You av dis girl or guy both of you had promised to marry each other, but unknowly she or he had a child elsewhere, and he or she kept d secret. God had His way, u heard abt it from another source and u ask ur partner dere is no how d truth cud be denied cos u met directly with d baby daddy or baby mama who she had d child with. Will u still go ahead to marry such partner who cud keep such tin for u. This had happened to many people, and let opinion be share here

Honesty, transparency and being open minded re the ingredients of true intimacy

If he/she can't be honest with the past and keep such a big secret,then the marriage will be shaky wen the true eventually comes out cos trust will vanish into thin air.

And now that the past has being dug out and undeniable, then "a lot" of reconsidering will ave to be done.

The first poster have said it all.

Lying is a habit I cnt tolerate, if a guy truly loves u, he will accept ur child nd if he doesn't, u dnt have to deny ur child to win his love.


Don't think I will b able to trust him again nd won't go on with the marriage

Am seeing some brilliant comments here, dis issue normally occurred in a relationship