Dear PAS readers, we have another tricky love situation on our hand. This time, it is a guy whose girl is double dating him and he is confused as to what to do. Read the email as we got it and drop your mature comments only.

I’m in a relationship with a girl I love so much, we started dating January but when I met her I asked if she had a bf and she said NO that she was single now we have dated for 8 months now she told me she has a bf she has been dating since December but she had to lie to me that she was single coz she liked me and couldn’t turn me down, I asked who the guy was and she told me the guy was the same guy she lied to me was her brother, she said she’s only with the guy coz her mom wants her to be with the guy coz her mom and the guy’s mom works in the same hospital in the UK now she keeps saying she loves me and can’t let go of me buh at the same time she can’t leave the boy coz of her mom and still she can’t tell the boy she’s dating me but she said she yet to have sex with him but she has with me, I don’t belive tha thou but even if I don’t care all I want is her in my life. Now she’s saying she has to talk to her mom abt the whole thing tha she doesn’t love the boy and all so basically my fate of been with her depends strongly on wah her mom thinks….AM confused wah do I do

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Hmmm.... She is having sex with the other guy. Trust me, I know these things.

You are a back up "UPS" that she cannot let go. If I were you, I'll chill and be collecting all collectibles. Going forward, regulate your feelings for her so that you don't hurt too bad when she decides to quit the game she is playing with you.

Find a new girl friend and dump her hard before she dumps you....that way you stabilize the share of the hurt

I Smell Heartbreak Stories That Touch!!!

UndisputedBosom:
Find a new girl friend and dump her hard before she dumps you....that way you stabilize the share of the hurt

true talk some people can b selfish nd heartless dey don't have any plans for u yet lead u on for nothing

halfricanadian:


true talk some people can b selfish nd heartless dey don't have any plans for u yet lead u on for nothing

Of course...b4 i parted ways wit my ex...she said she dreamt of her leavin me and after some years she came bck pleaded with me and i took her bck....i was like in my thought "beta neva dat wit me cox e go be u lyk nollywood film wen i go look u 4 eye cum say No".....shame 2 her that she allowed herself 2 venture into that dream

UndisputedBosom:



Of course...b4 i parted ways wit my ex...she said she dreamt of her leavin me and after some years she came bck pleaded with me and i took her bck....i was like in my thought "beta neva dat wit me cox e go be u lyk nollywood film wen i go look u 4 eye cum say No".....shame 2 her that she allowed herself 2 venture into that dream

eeya sorry we all av had shares of bad relationships

it only made us stronger

halfricanadian:

eeya sorry we all av had shares of bad relationships
it only made us stronger

I was a very picky guy but never knew i encounter such

Though the breakup was neither her fault nor mine

UndisputedBosom:



I was a very picky guy but never knew i encounter such


Though the breakup was neither her fault nor mine

awwww sorry u are stronger and wiser wish ur ex well nd b happy

halfricanadian:

awwww sorry u are stronger and wiser wish ur ex well nd b happy

Already done that....but i hope she doesn't go "ballistic"

UndisputedBosom:



Already done that....but i hope she doesn't go "ballistic"

ballistic how? u both aint togeda

her own is berra shebi she dated u abi

I was dating mysef all along lol tales for my future kids

halfricanadian:

ballistic how? u both aint togeda
her own is berra shebi she dated u abi
I was dating mysef all along lol tales for my future kids

U're such a funny lady....i wonder how u picture ur ex in ur mind

Well am findin it hard 2 let her go shaaa

UndisputedBosom:



U're such a funny lady....i wonder how u picture ur ex in ur mind


Well am findin it hard 2 let her go shaaa

I picture him as a wicked human I see him so wicked

oh I forgot I dated mysef u kno

hard to let her go? lol don't hold her down if it was to work it wud av ok

be happy u only live once

halfricanadian:


I picture him as a wicked human I see him so wicked

oh I forgot I dated mysef u kno

hard to let her go? lol don't hold her down if it was to work it wud av ok

be happy u only live once

You know the pure in heart always xpect the same but only to get the direct opposite


What do u mean in the bolded sentence

UndisputedBosom:



You know the pure in heart always xpect the same but only to get the direct opposite


