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Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:34pm On Aug 21, 2016
Its an old trick. You can call it, "the street harassment"

Studies (including my very own experiences) have shown that men of a particular breed do not find it funny when a woman's sense of worth stems from any other source but them, esp (certainly) not from within her.

The moment a woman who is attractive but not according to conventional standards dares take pride in herself, that would be the beginning of her sorrows with them.
You wonder why?

-They are jealous that this "ugghh" woman who is not a mainstream belle if esteemed has a better chance of getting what she wants than them. So what would that make of them?

-They would get more casual sex from an average woman if they told her she is ugly and bad and unwanted. True, they will because when we get down to the real deal, we find that many women are very gullible and easy to manipulate.

Where is all this coming from. Its a deep-seated anger that activates when a harasser is not getting enough attention from the woman he desires or would desire as the case may be
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The old street harrassment patterns thus; A woman is beautiful until she walks past the harasser without accepting his advances How dare she not acknowledge his presence or accept his proposal? Then he fishes out the problem with her nose, her leg, her voice.

And then declares himself the final judge of how a beautiful woman is and is not.


Apply the same thing to a successful woman. Men who shame women see themselves as gods. And every woman that wants success must bow to their whims and caprices. They must be at the centre of her achievement.

Even when is said that some women have done so much for themselves without a personal male influence, they would hear non of that. To them, a woman's existence should be tied around them. And the only thing she is permitted to meet is their narrow-minded and unrealistic beauty standard. For what else, apart from looks, is a woman suppose to offer? (they wonder)




p/s for those doubting if this piece is mine should please search for this write up and see if they wont be referred back here.
If i did copy i would have provided the link where i dubbed.

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by donbenedict(m): 6:36pm On Aug 21, 2016
I think Linda Ikeji is in a better position to write this article and certainly not the Op.

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by halfricanadian(f): 6:38pm On Aug 21, 2016
lol if I hear I make a fellow human being cos he Is a man my centre of my life


where will I now put the one that created me

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:39pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
sad
why sad smiley
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by donbenedict(m): 6:40pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
why sad smiley
lol I modified.. no offense cheesy
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:43pm On Aug 21, 2016
halfricanadian:
lol if I hear I make a fellow human being cos he Is a man my centre of my life


where will I now put the one that created me
Lolss hmm so how do you handle a man that calls u ugly because u refused him?

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by Koleman(m): 6:43pm On Aug 21, 2016
Abeg sorry no vex again. I been no know say e go vex you
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Aug 21, 2016
Where's the sense in this write-up?
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:44pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
I think Linda Ikeji is in a better position to write this article and certainly not the Op.
undecided
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by IamLEGEND1: 6:44pm On Aug 21, 2016
which yeye studies.
every linus now go claim 'studies'.
No one shames women more than they shame each other.....so give us a break jare.

All ur problems na men dey cause am.
abeg come up with a better argument.

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:45pm On Aug 21, 2016
Koleman:
Abeg sorry no vex again. I been no know say e go vex you
undecided
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by halfricanadian(f): 6:46pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
Lolss hmm so how do you handle a man that calls u ugly because u refused him?

I simply laugh it off nd do my things

when I was told I'm wonderfully nd fearfully made

if I'm called ugly its motivates me to work hard earn well nd find a man dat will flaunt my beauty to their face

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:47pm On Aug 21, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
which yeye studies.
every linus now go claim 'studies'.
No one shames women more than they shame each other.....so give us a break jare.

