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Topic Title: Did I made a mistake (wrong)

Correct Title: Did I make a mistake (take note )

ladydiva:
your family should understand that in as much as they love you and wish you the best you have your life to live. six years is not child's play, the both of you have been through a lot. Your uncle shouldn't have asked her how much she earns because it's non of his business. As for the genotype, that is not an issue you are AA. so that area is covered. As for the age issue, I believed she never hid her age from you. What if she lied about it will your uncle say all he is saying. As for him saying Edo prefer marrying from their place that is not true. My ex was from there and was willing to wed me but I left because of issues he couldn't address. If she has been polite and humble to you all these years what will make her change. 6 years,bia Dede GI no try at all. Most of the questions he asked her shouldn't have been asked. Except that of Where do you work. I feel for the lady so much.In the end the choice is yours

IamLEGEND1:
SS? this guy dey play with fire.

Cool23:
Dude we are bros and I dont think it is such a good idea not because of ss but because of age it ain't good to marry ur agemate and another thing working class she is earning more than u at u sure that is not an issue and ur family ain't standing before u and let's look at the good part u guys would earn a lot if ur money is combined u would have great accommodation ur children will not be ss but any choice u make is right and if the love is there go for it we will support u

chinnasa:


Lol this guy funny. My GF strong pass you she get mind fund her education without her family support. The level of trust and respect i have for her i have not had it towards any body. Yes she is SS but not chronic just normal malaria like every other person so abeg no fear.

chinnasa:


Thanks bro. By the time she drop two children and we are leaving cool no body to remember all this talk rather na de go sing with me and join in thanksgiving because in every situation 'NA GOD WIN'

IamLEGEND1:
na when you born pikin and all ur net salary for the whole year is spent on hospital bills and you still have to be jumping from one relative to another asking for help, na then you go know.

This one no be laughing matter....try to see the bigger picture here....and don't allow emotions cloud ur judgement. there is only one way out-Dump her. Chances are high your GF will probably die young too. So no even think am.

senibo1:
for me young senibo, I will never Marry any lady with same age with me


the ish of money and genotype isn't an ish for me, I wouldn't want to look out side after marriage or someone who will ask me both of us who senior each other one day.


ask your self if you really love her, if yes. then go ahead

chinnasa:



Older ladies in my office have more respect than all this Telamondo girls. Before a woman will disrespect you guy make you same you done cast or you do something bad. Trust be told I know age is important i get your point. Thanks

chinnasa:


Ok. But let me ask you a question. WHAT IF THIS YOUNG GIRL IS YOUR SISTER? will advise me to dump her like you said?

Th last 6 years being wonderful and i know when its get to marriage it wouldn't be the same. But come to think of it.
WHAT IS MARRIAGE?,
WHO INSTITUTED MARRIAGE?,
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE?
WHAT DOES MARRIAGE MEANS TO YOU?


I don't have all the money in the world but be rest assured i have GOD and after seeking his grace and mercy and HE tells me to go ahead my brother I WOULD NOT BE NEEDING YOUR ADVICE.

mhisbliss:
you should listen to your heart and try to know if you actually love her, because her condition is a very painful and bad one but its manageable and as for your kids they wont have the SS genotype they will just be carriers AS that's if you're sure you're actually AA. You shouldn't leave her because someone made you to, it should be your decision then try to put yourself in her shoes and do what you think its fair if it was you

IamLEGEND1:

I have never been one to allow sentiments screw with my decisions. My advice will be the same for anyone,from a total stranger to the closest relative.

In moments like this, God can come down to earth,scream in ur face & you wouldn't even know,because you're so fixated upon ur heart's desire that nothing else matters.

We all know how this story ends,you would doggedly push through with the wedding because you believe you two were meant to be....there is nothing in this world as enticing as forbidden romance- You & Yours bravely taking on the world...... with nothing but the embers of ur love to keep you warm.

I can't do anything to stop you,non of us on this forum can.....but trust me,when reality sets in.... your eyes go open.

IHATEPUZZY:
Op based on ur monthly earnings, I will say tz not a bad idea, I mean dia re lot of families wia d wife earns more Dan d hubby, besides dia z a chance of u getting anoda job.



but on d issue of phenotype I'll say CAPITAL NO to d marriage. u need to think about d future of your unborn kids and not just d love btw u both.

do not bring dos precious kids to this world to suffer d sickness they know notin about


#my 2cent