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From A Confused Lover by BerryScott(f): 4:15pm On Sep 02, 2016
so i never thought i would do this ever, but seriously brethren i need help

My lover n i seem to have had just 1 problem (he flirting around) n this has resulted to into serious trust issues
At a time, because of this trust issues we have, i became an undercover agent (if you know what i mean) so good that the FBI would have probably recruited me if i had applied for a job. i have never cheated on this guy in whatsoever way because i totally love this guy. i gave in my all in all into that relationship but unfortunately it has ended, the problem is that i haven't been able to let go of him. everyone i have met, i subconsciously push them away to the extent that i find it difficult to admit that am single.
i know they say 1st relationships are very hard to let go of, i just dunno what to do with myself at this point. i just want to be able to make the right choices now but i think am not emotionally organised to do that. please all matured and responsible people in the house, a sister needs help
PS
this guy is really a good guy in all ramification just that flirting issue, we ar really compatible like he understands me so much that he knows what am about to say even before i say it . this said guy loves me no doubt but why he is an unrepentant flirt for 3straight years of our relationship beats my imagination.
Re: From A Confused Lover by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 02, 2016
That your 'all in all' put it into your study and quit being worried over relationship at this young age
Re: From A Confused Lover by BerryScott(f): 5:39pm On Sep 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
That your 'all in all' put it into your study and quit being worried over relationship at this young age
if you are judging from my looks, it could be misleading atimes
well am in my finals in the uni
i think relationship isnt out of place at this stage of my life
thanks anyways
Re: From A Confused Lover by Nobody: 5:42pm On Sep 02, 2016
BerryScott:

if you are judging from my looks, it could be misleading atimes
well am in my finals in the uni and i'll b 21 by january
i think relationship isnt out of place at this stage of my life
thanks anyways
Exactly my point. Put your 'all in all' into you academics. You need to concentrate more now that you're in your finals
Re: From A Confused Lover by BerryScott(f): 5:47pm On Sep 02, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Exactly my point. Put your 'all in all' into you academics. You need to concentrate more now that you're in your finals

aye captain!!
Re: From A Confused Lover by MzPecs(f): 5:49pm On Sep 02, 2016
You really dunno what you want in that relationship. You've got to set standards for this guy!

How can he love you and flirt? Then again, how do you know he's flirting? Does he flirt and let you know bout it or did you hear it from people?
Re: From A Confused Lover by Nobody: 5:50pm On Sep 02, 2016
BerryScott:

aye captain!!
clap for yourself
Re: From A Confused Lover by LoveJesus87(m): 9:31am On Apr 24, 2017
Tor. This is very strong. Eleyigidigan grin
Re: From A Confused Lover by Adikij(f): 9:41am On Apr 24, 2017
my dear, one thing about guys is that they might have a girlfriend that they love but still flirt with other female friends, its just in their nature

At the end of it all, their girlfriend comes first cos they always gat her on their mind, leaving the other girls with nothing.
As long as your boyfriend loves you and you love him back don't worry too much about the flirting of a thing except he actually cheats on you Hell some guys cheat even when they are in a relationship Something about them wanting to have it all

Sorry about your break up tho.... But some guys just don't have it in them to remain faithful to one chick Although some ain't like that just try to move on and pray for a better man next time

*my 2 cent*
Re: From A Confused Lover by Idydarling(f): 10:10am On Apr 24, 2017
sometimes you let love go, if it comes back to you, then it was yours, if not, it was never yours. be strong girlfriend, I'm also in my finals in the uni, almost going through what you just posted, difference is, I think I'm a lil stronger, I can understand cos this is ur first love, like a said b4, be strong.

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