Which is better or safer? A girl going to spend nights at a guy's place or the guy (her boyfriend in most cases) comig to spend a wkend at her place? To me, all na the same thing. But to most girls, they feel allowing ur guy to spend a wkend or night at her place is not proper and cud also make the girl looks slutty. And more so, it could also give her a bad name among her neighbors. Thats why most girls prefer a girl going to spend a wkend at her guy's place rather than the guy comin to spend the wkend or night at her place. But are they not the same thing. There is no how one can camouflag sin. Cos sin na sin....no matter how you try to make it look finer or better. Either way, sex will certainly take place.