etenyong:
I will be angry for lying to me and still go on with d wedding. Marriage is based on love and not by d spouse's profession. However, it will surely have effect in our marriage cos d trust will not be there again.

are you a gay

modelmike7:
. . . . I wonder his response to your harmless question o, well maybe someone annoyed him in his house, i see no reason for his outburt o!

I think I understand what happened. He is frustrated with the situation but I didn't want to attack him so he does not consider suicide. I only pray it's well with him. I hope his situation gets better.

eph12:

Hmmm.. so if he really had a good job but lost it some weeks after the wedding will you still quit? Or you don't think that's possible? The issue here is not the job but the lie/s

Even if he is a truck pusher I wouldn't mind but don't lie to me. If he is jobless and know about his ordeal. I may still go ahead if I love him. Can't marry a liar but I can marry a truthful guy going tru trial times

Iseoluwani:

Space bookers ni won.
No mind them

. . . . Lolzz, a mo iru won!

Iseoluwani:

Space bookers ni won.
No mind them

. . . . Lolzz, a mo iru won! (we know dem type)

Iseoluwani:

Space bookers ni won.
No mind them

. . . . Lolzz, a mo iru won! (we know dem type)

Smallb0b0:
Before marrying someone. You must go through a background search. Without the persons knowledge... So u don't regret

A very good and valid submission. You do that not because you may not marry the person after all if you love them enough but to be sure that you can live with whatever baggage she might be carrying or sins of the past.
The problem is that in situations like this, our Naija gals tend to lie and or give half truths, if she told you she had aborted once, it's actually 2 or 3 times but it helps a lot if you are truthful and your spouse can trust your words.

komododragons:
are you a gay

What kind of irrelevant question is this? pls try elsewhere and don't quote or comment where and when it's not necessary. Thanks

buygala:
It depends on whether the lying was a ''positive' or 'negative' one ....

You definitely can't expect me to leave a woman who actually works in a mutinational, earning 6-figure salary, just because she earlier told me she is a sales-girl at Iya Wosilat roadside eatery .... I will just be like "Baby, u really didn't trust me enough? .... Bae, just know that I love you... no matter what. .. it is you I want, not your money" .... Then I will kiss her 69 times, fvck her brains out, and go ahead with the wedding... Only a mad man will spit out morsels of good food which the gods, in their infinite benevolence, have placed in his mouth

On the other hand, If she claims to have a posh job whereas she is so so wretched, I will take it very personally .... "Funmi, what's making me crazy isn't the fact that you lied to me about your job.. it is the fact that you lied to me at all" ..... Only God knows what else you have been lying to me about .... How am I even sure that Dapo, who you said is your youngest brother, isn't actually your biological Son .... Lookkkkk ..... I cant do this anymore .... My Lawyer will contact you tomorrow morning ..... Pls tell your parents to arrange a refund of the bride-price I paid on you head, because me am not doing again

Call me a hypocrite or whatever ... me I have sha talk my own

Yeap! Positive, when she tells you lies about her job and personality to test if you are attracted to her cos of her person or her wealth/job, but negative lies when she/he wants to penetrate and gain unlawful access to your bank vault (heart), wealth, job just name it. Booh, any negative liar just have nothing to do with me. I can only be seeing a statute of Lie Mohammed whenever he/she is around me.

Really, I don't know what I could do if I'm in such shoes. But I'm shoes i won't take it easy because she's someone i planned to marry. It will be hard to go on with the wedding, really hard; even if she has than what she initially claimed.

Eke40seven:

A very good and valid submission. You do that not only because you may not marry the person after all if you love them enough but to be sure that you can live with whatever baggage she might be carrying or sins of the past.
The problem is that in situations like this, our Naija gals tend to lie and or give half truths, if she told you she had aborted once, it's actually 2 or 3 times but it helps a lot if you are truthful and your spouse can trust your words.

And what if it's truly once you people sef [quote a

any marriage based on lie is a fraud!!!!! the early u quit the better... sometime five years ago, american woman had a facial surgery which transformed her from the masquerade she used to be into a goddess. she got married to a handsome guy and they had a babe but the babe GIRL looks so ugly that the husband become suspicion of the gene source. he was accusing the wife of infidelity so the matter was taken to a law court. after long court proceeding, the woman confessed of facial surgery which warranted the court to grant the couple a divorce on the ground that the marriage is a fraud and mandated the woman to pay the man a fine of $50, 0000.

buygala:
It depends on whether the lying was a ''positive' or 'negative' one ....

