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Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Terry44: 6:17pm On Apr 01
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by emerazz(m): 6:19pm On Apr 01
Bro return the farm tool to the street where she belongs simple...

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by lilvicky68(m): 6:21pm On Apr 01
Oga the issue I have with you is that you paid flight for woman..ah!!! Na that one pain me pass..when I'm saying people should not put all their eggs in one basket . you see..

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by baralatie(m): 6:23pm On Apr 01
ouch??
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by baralatie(m): 6:24pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too . For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.
you say you are waiting for her to apologize!

na your death certificate be this o

if you no wan die run like antelope wey see lion from afar.antelope wey get sense no go wait dey do probability calculus

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by ONYEUTALI: 6:26pm On Apr 01
I'll give you the greatest relationship advice that has ever been given. It's so alien I fear you might not be able to understand it. If you do, you'll live happily henceforth.

First, know that the perfect partner don't exist. If you still believe in that nonsense, quit reading my text.
Secondly, what do you want in marriage? Your partner, children, the title of Mister or you just want to marry because people marry? The two important reasons for marriage (for a man) can only be one of first two (or both of them). If you want children, you don't forcibly need a wife to have them. If you want a wife (or a wife and children), then remember the first point I made up there.
Here is the relationship advice.
Knowing that the perfect partner don't exist, you marry the better-among the rest (of course the "better" is subjective) and canonise her demons. You know what that means? It means everything about her must be good to you. You must love her and absolutely love her. Whether she's a Nun or a hoe. You have no right to ask your partner to change her nature to suit you. Why this? Because it is her you chose and she has every right to be happy in her conjugal life.
Marrying her and wanting her to stop a certain character is like buying a black car and painting it red. If you want a red car, go buy a red car. But since you accepted with my first point up there that a red car don't exist (that the perfect partner don't exist), buy the next-best colour and stick to it as the best (common sense tells us the Best/Perfect choice can't be edited. If you edit it, it's because it's not perfect/the best).
So if your wife cheats on you or you're suspecting her of cheating, tell her to sincerely tell you the truth. If truly she cheats and you don't want a cheater as partner, breakup with her. If she cheats and you think she's still the "better-among-the-others", go on and marry her but don't ever complain again, ara agbachila gi nti.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by majamajic(m): 6:26pm On Apr 01
The only girl u can give account of is the one under your roof , not even that it's guaranteed

All man to his cross !

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by emperorAY(m): 6:27pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.
i will advise you to break up with her because you might never forgive her. apologies don't wash away the sins of a cheating girlfriend

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by dawnomike(m): 6:31pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.
Put yourself together, confront her with the truth and facts then, simply walk away in peace.
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Chloraseptic: 6:38pm On Apr 01
emperorAY:

i will advise you to break up with her because you might never forgive her. apologies don't wash away the sins of a cheating girlfriend

Too long to read but I just understood the whole writeup through your comment that's about a cheating girlfriend..

All girlfriends cheat but just like the saying goes you only know a sexually active female when they get pregnant

As for advice, no betrays their instinct to take advice from someone else..

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Aliyeous(m): 7:02pm On Apr 01
oga waiting for a woman to apologize is like waiting for a donkey to grow horns

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Perfect888: 7:03pm On Apr 01
Somehow on this same issue....
We dated for almost a year
She claimed to love me so much but I discovered that she has multiple partners.
I confronted her and she claimed to do away with all of them but am not still convince and am currently giving her a second chance.
I'm sincerely tired of relationship as it stands now, women are devil.

It's God that will surely help me.
I'm putting everything in God's hand now

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Qatar2022: 7:31pm On Apr 01
You're indeed confused,. Your wife to be is living with her ex bf and you are calling her good woman , your own mugu is too high

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by zed7: 7:37pm On Apr 01
You feel pained because you invested so much. Never invest so much in a woman you are not married to. It never ends well.
Confront her and listen to her explanations.

She has already cheated on you but the question is will she change? Some people like to have second options but will remain faithful in when married.

It's in your hands to decide what you want. Whatever we say here may not help, the heart wants what it wants.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by profilemessages: 7:49pm On Apr 01
emerazz:
Bro return the farm tool to the street where she belongs simple...

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by harmargedon: 8:29pm On Apr 01
Run, and don't look back

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by AgentGoat: 8:32pm On Apr 01
Where is falseprophet1. please come
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by FalseProphet1(m): 8:53pm On Apr 01
The dark forces sent that girl to destroy your destiny, if you foolishly marry her, you will die a wretched pauper. This I have seen.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by COURVOISier(m): 8:55pm On Apr 01
Lmao. Is this story for real. Like reality? First hand experience? Happened to you? Video evidence or I don't believe it grin grin grin grin
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Juliearth(f): 9:19pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.




I think she is confused. Let her in on your findings. If she is truly sorry, she would apologise and turn a new leaf. When that happens, you still have to closely monitor her to know if the change is genuine or similar to that promised us by Oshiomhole's party
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by frozen70(f): 9:48pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.

Seat her down, tell her that you are giving her the whole time she needs on earth to sort out herifrkm the extra relationships she has been having

Thars it
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Homeboiy: 10:24pm On Apr 01
Op to slap you front and back dey hungry me


Maybe the story Na lie sha
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Elliot2(m): 10:40pm On Apr 01
Bro!!!

Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by 5Gbabe: 10:44pm On Apr 01
ONYEUTALI:
I'll give you the greatest relationship advice that has ever been given. It's so alien I fear you might not be able to understand it. If you do, you'll live happily henceforth.

