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Three Types Of Friends You Should Be Careful About by Hardeysolution(m): 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2016


The relationships we build are undoubtedly one of the most important parts of our life. The connections we make with other people shape and affect our experience. The development of our minds and souls depends on the people that we are surrounded with. So, there are many different Universal archetypal friends that show up in our lives.

There are friends who are good listeners, friends who always see the bright side, friends that are never afraid to tell you the truth…

However, every good archetypal virtue has its negative counterpart that we need to be careful about.

You shouldn’t welcome certain types of people in your energy field if you want to live a happy life. If your goal is to get the most out of your journey on this planet, surround yourself with people that will help you develop your values and virtues.

Having said that, be careful with some ‘friends’ because.That way you can spare yourself from many bad experiences.

1.The Manipulator

These people are really deceitful and they’re so successful in doing it that they will make you feel that they’re not. For some reason, something in their energy feels off, but they are so convincing that it often tricks your instinctive judgement. Their goal is to sneak into your life, gain your trust and then use you for something that they want. It can be your money , sex, your popularity or just for fun.

The key is to trust your intuition. If it smells fishy, it’s not without reason.

2. The Bully

The name says it all. Bullies find weird satisfaction in other people’s pain. By degrading and belittling people, they get a sense of personal value and superiority over others. Psychologists say that in most cases we become violent, because deep down inside we’re in pain. So when a bully succeeds in making someone else feel bad, he or she starts feeling better about themselves.

The only way you can deal with these people, is not to take personally anything they say or do. They don’t fight battles with you, they fight battles with themselves.

3. The Egomaniac

An egomaniac will hang out with you just because it benefits the image they have of themselves. They want others to see them as people with status and if hanging out with you helps improve their social identity, they will always stay by your side; or at least until they decide your company doesn’t serve their ego anymore.

They’re not actually interested in your friendship. Egomaniacs are only interested in improving their own identity through you.

Love yourself enough to prevent such people from entering your life. Let your intuition be your compass and help you make the right decisions. If your inner judgment Is showing a red light, don’t ignore it. Leave and only build relationships with people that suit you. People who will help you achieve your higher purposes. Life is too short to spend it with people who don’t deserve your time and energy.

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