You definitely can't expect me to leave a woman who actually works in a mutinational, earning 6-figure salary, just because she earlier told me she is a sales-girl at Iya Wosilat roadside eatery .... I will just be like "Baby, u really didn't trust me enough? .... Bae, just know that I love you... no matter what. .. it is you I want, not your money" .... Then I will kiss her 69 times, fvck her brains out, and go ahead with the wedding... Only a mad man will spit out morsels of good food which the gods, in their infinite benevolence, have placed in his mouth

On the other hand, If she claims to have a posh job whereas she is so so wretched, I will take it very personally .... "Funmi, what's making me crazy isn't the fact that you lied to me about your job.. it is the fact that you lied to me at all" ..... Only God knows what else you have been lying to me about .... How am I even sure that Dapo, who you said is your youngest brother, isn't actually your biological Son .... Lookkkkk ..... I cant do this anymore .... My Lawyer will contact you tomorrow morning ..... Pls tell your parents to arrange a refund of the bride-price I paid on you head, because me am not doing again

Call me a hypocrite or whatever ... me I have sha talk my own

u really make me laugh

.Marriage based on falsehood is like a house built on a faulty foundation. It will collapse one day.

etenyong:

What kind of irrelevant question is this? pls try elsewhere and don't quote or comment where and when it's not necessary. Thanks

this question is directed to the women not you.

buygala:
It depends on whether the lying was a ''positive' or 'negative' one ....

You definitely can't expect me to leave a woman who actually works in a mutinational, earning 6-figure salary, just because she earlier told me she is a sales-girl at Iya Wosilat roadside eatery .... I will just be like "Baby, u really didn't trust me enough? .... Bae, just know that I love you... no matter what. .. it is you I want, not your money" .... Then I will kiss her 69 times, fvck her brains out, and go ahead with the wedding... Only a mad man will spit out morsels of good food which the gods, in their infinite benevolence, have placed in his mouth

On the other hand, If she claims to have a posh job whereas she is so so wretched, I will take it very personally .... "Funmi, what's making me crazy isn't the fact that you lied to me about your job.. it is the fact that you lied to me at all" ..... Only God knows what else you have been lying to me about .... How am I even sure that Dapo, who you said is your youngest brother, isn't actually your biological Son .... Lookkkkk ..... I cant do this anymore .... My Lawyer will contact you tomorrow morning ..... Pls tell your parents to arrange a refund of the bride-price I paid on you head, because me am not doing again

Call me a hypocrite or whatever ... me I have sha talk my own

Yeah ur judgement tough oo

Only dummies will fall for that.. those who prefer to think with their anus instead of brain..
The writings will be there.. plus I'm not gullible

etenyong:
I will be angry for lying to me and still go on with d wedding. Marriage is based on love and not by d spouse's profession. However, it will surely have effect in our marriage cos d trust will not be there again.

on the contrary,marriage is based on profession and not Love.
#Would you marry a xxxer.
#human love doesn't last,,it's as fake as FAKE.

komododragons:
this question is directed to the women not you.

I dey respect u but pls don't be stupid again. see how u show ur level of understanding here. Look at d post again " If On Your Wedding Day, You Discover Your Spouse Lied About His/Her Job?"
What do u understand by His/her? pls use ur brain very well next time.

Aderola15:

And what if it's truly once you people sef [quote a

If It's only truly once then she will swear she didn't do anythin at all. This is just to prepare your mind for the worst though. A few girls are honest with these things but many will lie. It's because our society is not open and are judgemental about these things so our gals paint an image of themselves in the spectrum of societal expectations.
Note however that I don't support that the spouse use it as a basis to end the relationship if there is true love.

etenyong:

I dey respect u but pls don't be stupid again. see how u show ur level of understanding here. Look at d post again " If On Your Wedding Day, You Discover Your Spouse Lied About His/Her Job?"
What do u understand by His/her? pls use ur brain very well next time.

shut up!

the mod edit it again!
I was here when it read he!


