.

It depends i suppose on the people involved. A week is too short for me lol. Even if he tried, i would only ignore him .

iice:

It depends i suppose on the people involved. A week is too short for me lol. Even if he tried, i would only ignore him .

Yumi:

I won't ignore him as I hate to have conflict between those I care about and myself. I think life is too short, when I was younger I almost died and it taught me to keep perspective on such things as you never know how long you have with the people around you. I think a week is sufficient for him to reflect and if he hasn't bothered to then its really not that important to him, so there is no point waiting any longer.

Yumi:

I won't ignore him as I hate to have conflict between those I care about and myself.  I think life is too short, when I was younger I almost died and it taught me to keep perspective on such things as you never know how long you have with the people around you. I think a week is sufficient for him to reflect and if he hasn't bothered to then its really not that important to him, so there is no point waiting any longer.

We differ alot.  Whilst i do think life is too short, i'm not particularly concerned with how long i have with the people i have around me. A week is too short for me.  If he insisted, it would not end well.  But then again i'm the type when a guy sends me sms 5 times a day, i consider it bombardment

tkb417:

i agree with ya
i wonder where iice draws her strength from.   .   .  .
i insist dude will call you anytime from now

I am wired differently

iice:

We differ alot. Whilst i do think life is too short, i'm not particularly concerned with how long i have with the people i have around me. A week is too short for me. If he insisted, it would not end well. But then again i'm the type when a guy sends me sms 5 times a day, i consider it bombardment

I am wired differently

german007:

Well yumi. Il be honest

He might be thinking just what your thinking.It swings both ways


He might also for you to get back to him.

SOMETIMES UNECESSARY PRIDE KILLS RELATIONSHIPS. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR ALL THAT

SOME1 JUST HAS TO BREAK THE ICE AND CALL THE OTHER, OR SAY "I MISS U BABY" TO THE OTHER.

Yumi:

We do I prefer fewer more intense relationships in my life.  I find it boring speaking to lots of different people briefly I prefer to have more intensity with the few people I am closer to.  So if a guy doesn't get back to me in a week then I am not that important to him and its time to reevaluate my priorities.

LOL.  .  .i talk to lots of people and at the same time i don't.  I rarely make friends.  Yes i can talk to people but i don't consider them friends or anything more.  To each his/her own It took a year or more for my Ex to get me to start talking to him

german007:

@iice

So r u saying u prefer your own company?

Yes
Doesn't mean i don't like other people's company. Though those are very few.

iice:

We differ alot.  Whilst i do think life is too short, i'm not particularly concerned with how long i have with the people i have around me. A week is too short for me.  If he insisted, it would not end well.  But then again i'm the type when a guy sends me sms 5 times a day, i consider it bombardment

I am wired differently

german007:

@Secretz

Will u allow me into your secrets my princess?, will u allow me be your little secret?, lol