I just found out I am the biggest fool of the century, I feel so used and right now I might do something to this girl really bad.



I am 35, and she’s 22, I knew her when she was 16 and made it known to her I would love to marry her, although I haven’t been celibate but I am a man and I can sleep with whoever I want to.


She got admission when she was 19, and I have tried my best to give her and best and make her very comfortable so she won’t be carried away by university life.


She said no sex before marriage, I agreed because I knew her family and they were strong Christians, I naturally assumed they had imbibed the notion into her so I didn’t even make an effort, I haven’t even kissed this chic before and now she’s telling me shit.


She’s graduating soon and we’re planning to get married but she just dropped a bomb, she’s not a virgin, I know she was a virgin when I met her, or was she? I don’t know I am confused, ever since she told me she’s refused to pick my calls or reply my messages.


I still love her but I am dying to know why she’s lied to me all these while, or did she get deflowered in school, oh my I am finished this girl has killed me, maybe she wants to break up I don’t know but my heart aches so much I cant breathe.


What do I do?



Talk2Bella.



This virginity of a thing has made many girls become very deceptive, do I blame her for lying to you, yes I do, but if she was a virgin when you met her it means she’s been cheating on you and it’s not just a one night stand kind of cheating, she’s heavily involved with someone else.


If she doesn’t want to reply your messages or pick your calls, why not go pay her a visit and hear what she really has to say, first you need not attach much importance to the virginity because it’s gone, all you need to find out if she’s willing to move past that and be honest and tell you what’s really going on.

You being a man doesn't give you the right to cheat, should I say you got caught in your own game, while you were busy saving her virginity and deceiving other girls, other men were busy helping you take care of her virginity, but I am not here to condemn anyone.


If you’re willing to forgive you must also be willing to forget and move on, I trust you can make this work.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/my-girlfriend-lied-to-me-about-being.html

So?
U self u b Virgin?
Good begets good good. Hold it or free it

You can sleep with whoever you want to but dem tie her leg abi...My jollof rice haff nearly done...I'll get back to you later

I don't think you are ready to get married. A serious man at ur age should know that virginity shouldn't come close to one of the criteria one seek in a Lady.virginity is in the mind of the bearer. if the lady's characters is good while dwell too much on such non- serious issue. You are not even virgin
The best thing to do now is to visit her and find out why she has been rejecting ur calls.

Drownedgod:
You can sleep with whoever you want to but dem tie her leg abi...My jollof rice haff nearly done...I'll get back to you later

Guys are outspoken about their sexual history but girls always uses virginity to make guys see them as purity.Meanwhile,most of them who forms virgin have been fvcking right from Adam and Eve.

So as a man... U got every right to Fvck any lady...

And she as a woman has no right to even have any fantasies of any kind.. Not to talk of cheating self...

Hey bro... I got a news for u...

That lady has got every fvcking reason and right to date and sleep with whoever she pleases to do it with... As long as u haven't put a RING ON THAT FINGER OF HERS


you are a priiiiiiiiickkkkkk!!!!

I think she's done with that guy he should move on

fvck the all

I haven’t been celibate but I am a man and I can sleep with whoever I want to.

The boy is a goat!!!!!!!!

You haven't been celibate cos you are a man and can sleep around but she should be celibate cos she is a woman abi. She is no longer a virgin pls kill yourself

CrazyQuinn:
I think she's done with that guy he should move on

I think so too

HaneefahRN:
You haven't been celibate cos you are a man and can sleep around but she should be celibate cos she is a woman abi. She is no longer a virgin pls kill yourself

hahahhaahhha.. this is really funny. you assumed she was a virgin? and then u dint make any advances of any sort.
all because her family has a strong religious background, and you assumed again that she will be religious in campus.


what were you expecting from a 19 year old who got admission into the university?
Do you have any idea of the amount of boys in campus?
Do u know the amount of peer pressure she must have faced?
am pretty sure when your in her age, you had all the fun u wanted and needed.
Have you even put yourself in her shoes? you met her at 16 and your grooming her for marriage from 16-19.
A girl of 19 who is in her prime would love to explore her body, her surroundings, considering she just got freedom from the house.

look my guy there is alot i can say to make you understand you the architect of your own problems, but i dun tire to type.



so please do me a favor, since you claim you love her, accept her like that, give her time.
I am pretty sure she is not coming back, she has tasted the forbidden fruit, so move on. Get a mature lady, settle down and desist from being a paedophile.