What do u mean in the bolded sentence

I av been dating mysef

wen I thought I was in a relationship I actually was in a situationship I wasnt even a main chick not a side chick I wasn't even his chick I was a spectator nd a secretary to record all d ladies he had been with cos he pratically made me aware lol silly child no respect nothing

may I never meet such again I will chase him nd play his hrt


dats wat I meant by dat

halfricanadian:


I av been dating mysef

wen I thought I was in a relationship I actually was in a situationship I wasnt even a main chick not a side chick I wasn't even his chick I was a spectator nd a secretary to record all d ladies he had been with cos he pratically made me aware lol silly child no respect nothing

may I never meet such again I will chase him nd play his hrt


dats wat I meant by dat

Mehn you're even more hurt morethan i thought....hope he didnt took advantage of you while you were too blinded by love

UndisputedBosom:
Find a new girl friend and dump her hard before she dumps you....that way you stabilize the share of the hurt

He has said it.!

UndisputedBosom:



Mehn you're even more hurt morethan i thought....hope he didnt took advantage of you while you were too blinded by love

take advantage ke? a person I hate with severe passion

blinded by which yeye non existing love was never his gf has his frnds claimed

nd av accepted dat d relationship was created by me in d head bt av embraced reality now

halfricanadian:


take advantage ke? a person I hate with severe passion

blinded by which yeye non existing love was never his gf has his frnds claimed

nd av accepted dat d relationship was created by me in d head bt av embraced reality now

I meant takin advantage when your love for him haven't turned to hatred


If you say u never loved him that's a big lie because the rate by which you loath him now shows you were deeply i repeat deeply in love with him....


I hope you don't pay ur new guy with the griefance of your ex

UndisputedBosom:



I meant takin advantage when your love for him haven't turned to hatred


If you say u never loved him that's a big lie because the rate by which you loath him now shows you were deeply i repeat deeply in love with him....


I hope you don't pay ur new guy with the griefance of your ex

will never let an innocent guy pay for my ex sins no way

agreed I loved him bt as per I was never loved bck cudnt kill mysef i embraced d truth md move on

cannot come nd go nd kill mysef o jare

halfricanadian:


will never let an innocent guy pay for my ex sins no way

agreed I loved him bt as per I was never loved bck cudnt kill mysef i embraced d truth md move on

cannot come nd go nd kill mysef o jare

I can tell that your pillor suffered the most....whenever memories rans down ur cheek


If i may ask for how löng did u dated this "unfortunate" guy that you showered him with this amount of love

UndisputedBosom:



I can tell that your pillor suffered the most....whenever memories rans down ur cheek


If i may ask for how löng did u dated this "unfortunate" guy that you showered him with this amount of love

I was never in a relationship get ur facts ryt

halfricanadian:

I was never in a relationship get ur facts ryt

Sorry dear....so how long were you in "situationship" with him

UndisputedBosom:



Sorry dear....so how long were you in "situationship" with him

lol berra mayb 8 months or 2 months u see so confused bt not any more

halfricanadian:


lol berra mayb 8 months or 2 months u see so confused bt not any more

Lol....confused indeed...mine was seven though i still put her on 2 inquiry of her sick mom

UndisputedBosom:



Lol....confused indeed...mine was seven though i still put her on 2 inquiry of her sick mom

awww nice of u

u stuck to ur ex not healthy

be the dumper before you turn to the dumpee. Wise up dude

Hmmmm.... Halfricanadian and UndispitedBlosom.... were you two have a Naira time-out date on here? Kinda enjoyed the convo that transpired between you two... Lol. Keep it up...


My 2cents sha...

Oh boy find a girl aside to move on with before she dumps you





That was how my gf of 5yrs just called me one day and said she's moving on that her mum went to church and she was told dat we ain't compatible,i was dumbfounded and d most painful part was that it was just a week after my accident and I wass on POP she doesn't even care



WOMEN!

give her an ULTIMATUM!let her choose u or d oda guy,keep luv outside of this 1st and use ur brain.the question..does she WANT U,as much As U WANT HER?let dt guide u

Hmmmn...wetin i wan talk sef

halfricanadian:


will never let an innocent guy pay for my ex sins no way

agreed I loved him bt as per I was never loved bck cudnt kill mysef i embraced d truth md move on

cannot come nd go nd kill mysef o jare

Sharap and stop fooling yourself with fabricated lies,mtcheeews…someone reading this now will think you were innocent of the whole sh!t…rubbish.