Obynolee:


In law as in the husband's younger brother have no right to stay in his elder's brother's house to go to school or learn a vocation?. The husband should chase them away because he is married and suppose to have privacy?.

Obynolee:



He has no right staying in his relation house to go to school or finish his studies?, he should rent a house where his relation is willing to accommodate him?.I wish God gave me your type as wife so that I will teach you how to accommodate my relation.

FreeWorld23:
[s][/s]I pity your husband

pragmatistm:
Wicked thought. But you don't know what will happen to your own children tomorrow. Why do many women always this thoughtless?

Taryur3:

Chai...na one man go marry this your type o...I rebuke your type as house wife in Jesus name.see as you just gladly wrote this rubbish here

sorom4:
that how wicked women role

Rossy99:
An undergraduate of polytechnic staying with us is growing wings. He doesn't help in domestic chores when hubby is away, he does when hubby is around, he Waits for us to tell him what to do before he does it and he is really making me angry which i hate to be.

When i report him to hubby, he won't do anything or even chastise him instead he complaints whenever i give him food that his food is too small. I'm not a bad type to give him little food cos i have conscience and it disturbs me wen i do bad but he is a glutton that only eats and sleeps without doing anything even to wash plates he use to eat.

What do i do?

barcaboi:

wonder why modern women have issues wt som1 staying with them.....advice her 2 learn to tolerate people. ..dude wldnt be there 4ever....wch 1 of us haven't stayed wt a relative or so in our lives....ignore him instead like u wld do all chores if he wasn't staying with you. ....works better

sagitariusbaby:


You are very wicked and I hope you learn life's lessons soon. My mum accommodated several strangers in our house and till now she has single handedly trained 16 graduates among which are 7 of us his biological children.
I just pity your kind of mentality

farouk0403:


plsssssssss stop

from the way you speak I can bluntly say you leave a sad life, so you can't help someone for free right?
some women are selfish and arrogant, don't forget you are a lady you will also have children's and you you don't know what the future will behold for them, may be they will find their self in the same situation.


Helping a single soul won't do you any harm neither will it reduce your monthly income,
it will just clear any obstacle that will try to block your way in the future.

banzuz:


I see you like a lot of private affairs ... affairs minister, your kind of wife i need to change bed every year...

CrazyQuinn:
I've never stayed with an extended relative and I don't expect one to stay with me

banzuz:


See your name, crazy quinn... you type pf wife ehn, i cant keep.

Rossy99:
An undergraduate of polytechnic staying with us is growing wings. He doesn't help in domestic chores when hubby is away, he does when hubby is around, he Waits for us to tell him what to do before he does it and he is really making me angry which i hate to be.

When i report him to hubby, he won't do anything or even chastise him instead he complaints whenever i give him food that his food is too small. I'm not a bad type to give him little food cos i have conscience and it disturbs me wen i do bad but he is a glutton that only eats and sleeps without doing anything even to wash plates he use to eat.

What do i do?

BrutusOj:
Why are you so interested in " kicking" the guy out since. I ve read comments by two female here and they offered better advice a virtuous woman is expected to give. Do you have idea of the relationship between the lady' hubby and the guy' father? do you know the kind of help the hubby has gotten from the guy' father in the past? I fear your type of woman oo..shuoo

barcaboi:

staying with you for a while wldnt do any harm.....my mum boarded different people while I was growing up and till date I enjoy the benefits even tho then we had lil issue.....ur kids enjoy the benefits in future and even if dey don't; God repays u.....all in all, na patience and tolerance

bigiyaro:
privacy my foot. in Africa and naija in particular, wen u r going into marriage, jst adjust your mind that you are marrying the entire family, ur hubby or wife is someone's child and if you think becos u married them, the family ties n bonds should be severed, u have another thing coming. Do you know if the boy's father brot up he husband?

butanep:



It's so obvious you aren't married. You talk like a kid

banttieman:


Cindy truly rocks.
Thanks in advance.

donbenedict:
naaah. I live alone

CrazyQuinn:
wow, the guy has no right to stay for that long what happened to privacy? Is he leaving soon? If not, complain to your husband and tell him your mind, if he doesn't listen, keep complaining to your husband until he tell the guy to leave. It's not right

CrazyQuinn:
need a shoulder to lean on? Really? I don't do such, it's not in my nature

ibehKachukwu:


Oh really?

I have seen the one man army.

Can we talk so u gimmi ur secret cos I ve tried but failed

Rossy99:
Yes,he informed me wen d boy was coming nd i approve it but i was not inform dt he wud stay long,wat i was told was dt he jst got admission nd wud stay wit us till he find accomodation.it was later dt he had settle down dt i got to knw dt he wud b staying 2ruout his prog and dt was not even a prob to me though i don't stay at home for long den,i do travel most weekdays to supervise my project in d neighbouring town b4 i later finish it nd hardly travel out of town again .we get along well atfirst but after going for semester break nd coming back he change totally.

lolaluv1:


How do you know she exaggerated? You are biased I believe due to your own experience....

Rossy99:
An undergraduate of polytechnic staying with us is growing wings. He doesn't help in domestic chores when hubby is away, he does when hubby is around, he Waits for us to tell him what to do before he does it and he is really making me angry which i hate to be.

When i report him to hubby, he won't do anything or even chastise him instead he complaints whenever i give him food that his food is too small. I'm not a bad type to give him little food cos i have conscience and it disturbs me wen i do bad but he is a glutton that only eats and sleeps without doing anything even to wash plates he use to eat.

What do i do?

JustHere2Observ:


Helping out in the house you live is not turning the person to house help. Washing your own plate after eating is not slavery. If the husband can give you accommodation, wife cooks for you, the least you can do is assist in the home in appreciation.