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Re: Do you Believe In Love? by koolengrtimmy(m): 11:15pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
In life , we choose whom we love. Why do ladies reject some guys obviously there is a hidden agenda behind all professed love. We love for a reason , its pretence when you think you can love for no reason. , greater love has no man than this that a man should lay down his life for his friend. Even God loved us and conditionally want us to serve him , oh are you thinking God love is a free gift? He gave his son out of love to die for our sins so that we can repent and be saved another condition. Be wise , if someone love you for no reason, there will a reason to walk away in due time. 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by kaboninc(m): 11:16pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
YES I DO!!! |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Bobbysmart6(m): 11:17pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
McBrooklyn:som1 would av brake ur heart |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by babyfaceafrica: 11:17pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Rick9:your assertion is wrong!!!...how do you know fathers don't love like mothers? |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by clems93(m): 11:19pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Love is more than a feeling , it is an act that becomes part of your being and existence. 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by bitchcrafts: 11:20pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
WriteBoy:Rubbish basically. Your words rolling up to make wafts of paragraphs are waring no jokes! And I'm not making no inputs o'cus |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by pateffy: 11:21pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Jst reading d topic I knew it could only be Toks2008 it's well wt yu brotherly 1st cor 13 vs 9 it's not evritin yu choose to understand yu will understand untop d love we say we have for God we sin against him sometimes don't feel like he exist especially when we are going through our deepest times but evry time we cm bk to our senses He is always there talkless of human being my opinion dere is nothing wrong with loving n falling out working on it daily is the key. Toks 2008 go and do wrk of a father then |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by piagetskinner(m): 11:21pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
If Jesus could love us despite our sh1tty lives then love is real.. My advice; don't awaken love till you're ready if not u might just have your heart shattered beyond repair |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by charmingfrank(m): 11:23pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
you see the problem here. this is what existentialism will teach us. existence before essence. someone said God is love,my question here is that how can you know that God is love without knowing what love us. for yoy to be able to know that God is love this means that you already know what Love is. Come to think of it,we love God or gods because of the promises of enternal life and what we have read and have been thought. lets take for instance all these mentioned aboved does not exist. hiw can we then know what love is and that true love comes from God? 2 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by mhizAnnie(f): 11:25pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Not anymore. I consider love to be an excuse for someone to hurt you and get away with it...the only love I believe in is the love of God and my family. Shikina 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by McBrooklyn(m): 11:25pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Bobbysmart6: Bruh, my heart ain't a motor or a bicycle, why would they have applied brake to it?? |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
most times, our environments and everyday experiences shapes our mentality, but as for me irrespective of my failures and disappointment in love i really do believe True Love exist though such occurrence are few. Am not shocked about the Op's thread though, when i see comments of we guys about boobs and arses here on NL as if their life depends on it#lust..... ,sad to say many even go into the wrong relationships because they want to belong,why wont they get hurt? With such mindset i am not surprised to see all the above comments, either love exist or not their is someone for everyone and for me i believe we would both recognize one another whatever day it has been destined for us to meet. Value matters most in any and everything in life,this is why majority of 9ja women just turn me off honestly they dont seek/see value in people. Good things come with time,patience,hardwork,focus and prayer 3 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
You always sound like a broken record. Your problem is always and the same - You're not liberal. Love - True love indeed exists and I've experienced it. The book of Solomon is also about unconditional, selfless love for a man and his bride. If it weren't real, it wouldn't be there. Stop jumping into conclusions if you have never experienced it. True love is rare and not many people experience it but its very real and never dies. Toks2008: 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Laveda(f): 11:29pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Omudia: i concur,when you see it you would know it but it isnt for everyone. If the Op is careful enough to go through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/3028561/where-did-meet-spouse |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Perfect! firstking01: |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Marriage is not about love, it's endurance. No human being is designed to be with one partner for 50 years. ogorwyne: 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Orikinla(m): 11:42pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
The greatest love among humans is found more between mothers and their children than between lovers and spouses. 1 Like
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Re: Do you Believe In Love? by neocortex: 11:43pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
DriveByKiller: True romantic love is a fantasy that the human mind hope to be real. You can cite a million example, but if you fail to give the background to your story it becomes meaningless. I have seen a stranger helps a school boy cross the road. I have read of a mother who fought-off kidnappers to save her son. Those are the examples of "real" love which is untainted by instant reward/loss. A widow has a million reasons to mourn her late husband likewise a husband dying for his wife(please remove parent-children love from your post as that is natural). Girls who engage in self-sabotage just to prove a point("love" are delusional and actually need urgent psychological help. You see some unstable individuals also commit suicide all in the of "love" or what they believe to be "love". It doesn't prove anything, it just shows that human mind is capable of unlimited imagination both good and evil. |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by hilaryiq(f): 11:44pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
I believe in love. Not that I've had any personal experience but the way my partner still acts towards me even with all the stupid things I do, 3 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by metro8032: 11:45pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
I will never believe in love becourse love is full of lies and betraying, |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Zellie: 11:47pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Yes until recently. I've not experienced enough to conclude there's nothing like true love, but I don't think two persons can be in Love for more than say 2 years. Eventually, the novelty wears off, they still care for each other (like you would love a family member) but that spark isn't there anymore. So, the kind of love that lasts forever isn't the romantic type. 2 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
until guys stop lusting after assets and ladies stop lusting after money,handsomeness or whatever which clouds once judgement when making a choice in relationships, they wont get things right. See value in people,with value comes peace of mind,with peace comes contentment,with contentment comes fulfillment. Boobs would sagg jobs are being lost each day this skin would wrinkle as we age seek value,seek people who are self determined,with potentials and focus,support them ,join hands together and build a legacy. Nokia 3310, doesn't exist again my people. Cultivate a heart and act of giving without expecting anything in return,this would help you understand what love is. 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Abutz: 11:49pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
I BELIEVE IN TRUE LOVE But our problem in Africa is poverty. poverty would make a normal person chose physical riches (even if it comes with pain and sorrow) over true love. Inspite of this situation, some still find true love. 4 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by tete7000(m): 11:50pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
jonaifame22: They don't know God now, so they remain confused and restless. |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Rick9(m): 11:50pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
babyfaceafrica:they love but it cannot be compared to Mother's love. |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Laconfidential(m): 11:52pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Everyone definitely have their conflicting opinions as to what love truly means.....but I believe the basic and most important concept or reason behind true love is contentment... 1 Like |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by dablazor: 11:52pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Toks2008, first, what is love? If you love someone based on some quality you like about them, does that mean it isn't love? How would you explain a mother's love for her kid? Isn't there a reason why a mother dotes and loves her child? And a father's love? Don't parents love their kid because its their kid and blood? Conditional and unconditional love are both love aren't they? Isn't there even a reason behind unconditional love? 2 Likes |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Orikinla(m): 11:53pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Song of Solomon 8:6 Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lo0cZRaZs6c |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by BrightEye(m): 11:54pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Love exits. We just don't know or work towards getting to experience it. |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by Orikinla(m): 11:55pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Song of Solomon 8:6 Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lo0cZRaZs6c |
Re: Do you Believe In Love? by dermmy(m): 11:55pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
firstking01: you can't love with no reason. Something must have attracted you be it beauty, money, status or position, Godly life of the person. Pastor Adeboye even said don't marry a girl who can't cook or a girl who can't pray for one hour, A guy that does not have job and many christians accepted because it was coming from a man of God. So there's no true love 1 Like |
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