hehehehheeh

damn ur harsh

Dagaya:
hahahhaahhha.. this is really funny. you assumed she was a virgin? and then u dint make any advances of any sort.
all because her family has a strong religious background, and you assumed again that she will be religious in campus.


what were you expecting from a 19 year old who got admission into the university?
Do you have any idea of the amount of boys in campus?
Do u know the amount of peer pressure she must have faced?
am pretty sure when your in her age, you had all the fun u wanted and needed.
Have you even put yourself in her shoes? you met her at 16 and your grooming her for marriage from 16-19.
A girl of 19 who is in her prime would love to explore her body, her surroundings, considering she just got freedom from the house.

look my guy there is alot i can say to make you understand you the architect of your own problems, but i dun tire to type.



so please do me a favor, since you claim you love her, accept her like that, give her time.
I am pretty sure she is not coming back, she has tasted the forbidden fruit, so move on. Get a mature lady, settle down and desist from being a paedophile.

Eeyah maybe it escaped her mind to tell u when she eventually lost it...sorry bruh

Talk2Bella:
I just found out I am the biggest fool of the century, I feel so used and right now I might do something to this girl really bad.



I am 35, and she’s 22, I knew her when she was 16 and made it known to her I would love to marry her, although I haven’t been celibate but I am a man and I can sleep with whoever I want to.


She got admission when she was 19, and I have tried my best to give her and best and make her very comfortable so she won’t be carried away by university life.


She said no sex before marriage, I agreed because I knew her family and they were strong Christians, I naturally assumed they had imbibed the notion into her so I didn’t even make an effort, I haven’t even kissed this chic before and now she’s telling me shit.


She’s graduating soon and we’re planning to get married but she just dropped a bomb, she’s not a virgin, I know she was a virgin when I met her, or was she? I don’t know I am confused, ever since she told me she’s refused to pick my calls or reply my messages.


I still love her but I am dying to know why she’s lied to me all these while, or did she get deflowered in school, oh my I am finished this girl has killed me, maybe she wants to break up I don’t know but my heart aches so much I cant breathe.


What do I do?



Talk2Bella.



This virginity of a thing has made many girls become very deceptive, do I blame her for lying to you, yes I do, but if she was a virgin when you met her it means she’s been cheating on you and it’s not just a one night stand kind of cheating, she’s heavily involved with someone else.


If she doesn’t want to reply your messages or pick your calls, why not go pay her a visit and hear what she really has to say, first you need not attach much importance to the virginity because it’s gone, all you need to find out if she’s willing to move past that and be honest and tell you what’s really going on.

You being a man doesn't give you the right to cheat, should I say you got caught in your own game, while you were busy saving her virginity and deceiving other girls, other men were busy helping you take care of her virginity, but I am not here to condemn anyone.


If you’re willing to forgive you must also be willing to forget and move on, I trust you can make this work.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/my-girlfriend-lied-to-me-about-being.html

Ode

Eyah Pele bros, use this to end your misery.

If your girlfriend lied to you bout being a Virgin,what's our business??

fool.... fvck her like a thousand times and dump her, remember to do anal too, and make sure you dump your load in her mouth every time you fvck her. thank me later.

Lexxyburg:
fool.... fvck her like a thousand times and dump her, remember to do anal too, and make sure you dump your load in her mouth every time you fvck her. thank me later.

That's sounds enticing



Such a nottie boi

TrapQueen77:


That's sounds enticing


Such a nottie boi

I'm nottie on fridays.

Lool very funny
He's looking for tight pucci hahaha

Nl ladies and gents get bad mouth

Who is this old mumu?hw can u be excercising ua prick nd want the gal to be a puritan 4u?remember the golden rule.so far she aint ua wife she z not wholly indebted to u.so it pains wen she cheats bt is okay wen u cheat.'you are psychologically deranged'4 tnkn dat way.anyway if u stl want her beta 4gv and 4get.

1KINGKYLE:
Who is this old mumu?hw can u be excercising ua prick nd want the gal to be a puritan 4u?remember the golden rule.so far she aint ua wife she z not wholly indebted to u.so it pains wen she cheats bt is okay wen u cheat.'you are psychologically deranged'4 tnkn dat way.anyway if u stl want her beta 4gv and 4get.

Na una ladies dey form like say konji no dey worry una.Una go say no" sex until after marriage "Meanwhile una dey service the kitty outside.