This a little long, if you have a phobia for long text, pls abeg, move on..‎
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I just don't understand the way ladies think and behave, they keep screaming equality when it favors  them only. A guy will be the one to ask you out, chase you around, call you, spend his hard earn money taking you out, get you gifts, help you out when you need help, even though when he is got little, he will still try to please you what he has. (shebi we are equal?)Why do ladies feel once they r dating a guy they are entitled to his money? It just not logical ,how come this ladies think they are doing you a favor with se.x? Isn't it mutal enjoyment? ‎

My story.
 Have been dating this lady on/off for 3years now, and have been trying my best for her. From hanging out, to calls, I call most times, sometimes if you don't call her she wouldn't call you, she complains of been broke, send her the little I can afford, send airtime , subscribe,gifts and all a normal guy do for his gf, but I have come to realise is she that wouldn't spend a dime of hers on the relationship except calls and chatting if that counts for spending, the only thing she ever got  me was a singlet pack, I didn't complain.‎
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 So of recent, been a little broke (no thanks to the economy) and seeing it been a while have seen my babe, I subtly suggested  me coming over to her location and knowing she is so "gallant" currently, running to over a million, her share of a property, and me feeling she will glady sponsor my coming, since have done same more than I could even remember ( outing and all), knowing my present situation, all my dear girlfriend could say is "God will provide" when she is got more than enough, it not even like am asking her to give me o, It just sponsor our seeing each other.‎

 So am asking, is it right for a guy to just be the one spending and making sacrifices  while the ladies wil just  be there on the receiving end? , isn't that selfish? How come with men, my money is ours but with ladies their  money is just thiers alone? Is this only particular to Nigeria girls or is it everywhere?
 I guess have learnt my lesson, instead of spending my hard earn money on a lady that wouldn't even offer to help when I need it, I will rather spend it on my mom,sisters and friends who  got my back. ‎
  it not just not me, ‎ applies to lot of men too.

Cc: toks2008

some ladies can be self centered....

This Is Strange Though, Ive Only Heard But Not Been Around This Kind Of People.


Bro, The Signs Have Been There Since The " Set, Go" You Just Didnt Notice.

Buh, She Provoke You Reach Make You Come Open Thread, Chai!

So you want a girl to take care of you?

That lady doesn't love you.

Thank God you said SOME LADIES

Thank God u learnt on time

AjFive:
So you want a girl to take care of you?

who is talking taking care of? So it wrong for a lady you spend on, to reciprocate sometimes??

Laveda:
That lady doesn't love you.

Thank God you said SOME GIRLS

well, I think so. But trust me, it a common thing though

Dorobucci


Expectation can end up hurting u.

Btw does she knw u are her bf?

mrjojo:
who is talking taking care of? So it wrong for a ladies you spend on, to reciprocate sometimes??

Your write up is more about women not financially taking care of their boyfriends. than being reciprocal.

sinaj:
Dorobucci


Expectation can end up hurting u.

Btw does she knw u are her bf?

well, she claims that, I think not though, might be wrong though, some ladies are just naturally self centered, like the society have given them these sense of entitlement

Mumu!

AjFive:



Your write up is more about women not financially taking care of their boyfriends. than being reciprocal.

Mr, I guess you should read again and carefully this time. If you don't understand the thread, you can move along you know

CrazyQuinn:
Mumu!

tnks

mrjojo:
tnks

U are welcome

herzern:
97% Ladies are PARASITE......(the 3% are my relatives)....

They fend on you....they qive nothinq in return....

lots of benefits being a parasite tho

mrjojo:
well, she claims that, I think not though, might be wrong though, some ladies are just naturally self centered, like the society have given them these sense of entitlement

I doubt if she ever loved u tho.

CrazyQuinn:
lots of benefits being a parasite tho

you should be proud of yourself

sinaj:
I doubt if she ever loved u tho.

but do you think it right? Guys doing everything and ladies just there doing nothing. How many times have you seen a lady take her man out, even when the dude has done that countless times

mrjojo:
but do you think it right? Guys doing everything and ladies just there doing nothing. How many times have you seen a lady take her man out, even when the dude has done that countless times

so u haven't seen where ladies get presents for their bf or evn organise surprise party for them?

herzern:

like??...

check the Op's post, you will see the benefits

sinaj:
so u haven't seen where ladies get presents for their bf or evn organise surprise party for them?

I have, but it not common around this part of the world

She know be your girlfriend..she no even send you..una just be mutual friends with benefits.
Don't get emotionally involve..shun sentiments..and like you say..spend less and call less..she ain't worth it..

mrjojo:
I have, but it not common around this part of the world

too bad you don't come across such girls, I call that bad luck

CrazyQuinn:
too bad you don't come across such girls, I call that bad luck

coming from someone who see nothing wrong with been a parasite.

bounty007:
She know be your girlfriend..she no even send you..una just be mutual friends with benefits.
Don't get emotionally involve..shun sentiments..and like you say..spend less and call less..she ain't worth it..

noted! Thanks

herzern:
97% Ladies are PARASITE......(the 3% are my relatives)....

They fend on you....they qive nothinq in return....

Thank God We Are Related!!

mrjojo:
I have, but it not common around this part of the world

u shud say it's not common in ur area nd nt this part of the world.