We cannot deny how painful it is to be walked out on. If doesn't make it any easier still if it is a case of mutual agreement to separation. Getting over an ex you love can take its own big emotional toll on you, no doubt. In fact, this process is capable of bringing some other very important aspects of your life to a halt. Some women so crazy that they ended up in psychiatric wards. Others have confessed that no matter how hard they tried to mask it, getting over there ex's wasn't easy.

Even if you didn't love him as much, there's is still a part of you that seriously grieves and that is because you shared something with him. You would grieve if you lost a very good friend with whom you had no romance with. It's that difficult, it's that difficult to get over your ex and finally move on. You should understand that what you feel is perfectly normal and that other people also had difficulty in getting over their ex's; they only didn't tell you about it. So, be assured that you are not just being overly emotional.

They cried, you still probably cry too. They quit some important things in their lives, you possibly have done that already too. They blamed themselves, blamed their partners, blamed circumstances, you might have been there too. In fact, seeing them move on and date other girls may make you feel worse but guess what? All these are normal. Everything! This blog post is to help you learn practical ways to get over him, move on and live a fabulous life afterwards.

Allow Yourself to Grieve

What you feel now is only temporary and it's okay to allow it span. It's okay to take time to cry and express yourself in tears. No matter how distracted you were from the relationship, you would feel the loss, except you were totally out of the loving process in the first place. To get over your ex, you should not shut the door to your emotions gateway because you will only bottle up too much inside and explode later on.

Confide in a Friend

Talk to a confidant, an older person preferably. It doesn't mean you are doing that for advice in particular, this is just to allow you talk. By talking, you let out the steam. While you talk about it, you unleash some of the thoughts inside of you, some of your perceptions to the matter. In fact, you get to find a reason for yourself to move on while you do this. If you don't get things clearer immediately, don't worry. Just keep talking when you feel the need to. Hopefully, your confidant is a trusted person who wouldn't mind listening to you all night.

Declutter

Get rid of anything that will make you remember him. Gifts, messages, call history, stickers, anything that is within reach and is enough to make you feel bad. This will aid the process of getting over your ex quickly. Keeping things that make you remember him and causes you to feel sad all over again isn't a sign of maturity. It is important that you think about yourself now, and damn every form of societal expectations. Rearrange your space and free things up.

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And my ex of about 2yrs who is now in Norway just contacted me few days ago telling me how she missed me and still love me.

Sorry op, we can never forget our exes, mostly those we had a genuine and love filled relationship with.

Lemme ask RoyalBlak007 how did he moved on

bro hw far.. i didnt even seee ur reply.. na me adewumiopeyemi.. am using my second account.. we need to talk.. flash me on that mu nmber.

KINGinVAHALA:
And my ex of about 2yrs who is now in Norway just contacted me few days ago telling me how she missed me and still love me.

Sorry op, we can never forget our exes, mostly those we had a genuine and love filled relationship with.

RoyalBlak007:



you tell me

Urs first

Uummm.. Tbh, I don't wanna move on


So, now tell us urz... How u managed it...

RoyalBlak007:



tbh ...ion think I moved on...I just got hibernated...isolated...

its one hell of a job

na lai ooo... How cud u isolate urself na when ur in University and tons of girls are flirting with u


U dey SHAKARA too much ehn...

No b lie sha.

RoyalBlak007:

lwkmd! Howdy know mflirting with tons of em

we could be doing some light reading..

I know, ryt? light reading, book clubbing, and even group researching... How I wish I cud be one of em..

I mean, sitting next u lah..

harrysjones:
bro hw far.. i didnt even seee ur reply.. na me adewumiopeyemi.. am using my second account.. we need to talk.. flash me on that mu nmber.

I sent you a whatsapp message since God knows when. OK, I will call you later, kinda busy right now.

RoyalBlak007:



am good guy...and you know it...ion do bad stuffs

ur welcome to read too ... we could do some bookbang

Hahahahahahhahaha! U dey craaaaaze!

I never tried d bookbanging ...how it work my love?

nice one

KINGinVAHALA:

I sent you a whatsapp message since God knows when. OK, I will call you later, kinda busy right now.

RoyalBlak007:



am sure ur gonna love it... yo need to try it out

you be on ur bed.....reading ur favorite book...with some couple of friends....°°•••while he be....

U so damn NASTY hahahahah...i bet ur girls enjoyed it doing some bookbanging with u... I wonder how many Fristi candies was been used

TrapQueen77:






U so damn NASTY hahahahah...i bet ur girls enjoyed it doing some bookbanging with u... I wonder how many Fristi candies was been used

have never tried it too...i just got the idea now

Whats a fristi candy for ehn?

RoyalBlak007:


have never tried it too...i just got the idea now

Whats a fristi candy for ehn?

U tell me na. u know better than me my love

I only miss em if d sex was good....

the one they go back page make i stand by

Headlesschicken:
I only miss em if d sex was good....

Hehehehehe... Okay na

FYI... u can never get over an ex esp if u loved him or her.....the only solution there is 2 pretend they dnt exist,buh most of the times,all u do is think abt them

CindyeMerAld:
FYI... u can never get over an ex esp if u loved him or her.....the only solution there is 2 pretend they dnt exist,buh most of the times,all u do is think abt them

hmm you are right to some extent but have move on
girls of nowadays aint loyal o...my eye don see ehn

BrokenHeart2016:
hmm you are right to some extent but have move on girls of nowadays aint loyal o...my eye don see ehn

not all girls...the good ones r still out there