You are just a learner and you learnt the hard way. Just make sure you not on the losing end in any relationship you find yourself if she decides to break up with you anytime in essence I mean the sacrifices made should be equal or more on her side, something you can do without regret if the relationship goes sour. The party who has invested more in the relationship find it harder to leave, start making those selfless sacrifices after you paid the dowry even at that point you still smart have to be smart.

jake2much:
gud advise. im too soft thays d problem. once im in relationship I give my all and keep her happy by buying things for her. I guess I will be wicked to girls now unless they are my wife.

Hmmm..... after reading this... I don't think the girl is really bad. Most girls would move on without letting you know....let you continue to finance them and their lover. In this hard times 2016 you are throwing money with your eyes shut and saying I love her and want to marry her? Any part of the world....the result would be the same or worse.

VikingsOO7:
The rate at which people lie here eh.

dude d thing tire me o. BTW why would he lie na ..as if he will be cruxified if he say d truth. maybe its one of d reasons d gal dictched him!.
i taya!

Sh1t happens wonda how niggas fall in love witout making love, I can only Love only wen I av tasted d cookie

Igbo girl? **ck u

jake2much:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last week. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months ago we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. Last month her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

sorry.... your story made me believe girls are not worth dying for. either you have sex with her or not, either you give her money or not, they can change anytime.
The girl i love so much and care for like kilode show me how wicked girl can be. i risk my life to travel 18hrs journey from North to West bcause of her but yet she still broke my heart. Athough i already have my way o. Nothing like no sex b4 marriage.
#Bleep real love.

jake2much:
thanks friend I wanted to marry her but I see dat she was usess and not worth it.cos wife like dat can kill person. I went to meet her mother to complain, the mother said she cant do anything about it.

Hmmm....
I can't still believe my own gf, we were both planning to do introduction after my service year. buh behold she just start dating a guy i knw in the same church we attend. the funiest part, our pastor knw about our relationship buh Sorry is my case just because i'm far from them for now.
#Bleep real love.

why can't this girls stay one place?

jake2much:
gud advise. im too soft thays d problem. once im in relationship I give my all and keep her happy by buying things for her. I guess I will be wicked to girls now unless they are my wife.

yea..some girls can be like that.every girl isn't same which also applies to guys too,so you guessing to be wicked to girls isn't the solution cos you might be wicked to the right one. in short, don't date

Ntoi

Op, Your next date will be much better coz u wil feel lyk a player

Fear igbo oo.

Abso1uteZero:
Sorry Bro..Shes Not The Only Woman In The World Though...I Know For A Fact That Kingch,eezypuff,countr.ygirl,mhiz.bliss Are Single. Pick One

So this is your own advice?

I never knew we still have 'Bank og industry' dude's around. How many times have you send 40k to your parent?

jake2much:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last week. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months ago we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. Last month her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

jake2much:
gud advise. im too soft thays d problem. once im in relationship I give my all and keep her happy by buying things for her. I guess I will be wicked to girls now unless they are my wife.

heee!!! No... It doesn't mean you should be wicked. Kai. Never ever... Just me blunt.... And stand your ground. Stop buying things and spening money on em... And tell them you don't like stuffs they do if it makes you angry

Yomieluv:
you are the fool here, date, spent on her, yet no sex, walai, your mumu na first grade...

When I was still single, and in the street,

If I give a lady 1k,I must suck her,

2k,I must smooch like nonsense for her body.

Anything above 3k,I must reach promise land..

Nonsense ..

ma man.

jake2much:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last week. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months ago we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. Last month her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

Hahaha. You had a girlfriend others enjoyed on the bed. Sorry, it's totally your fault. How could you date a chick without sleeping with her?

LOL, you're wussy of all time. Managing Director of all wussies!

