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Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by SycophanticGoat: 6:48am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister: Who has better chances of survival when left to save themselves? The old woman or his wife? Why I'm asking is, what if he went for the one that couldn't help herself out, knowing fully well that his wife is still young/energetic and can make it out? You need to also view this situation from other perspective and not just through sentiments/emotions.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cococandy(f): 6:48am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister:He wouldn't understand that. He'd be mad at his father. Because to him the world revolves around his mom. Not knowing that if the dad was to think like him too, the world would revolve around his grandma. And if the wife was in a situation to save either him or her mom, he wouldn't find it acceptable if she chose to save her mom instead of him. That's how the world is. Everyone is selfish. 10 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Nobody: 6:49am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Your mother would want you to save your wife and family. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by SycophanticGoat: 6:49am On Jul 28, 2016 |
cococandy: Only from the emotional perspective... |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by emerged01(m): 6:50am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister:It is a very difficult question. I like your answer,it shows maturity. I love my mum but my family come first. It is left for my father to take full responsibility of the needs of my mother. In a situation where you don't have the privilege to marry again,na your mum u go nack,bear you children? 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by mazichika: 6:51am On Jul 28, 2016 |
My mum biko. Na all these ladies wey like only money I go trade for my darling mum who risked everything for me? 1 Like |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by eph12(m): 6:52am On Jul 28, 2016 |
midolian:Yea that's true. Though I think I would save my wife first because she has become a huge part of me. But the situation on ground can also decide for me and I would just act without thinking. |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Ridiy: 6:52am On Jul 28, 2016 |
my mum, my lil god...the gate to my paradise....so mum first b4 wife 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by ndat(m): 6:53am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Drew0:u can't describe how wonderful our mumies are, I nearly drop tear after I read your post, is well. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by magicminister: 6:54am On Jul 28, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat: well, we are not dealing with "what ifs" here. If we were, there could be a thousand and one what ifs. The wife[b] might be young and energetic[/b] but don't forget she also has the children to worry about. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cococandy(f): 6:55am On Jul 28, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat:well humans are emotional. all the comments here are based on emotions. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by udy4real(m): 6:55am On Jul 28, 2016 |
saintdennis: Sometimes when people are saying something important u need to use dat grey thing in ur head,remember God gave it to u free for a purpose |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Nobody: 6:56am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cococandy(f): 6:57am On Jul 28, 2016 |
nunogomez:not all moms though. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by kingthreat(m): 6:59am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister: If your last statement were the case, you'd just be beefing your dad for nothing. He's a grown man able to make his own decisions. |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by saintdennis(m): 7:01am On Jul 28, 2016 |
udy4real: Too early to diss u... U probably weren't a full term baby, I can only pity u. bye. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by abinsco25(m): 7:01am On Jul 28, 2016 |
So the wife still had time to park some cash. Useless woman. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Nobody: 7:02am On Jul 28, 2016 |
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Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cococandy(f): 7:03am On Jul 28, 2016 |
nunogomez:who? |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Biodun37: 7:04am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Na wa oh! so some people can ever think of abandoning their mother to rescue a wife? one even justify his choice with instance of vice versa, do you expect her to save you at the expense of either her parents or child? His wife is in a better position to save herself on this occasion & even if mother is old, you should protect her till death in all situations. This is why careless mother's are springing up in the society this days |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Nobody: 7:06am On Jul 28, 2016 |
ndat: Tanks bro they are more than wonderful! |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by Nobody: 7:07am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister: Depends on what he feels. I can't judge him 2 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by tivta(m): 7:08am On Jul 28, 2016 |
No wonder some Nigerian women don't want mother in law, forgetting that they will be mother's in law eventually. As long as the way makes provision for divorce, no one can replace mothers... |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by kingthreat(m): 7:10am On Jul 28, 2016 |
SycophanticGoat: Abi ooo. No be her mate dey do Gulder Ultimate search? Abegi, i save my mama first, then go back for my babe. If she doesn't survive, we do a good burial then I find another wife. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by magicminister: 7:11am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Drew0: would you prefer your sister's husband to rescue his mother (your mother in-law) instead of your sister (his wife) and her little children (your nephews and nieces) 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cheekyleggy: 7:12am On Jul 28, 2016 |
I can't marry a man wjho doesn't love his mother. Some women think with their head upside down. Wouldn't you become mothers too? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by cheekyleggy: 7:14am On Jul 28, 2016 |
magicminister:Yes, I would be able to accept that just the way I would expect my brother to save my mother first and my husband to save his mother first. Wivs are not idiots or teddy bears. They should work out and be fit and help themselves too. 1 Like |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by kikelomojessy(f): 7:14am On Jul 28, 2016 |
paschal47: Your mum is also a wife. Is ur dad complaining of her being disloyal? 5 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by kikelomojessy(f): 7:20am On Jul 28, 2016 |
He left his entire family. What if they all die? No good mum will tell the son save me and let your family perish. It's just dat sometimes when situation happens like dis, we cnt think right. so I cnt blame anyone. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by MDOLOFU: 7:22am On Jul 28, 2016 |
For d woman to hav run wit cash after d whole tin show she is not reliable. Les stop d blame oo because u won't kW wat to do until u are in dat situation. May b d man n d woman even quarrel dat morning n u expect him to chose her over his mum after all d insult? A woman is not said to hav been ur wife forever until she stay old wit u n die in ur house. Mothers are irreplaceable so I stand 100% wit d man. My dear sweetheart will see dis post n will get mad at me but before u conclude ask ur self can u chose me over ur dad dat I kW u love n there is no day I don't hear my dad dis my dad dat? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by magicminister: 7:24am On Jul 28, 2016 |
cheekyleggy: so, if your husbands puts his mother before you and your children you will be perfectly fine with that? Hopefully, you will get a man that will love his mother more than you. Even the Bible said that "a man will leave his father and mother to become one flesh with his wife". 6 Likes |
Re: Man Slammed Online For Saving Mother Instead Of Wife; Who Would You Have Saved? by eHorey(m): 7:24am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Honestly only God knows d way most niggas think!.. u ain't spending d rest of ya lyf with ya mum tho i'm not saying she ain't worth it 2 Likes |
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