olaleks007:


any lady that has that kind of mindset to sex is not matured @ all

what do u think

herbie27:
You failed to put yourself in these ladies shoes b4 coming to talk about sex, sex is not the only thing that keeps a relationship going.

why do ladies say "he used me".
being lied to, being the guy's maga, marriage promises that weren't actualized, telling you he's faithful, just to find out he has three side chicks, some ladies end up realising the guy has even engaged a particular girl, Number of years invested in the relationship, telling guys who were serious with you that you're in a relationship, being dumped at the least expected time. Op, in this situation why won't women say they were used?.

herbie27:
You failed to put yourself in these ladies shoes b4 coming to talk about sex, sex is not the only thing that keeps a relationship going.

why do ladies say "he used me".
being lied to, being the guy's maga, marriage promises that weren't actualized, telling you he's faithful, just to find out he has three side chicks, some ladies end up realising the guy has even engaged a particular girl, Number of years invested in the relationship, telling guys who were serious with you that you're in a relationship, being dumped at the least expected time. Op, in this situation why won't women say they were used?.

mizzbouqui:

You are still not getting what I meant
Okay, Your guy dumped you because of a lady, or he broke your heart one way or the other
The first thing you should not say is that, he sex and dump you when you both enjoyed it together
Most ladies regret over breakups because sex was involved, thinking they had sex with him just to please him, which is not true
Have sex because you want to, have fun with it not because you want to keep your man or you want him committed , by doing that you won't feel you've lost something valuable to him when the relationship comes to an end

I know there are other ways you can tell a guy he used and dump you but I'm only laying emphasis on sex, please get the meaning of the thread

prettyAdaolisa:


Any guy thar has that mindset of chopping and dumping is not matured at all...

herbie27:
Ok!, lets come back to this sex you laid emphasis on, do you think that just having sex with a guy will make me feel used when the relationship ends?, Hell No!.

mizzbouqui:

And that was why I included most ladies, I didn't generalize

herbie27:
You don't get it Madam.

No girl will feel used just because she dated a guy and all that was involved was sex, we say we were used due to a guy's double standard.

Bye!.

mizzbouqui:
How?

herbie27:
You failed to put yourself in these ladies shoes b4 coming to talk about sex, sex is not the only thing that keeps a relationship going.

why do ladies say "he used me".
being lied to, being the guy's maga, marriage promises that weren't actualized, telling you he's faithful, just to find out he has three side chicks, some ladies end up realising the guy has even engaged a particular girl, Number of years invested in the relationship, telling guys who were serious with you that you're in a relationship, being dumped at the least expected time. Op, in this situation why won't women say they were used?.

prettyAdaolisa:


Any guy thar has that mindset of chopping and dumping is not matured at all...

prettyAdaolisa:

Meaning?

mizzbouqui:

Hey I'm not
Though I use to have such feelings, but that was a very long time ago
I'm too mature for such now

Qualer:



mmmhhh... this is interesting! now you have my attention...
looks like we need to discuss some serious business!

senibo1:
Thought you the one being used

maybe dumped

mizzbouqui:
Nope

herbie27:
So you think when ladies say "he used me", is because of sex?, there's a lot that meets the eye.

senibo1:
that's cool


Hope you had a great day today?

Youngpo413:
since most ladies do not have anything else to offer, so it's easy to make such assumptions, don't blame her.

prettyAdaolisa:


Any guy thar has that mindset of chopping and dumping is not matured at all...

mizzbouqui:
Think before you talk It's obvious you didn't

mizzbouqui:
Yeah

Youngpo413:
all these won't happen if ladies have learned to close their legs till their wedding night...or is it really a big deal?

senibo1:
you this babe


why are you cool today? I thought you'd reciprocate with a hash typos today


Hope you went to church today, abi amebo know gree you

Youngpo413:
all these won't happen if ladies have learned to close their legs till their wedding night...or is it really a big deal?

senibo1:


hey!

why will they close their legs do you know where they breath from?

however, closing of legs is not the best option, cause now! we the guys are the once doing the closing they're now doing the opening

prettyAdaolisa:

Meaning?