All of you crying over money you gave to your gf are just funny..

torqque7:


Bros no be by buying or spending alone o,my friend had a girl he was fvcking,will you believe this same girl had a rich fiance o,fine young rich fiance that was a great catch for any girl but yet this girl was cheating on him and fvcking my guy. My guy had to ask her why she was cheating on that kind of correct man,her response was his di.ck is not as big as she want..can you just imagine?lol my friend just vex insult the bi.tch.

Omoh these kind girls full everywhere so use your head and not your heart alone. Only God can give a good female companion or wife o that is worth truly loving ,not money.

Nice one.

Hmmmm, that owerri girl sha.

jake2much:
gud advise. im too soft thays d problem. once im in relationship I give my all and keep her happy by buying things for her. I guess I will be wicked to girls now unless they are my wife.

This is exactly who i used to be not until she made me turned sour...loving a nigerian girl these days is a very big waste of time and resources...only God knows what willl happen in the nearest future for the young folks(guys)...and these are supposed to be "our" future wives, if not because of the type of destiny i have, wouldn't have marry...

Yomieluv:
you are the fool here, date, spent on her, yet no sex, walai, your mumu na first grade...

When I was still single, and in the street,

If I give a lady 1k,I must suck her,

2k,I must smooch like nonsense for her body.

Anything above 3k,I must reach promise land..

Nonsense ..

Spread the Gospel brother. Fuckboys ti take over

Countrygirl:
So this is your own advice?

ya..Who Knows If He Is Your Missing Rib.Hahahaha

STFUareyouG0d:

Lol. Why does this excite you?

God bless you for this comment
@op I hope u learn from this

Swizdom:




Wrong perspective! Wicked to Ladies? Very wrong perspective. Lemme give you an assignment: Go thru life once again;let life school you then come back to date and be yourself. Being yourself is the best way to be in a relationship.

A lot of us just go into it living a life that is purely different from our lives. We can't say common NO to certain things or even common YES to certain things; we just become indecisive. We become weaker vessels and think it's gonna keep the gal's happy? Hell NO! It will tell on us as time goes by and the gal judges within her that we can't make the best decisions of life wen the real deal comes.

Girls are helping us to help ourselves. The earlier you get that into your head, the better you will become with these blessed creatures from God.

mzanave:
God bless you for this comment
@op I hope u learn from this

God bless you,too, dearie. I think anoda problem of ours--the guys-- is we don't read and learn from exPeriences. "Think and grow rich" really showed us many guys who became extremeLy wealthy cos of the influences of their girlfriends.

I have a gf and each day I wake up and talk to her on phone, I get reminded on why I nEed to hustle. I may finally lose her to another man but atleast thru her I work hard for myself and learn more about life. So, it is to my gain;and if finally I make it and she is still there, I will tie the knot with her and make her the happiest woman on earth, by God's grace.

God bless the female folks and God bless the guys, too.

You guys are forgetting itz a two way tin...and guys do same even worse..plz dnt judge d crowd cuz of one or two individual mistake

Oliviaarims:


Lol. Why does this excite you?

lol. Not excited actually. Just found his story amusing

You decided to come out of your shell today. Interesting

Brick and lace warned you some years back but you didn't listen.

STFUareyouG0d:
lol. Not excited actually. Just found his story amusing

You decided to come out of your shell today. Interesting

I've been in no shell...

Oliviaarims:


I've been in no shell...

CaraJewel:
You guys are forgetting itz a two way tin...and guys do same even worse..plz dnt judge d crowd cuz of one or two individual mistake

Swizdom:

God bless you,too, dearie. I think anoda problem of ours--the guys-- is we don't read and learn from exPeriences. "Think and grow rich" really showed us many guys who became extremeLy wealthy cos of the influences of their girlfriends.
I have a gf and each day I wake up and talk to her on phone, I get reminded on why I nEed to hustle. I may finally lose her to another man but atleast thru her I work hard for myself and learn more about life. So, it is to my gain;and if finally I make it and she is still there, I will tie the knot with her and make her the happiest woman on earth, by God's grace.
God bless the female folks and God bless the guys, too.

thank you all