First, know that the perfect partner don't exist. If you still believe in that nonsense, quit reading my text.
Secondly, what do you want in marriage? Your partner, children, the title of Mister or you just want to marry because people marry? The two important reasons for marriage (for a man) can only be one of first two (or both of them). If you want children, you don't forcibly need a wife to have them. If you want a wife (or a wife and children), then remember the first point I made up there.
Here is the relationship advice.
Knowing that the perfect partner don't exist, you marry the better-among the rest (of course the "better" is subjective) and canonise her demons. You know what that means? It means everything about her must be good to you. You must love her and absolutely love her. Whether she's a Nun or a hoe. You have no right to ask your partner to change her nature to suit you. Why this? Because it is her you chose and she has every right to be happy in her conjugal life.
Marrying her and wanting her to stop a certain character is like buying a black car and painting it red. If you want a red car, go buy a red car. But since you accepted with my first point up there that a red car don't exist (that the perfect partner don't exist), buy the next-best colour and stick to it as the best (common sense tells us the Best/Perfect choice can't be edited. If you edit it, it's because it's not perfect/the best).
So if your wife cheats on you or you're suspecting her of cheating, tell her to sincerely tell you the truth. If truly she cheats and you don't want a cheater as partner, breakup with her. If she cheats and you think she's still the "better-among-the-others", go on and marry her but don't ever complain again, ara agbachila gi nti.
oga something day tell me say na the girl be this
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Elliot2(m): 10:46pm On Apr 01
Do the needful

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by 5Gbabe: 10:48pm On Apr 01
see my guy any girl way carry her pussy go give another guy when u guys still day date oga she go do the same thing when u guys get married oya use ur 99

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by HonourableUche(m): 10:55pm On Apr 01
Oga, walk away, I say it again walk away. There's a high probability that she'll cheat even if you marry her. My two cents.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Dreyton36: 11:42pm On Apr 01
ONYEUTALI:
I'll give you the greatest relationship advice that has ever been given. It's so alien I fear you might not be able to understand it. If you do, you'll live happily henceforth.

First, know that the perfect partner don't exist. If you still believe in that nonsense, quit reading my text.
Secondly, what do you want in marriage? Your partner, children, the title of Mister or you just want to marry because people marry? The two important reasons for marriage (for a man) can only be one of first two (or both of them). If you want children, you don't forcibly need a wife to have them. If you want a wife (or a wife and children), then remember the first point I made up there.
Here is the relationship advice.
Knowing that the perfect partner don't exist, you marry the better-among the rest (of course the "better" is subjective) and canonise her demons. You know what that means? It means everything about her must be good to you. You must love her and absolutely love her. Whether she's a Nun or a hoe. You have no right to ask your partner to change her nature to suit you. Why this? Because it is her you chose and she has every right to be happy in her conjugal life.
Marrying her and wanting her to stop a certain character is like buying a black car and painting it red. If you want a red car, go buy a red car. But since you accepted with my first point up there that a red car don't exist (that the perfect partner don't exist), buy the next-best colour and stick to it as the best (common sense tells us the Best/Perfect choice can't be edited. If you edit it, it's because it's not perfect/the best).
So if your wife cheats on you or you're suspecting her of cheating, tell her to sincerely tell you the truth. If truly she cheats and you don't want a cheater as partner, breakup with her. If she cheats and you think she's still the "better-among-the-others", go on and marry her but don't ever complain again, ara agbachila gi nti.

Chai make God let our enemies confuse like this guy

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:42pm On Apr 01
Please marry her. She's a very good woman.

She'll cheat on you even when you get married, but at least she'll apologise.

It's the apology you're waiting for at the moment, right? Don't worry, is it not just an apology? You'll get it.

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by SeekerofTruth1: 11:51pm On Apr 01
Juliearth:





I think she is confused. Let her in on your findings. If she is truly sorry, she would apologise and turn a new leaf. When that happens, you still have to closely monitor her to know if the change is genuine or similar to that promised us by Oshiomhole's party


Please Op I Beg you in God's name,do not listen to the advice of this woman. Women don't care about men and so will Try to Absolve Their fellow woman from Faults and blame,while telling the man to Forgive her and sort things out with her.

Don't ever Take Relationship Advice from women!

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Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by SeekerofTruth1: 11:52pm On Apr 01
PrimadonnaO:
Please marry her. She's a very good woman.

She'll cheat on you even when you get married, but at least she'll apologise.

It's the apology you're waiting for at the moment, right? Don't worry, is it not just an apology? You'll get it.

@Op

Dont ever take relationship advice from women!
Re: Help!!! Please How Do I Handle This Situation???? by Ilekokonit: 11:58pm On Apr 01
Terry44:
I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend.

If you did not find out she was squatting with er Ex-boyfriend she would have left you to continue assuming she was squatting with a girlfriend.

I remember on a Christmas day some years ago my then girlfriend came to spend some time with me and on Christmas day, she received a call from a man and the man asked where she was and she said she was with her friends. After her call, I asked her why she did not tell the man she was with her boyfriend and she then tried to lie that she said she was with her fiend - singular - while she actually told the man she was with her friends - plural - in a bid to lie to the man that she was with her girlfriends.

I just could not put up with her lying blatantly about what I clearly heard and on the spot i told her to pick her things and leave my house.

So, back to your story, put yourself in her ex-boyfriends shoes. Will you allow your ex-girlfriend to squat in your flat and not have sex with her ? Your answer to this question is loaded with what you ned to do about the current situation.

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