!amebo no1:

your eyes are still on top, take it down, then you can enjoy a good relationship

amebo or wateva ur name is i fink u re mre beta at d job u do which is basically gossip nd nt giving advice, so thnk u 4 d contribution, most appreciated

follypimpi:


Chie u got any friends,i dont charge alot now

On behalf of my friends and I--- We'ld pass  

mandyluv:

amebo or wateva your name is i fink u re mre beta at d job u do which is basically gossip nd nt giving advice, so thnk u 4 d contribution, most appreciated

getting all worked up, cos i am telling the truth innit?

One of the reasons why the relationship does not last, is prolly because you always wanna have your way

You are not telling us everything, some info is still missing

u can come and do deliverance in my church!
After that, men will chase u, u will want to settle down one time

excuse me girl get it rite, av neva being in a relationship, geez dnt u  understand, nah seriously dis aint pimpin at all, if i want a relationship i wuld get one , all i need do is get negative thoughts ouuta my head abt guys cheting nd stuff due to experience, so u guys beta dnt get me wrng

mandyluv:

excuse me girl get it rite, av neva being in a relationship

mandyluv:

well expect once i fink, l[b]ol i realy did like him but it jst dint work out,[/b]

  yea right, tell us the missing info what is it about your personality that makes them men run?

dis has nuffin 2 do wif my personality, ok get it rite, y am i even wasting my time on u, geez ,i owe u no explanation or watsoeva

mandyluv:

dis has nuffin 2 do wif my personality, ok get it rite, y am i even wasting my time on u, geez ,i owe u no explanation or watsoeva

that's the spirit babe! u owe nada no expalanation

n the name is mandyluv,

mandyluv:

dis has nuffin 2 do wif my personality, ok get it rite, y am i even wasting my time on u, geez ,i owe u no explanation or watsoeva

Exactly you are wasting your time, cos i am not even considering your explanation

Going by your age (19) i don't it's abnormal for you not being interested in relationships. we break hearts and if surely u don't think you are strong enuff to cope with the emotional wreck it brings along, then i'd advice you just stick with the Uni/college thingy and once fully matured the prince charming will come knocking

I so pray if and when i av a female child of similar age, her mentality will be like the poster. I don't wanna av to deal with no teenage preg

jay bee:

Going by your age (19) i don't it's abnormal for you not being interested in relationships. we break hearts and if surely u don't think you are strong enuff to cope with the emotional wreck it brings along, then i'd advice you just stick with the Uni/college thingy and once fully matured the prince charming will come knocking 

I so pray if and when i av a female child of similar age, her mentality will be like the poster. I don't wanna av to deal with no teenage preg

is this all about teenage pregnancy? what if the poster does not outgrow this feelings, what happens?


I'd rather have a child who has a different mindset, but knows how to close her legs

!amebo no1:

is this all about teenage pregnancy? what if the poster does not outgrow this feelings, what happens?


I'd rather have a child who has a different mindset, but knows how to close her legs

yes partly and i'm sure she will outgrow the feelings cos the older you are the more experience you become and in turn much easier it is to see with your third eye.
BTW, she didn't suggest she was against dating though, she just said she is currently afraid of trusting and not really loved anyone. This is def not uncommon with girls of that age and trust will def grow once she gets a lil matured (IMO)

jay bee:

yes partly and i'm sure she will outgrow the feelings cos the older you are the more experience you become and in turn much easier it is to see with your third eye.
BTW, she didn't suggest she was against dating though, she just said she is currently afraid of trusting and not really loved anyone. This is def not uncommon with girls of that age and trust will def grow once she gets a lil matured (IMO)

not true, alot of people dont outgrow that feeling, i know a lot and i mean a lot of pple that did not outgrow the feeling, some of them ventured into marriage though, but still their life is a mess

If my daughter gets to 18 or 19 and wants to have an affair, and is quite active in that area, i'd love it as opposed to having the feeling that men are all cheats, are you trying to tell me that ,thats the only way to avoid preggie?

these are pple that when they fall inlove they are stupid about it and end up preggie, why is because they refuse to learn what they are supposed to learn

I understand and accept nothing is ever 100% plus chances of her judgement still being screwed in her 20's is a bit remote
and we all know the only effective way to avoid pregnancy/STD is zero action.

Some peeps just don't mature emotionally at an early stage and no amount of talk by the parent or real life experiences can help towards that.
emotionally maturity comes from the process when one's heart works in synchronism one's head. it only happens when one feels ready and prepared to take the bumpy road called emotional journey.

and they are people in a relationship that insist on zero action

Atleast the gurl knows better than to assume that men are cheats or not to be trusted including her father, they will be no trust

When a gurl says things like this, and insists on it, i tell ya it starts with the first man figure in her life, and thats her father, before it spreads out to other men, and i wouldnt want a gurl that will lack trust in her father

@OP
At ur age it's ok not to be in a (committed) relationship cos it is obvious u are not ready yet for the emotional demands. However to prepare u for a relationship eventually u must grow emotionally. D fact dat u've experienced cheating guys notwithstanding u need to see dat the world is full of different people some of them 'good' some of them 'bad'. What u need is to evolve ur own way of screening out folk n wen I say screen I don't mean look for perfect people, ain't no such on this earth yet. U will have qualities dat are endearing to u so look out for them, gather people around who have this qualities n even if it's not from among them u get to meet someone u wanna have a relationship wit u will get more confident in people so dat u meet new friends and acquaintances u will see a whole new dimension to people.
If u are have the pressure from ur peers u need to tell urself dat dis is ur life ain't none of em gonna share ur pain wen it comes. People love to be around joy but pain makes em retreat. Take ur time n live ur life opening ur eyes to d beauty around u especially in people cos even though we humans can be rotten we sometimes find diamonds in the rough amidst d dirt.

life's about decision.we all have 2 make decisions--that's what makes us adults.
All decisions have rewards and consequences.

am kinda not into all dem relationship fings, cos i feel am gna get cheated on, dnt knw if any1 feels d same way abt realtionships

Hmm, poster, i dont think its ideal to go into a relationship with that mindset, while there's the possibility that he might cheat on you, there's also the odd chance that he wont and your mind set would lead you to suspect his every move, and that cannot be good for the relationship. Just be careful who you give your heart to and take things slowly, that way you'd probably sense if he's the one before you travel too far down the road.

excuse me amebo or wateva u call urself, dnt get my father involved in all dis, geeez dude i dnt even knw u nd u dere gettin all worked up ova nufffin, i jst voiced out wat i wanted to nd ask 4 pple's contributions nt ur insults, if i want a realationship i wuld get one, am nt so keen on dem cos at d end of d day am still 19 nd none of d guys i date nw is gna marry me, so y d fuss, like one of d guys said as i grow older nd become matured i wuld tend 2 go 4 mre matured pple hu ar likely nt 2 cheat, rite nw within my age range wat d guys jst wnt is sex nd wen dey find a cuter girl dey ditch u , no 18/ 19 year old wants commitment.

Who's this silly young girl seeking for notice ?

Who's this silly young girl seeking for notice ?

Go read ur books young girl. I guess u still in school,u dont have a mate on NL.

there's nothing as mr or mrs perfect, we just have to love the inperfect pipu perfectly. just focus on inner values that last.