I. m. b. e. c. I. l. e.

buygala:

On the other hand, If she claims to have a posh job whereas she is so so wretched, I will take it very personally .... "Funmi, what's making me crazy isn't the fact that you lied to me about your job.. it is the fact that you lied to me at all" ..... Only God knows what else you have been lying to me about .... How am I even sure that Dapo, who you said is your youngest brother, isn't actually your biological Son .... Lookkkkk ..... I cant do this anymore .... My Lawyer will contact you tomorrow morning ..... Pls tell your parents to arrange a refund of the bride-price I paid on you head, because me am not doing again

Call me a hypocrite or whatever ... me I have sha talk my own

God will now bless you, she'd say she was just testing you to finally find out if you truly love her and she actually is the CEO of where you work but employed a director to manage it. Then, you'd know they didn't give up on you from your village..

[quote author=Eke40seven post=49238489][/quote] I honestly don't understand how some relationships work. so if your girl tells you she has had abortion once, that automatically means twice or thrice and if she says she has not never done it=once abi, where is the trust

komododragons:
shut up!
the mod edit it again! I was here when it read he!

I. m. b. e. c. I. l. e.

Thanks. May God bless u.

AngelAhnie:
I will quit immediately. A lady I know married a guy, hired caterers, hall and all that is needed for a big ceremony. They married last year August and was homeless February this year. The car he claimed he owns is on hire purchase. As I type this they are living with her elder sister (she is even pregnant). So lying about job is a big turnoff to me.

Really... That guy no try at all

buygala:
It depends on whether the lying was a ''positive' or 'negative' one ....

You definitely can't expect me to leave a woman who actually works in a mutinational, earning 6-figure salary, just because she earlier told me she is a sales-girl at Iya Wosilat roadside eatery .... I will just be like "Baby, u really didn't trust me enough? .... Bae, just know that I love you... no matter what. .. it is you I want, not your money" .... Then I will kiss her 69 times, fvck her brains out, and go ahead with the wedding... Only a mad man will spit out morsels of good food which the gods, in their infinite benevolence, have placed in his mouth

On the other hand, If she claims to have a posh job whereas she is so so wretched, I will take it very personally .... "Funmi, what's making me crazy isn't the fact that you lied to me about your job.. it is the fact that you lied to me at all" ..... Only God knows what else you have been lying to me about .... How am I even sure that Dapo, who you said is your youngest brother, isn't actually your biological Son .... Lookkkkk ..... I cant do this anymore .... My Lawyer will contact you tomorrow morning ..... Pls tell your parents to arrange a refund of the bride-price I paid on you head, because me am not doing again

Call me a hypocrite or whatever ... me I have sha talk my own

lmao many are mad....

Dshocker:


Really... That guy no try at all

I dey tell you. I pity the girl

AngelAhnie:
I will quit immediately. A lady I know married a guy, hired caterers, hall and all that is needed for a big ceremony. They married last year August and was homeless February this year. The car he claimed he owns is on hire purchase. As I type this they are living with her elder sister (she is even pregnant). So lying about job is a big turnoff to me.

I know a guy who claimed he was working for Department of Transport, only fir him

jagugu88li:


I know a guy who claimed he was working for Department of Transport, only fir him

And what happened? Listening

AngelAhnie:
I will quit immediately. A lady I know married a guy, hired caterers, hall and all that is needed for a big ceremony. They married last year August and was homeless February this year. The car he claimed he owns is on hire purchase. As I type this they are living with her elder sister (she is even pregnant). So lying about job is a big turnoff to me.

I know a guy who claimed he was working for Department of Transport. They got married this year and it turns out by transport, he actually meant he registers taxis at the rank as they come and go. Mind you the lady works at Home Affairs so she now has to take care of the family.

He could have been honest, instead..... The lady is said to have filled for divorce and the guy's family is now upset with her.

I would be very angry, coz if he would lie about such a small thing tht means he also has other things hez not telling me

jagugu88li:


I know a guy who claimed he was working for Department of Transport. They got married this year and it turns out by transport, he actually mean he registers taxi at the rank as they come and go. Mind you the lady works at Home Affairs so she now has to take care of the family.

He could have been honest, instead..... The lady is said to have filled for divorce and the guy's family is now upset at her.

This is wickedness