All ur problems na men dey cause am.
abeg come up with a better argument.
Type like a gentle man cos i am allergic to vulgarism
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by ojun50(m): 6:48pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
Lolss hmm so how do you handle a man that calls u ugly because u refused him?

she knw she is ugly so she will nt pick offence in it.
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by MUVA(m): 6:49pm On Aug 21, 2016
In other words, men shame women to stroke their own ego's?
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:49pm On Aug 21, 2016
halfricanadian:


I simply laugh it off nd do my things

when I was told I'm wonderfully nd fearfully made

if I'm called ugly its motivates me to work hard earn well nd find a man dat will flaunt my beauty to their face
wow how great! smiley
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:50pm On Aug 21, 2016
MUVA:
In other words, men shame women to stroke their own ego's?
Yes bae. wink And i am glad u dont
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by halfricanadian(f): 6:51pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
wow how great! smiley


tanx asin every disappointment we turn it to a blessing
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by EmperorLee(m): 6:53pm On Aug 21, 2016
lipsrsealed
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by IamLEGEND1: 6:55pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
Type like a gentle man cos i am allergic to vulgarism
You're allergic to vulgarity. Do I look like I care?
abi I know you before?

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by DaviiiD(m): 6:56pm On Aug 21, 2016
i see!!!!

"copy and paste" work here!

Op that brain of yours isn't exposed enough, to be this creative!

so you copied a post that am sure that your brain didn't understand fully and you choose to post it here!

Quick question who cares about your opinion of men? i will forever repudiate whatever crap you people will ever say!

i hate to bring up scriptures but do i need to remind you, that it is written that man will "FOREVER" hold "dominion" over you

God is wise in your feast for knowledge(feminism) you have all become foo*ls

continue posting crap like that will change anything!

"HE MADE YOU FROM ME, FOR ME!!!!!

reciprocity angry angry angry

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 6:56pm On Aug 21, 2016
halfricanadian:



tanx asin every disappointment we turn it to a blessing
Very correct lady. Most of us hv faced a lot from these sickos but whether we pick ourselves up and set our own standards and take pride in them, depends on our will not to fail ourselves again.

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by MUVA(m): 6:57pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
Yes bae. wink And i am glad u dont
grin
Stop patronising me jare undecided



Back to the topic: I personally think that guys who like to berate women just to feel good about themselves have self-esteem issues. I'm not talking about a particular nairalander though.. wink

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by donbenedict(m): 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2016
grin



Iamlegend1 dishing it out like it's hot cheesy
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by jamalnation(m): 6:58pm On Aug 21, 2016
Ok noted
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by mrmrmister: 6:59pm On Aug 21, 2016
I dont shame girls to stroke my ego
I only shame Shameless girls grin grin grin
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by halfricanadian(f): 7:00pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:
Very correct lady. Most of us hv faced a lot from these sickos but whether we pick ourselves up and set our own standards and take pride in them, depends on our will not to fail ourselves again.


exactly I can't fail mysef d more u try to bring me downd more I raise my esteem high I was created to excel have dominion take control of my life make choices nd not please ANYONE BUT THE ONE THAT CREATED ME.

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Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by IamLEGEND1: 7:03pm On Aug 21, 2016
donbenedict:
grin
Iamlegend dishing it out like it's hot cheesy
baba,no try stoke fire wey no even dey there. grin
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by LuvU2(f): 7:04pm On Aug 21, 2016
MUVA:

grin
Stop patronising me jare undecided



Back to the topic: I personally think that guys who like to berate women just to feel good about themselves have self-esteem issues. I'm not talking about a particular nairalander though.. wink

grin yea not a particular nairalander but lots of them.

To add to their failing self -esteem, many hve been falsely indoctrinated into thinking, everything on earth has its place such as men ontop and women down below. And they want it to stay like that.
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by donbenedict(m): 7:05pm On Aug 21, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
baba,no try stoke fire wey no even dey there. grin
grin my brother
IamLEGEND1:
You're allergic to vulgarity. Do I look like I care?
abi I know you before?
na this ur comment make me burst laff grin
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by MUVA(m): 7:07pm On Aug 21, 2016
LuvU2:


grin yea not a particular nairalander but lots of them.

To add to their failing self -esteem, many hve been falsely indoctrinated into thinking, everything on earth has its place such as men ontop and women down below. And they want it to stay like that.

And how would my snowflake rather have it? smiley
Re: Reason Most Men Shame Women. by MUVA(m): 7:09pm On Aug 21, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
baba,no try stoke fire wey no even dey there. grin

gringrin

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