Money is the only language the Girls,Ladies,Women of today hears. ( Though, not all of them. But most of them) True love doesn't exist anywhere again. The society is no longer what it used to be before.

Women no longer have prides. If you have money you can date and even sleep with any Girl,Lady,Woman. This is rather unfortunate. Some female students in the school now do ARISTO runs, even women that are married also have an extra marital affairs, Some because of money while some for fun only?

I just pity those young girls and ladies, because when time comes, they will now be looking for who to marry them while some would be pushing themselves up to guys and men, in other to marry them

Mind you today's guys are bad too, We dey shine our eyes wella before we pick anybody to marry, no wonder we have a lots of single ladies out there that are not married, even though some single ladies didn't use their body anyhow, It's just because of what those bad ones have caused.

Is it Economic downturns and lost of family values??

WHAT EXACTLY IS HAPPENING TO THEM. WHY HAVE WOMEN LOST THEIR PRIDE?.

CONTRIBUTE YOUR OPINION PLEASE.

What about the men? they want to shag and dumb. They all use the same old tired bullshit; "I will not think about you any differently if we do the do" but after they have done the do they jump on the next thing with a hole. Guys are just as bad and I hate it when you men seat on that high horse that you built for yourselves and judge women

Ebonyeyes:

What about the men? they want to shag and dumb. They all use the same old tired bullshit; "I will not think about you any differently if we do the do" but after they have done the do they jump on the next thing with a hole. Guys are just as bad and I hate it when you men seat on that high horse that you built for yourselves and judge women

As I said before, not all of them. And why won't you think about me differently? did you know the kind of attitude I have? or did you know the kind of person I am, Or is it all guys that are bad?.

Even though we have some bad guys or men, they are not as bad as girls,ladies,women.

sofeco:


As I said before, not all of them. And why won't you think about me differently? did you know the kind of attitude I have? or did you know the kind of person I am, Or is it all guys that are bad?.

What?

Ebonyeyes:

What?

Yes, isn't it?.

well,as far as i am concerned,guys are guilty as much as girls are.even guys push girls into al these stuffs.so the question should be God please change our boys,gentlemen,men's mind for us

whitesturd:

well,as far as i am concerned,guys are guilty as much as girls are.even guys push girls into al these stuffs.so the question should be God please change our boys,gentlemen,men's mind for us

Well, I just felt once you are a female, isn't that what you gonna say?. There are a lots of Girls,ladies,women that seduce guys/men, maybe when they detect that the guy/man is rich or if they like him and Girls,ladies,women do that a lots, ( I mean seducing ), even if the guy/man is not interested in them, they would still be showing interest.

Then why won't the guy/man do the next action which might spoil the girls/lady/woman's pride, and at the same time result to vanity/for fun purpose, because the man was seduced to the action/ the relationship.

Isn't it.

poster.ure getin it al wrong,the fact dt i am female doesnt mean i should advocate 4 dem,if u check my posts,u wl see that if the situation calls 4 me to bash ladies,i will.and i am nt saying that ladies are al dt perfect.but if u luk at the world 2day,u see diff pple wt diff behaviour,God has created men and women in such a way dt there wl be controversy.wel.if u know wt some ladies are goin 2ru or ve gun 2ru in the hands of men and vice-versa,u wl know dt at the end of the day,evrybody has a story to tel.only GOD can judge.

sofeco:

Well, I just felt once you are a female, isn't that what you gonna say?. There are a lots of Girls,ladies,women that seduce guys/men, maybe when they detect that the guy/man is rich or if they like him and Girls,ladies,women do that a lots, ( I mean seducing ), even if the guy/man is not interested in them, they would still be showing interest.

Then why won't the guy/man do the next action which might spoil the girls/lady/woman's pride, and at the same time result to vanity/for fun purpose, because the man was seduced to the action/ the relationship.

Isn't it.

whitesturd:

poster.ure getin it al wrong,the fact dt i am female doesnt mean i should advocate 4 dem,if u check my posts,u wl see that if the situation calls 4 me to bash ladies,i will.and i am nt saying that ladies are al dt perfect.but if u luk at the world 2day,u see diff pple wt diff behaviour,God has created men and women in such a way dt there wl be controversy.wel.if u know wt some ladies are goin 2ru or ve gun 2ru in the hands of men and vice-versa,u wl know dt at the end of the day,evrybody has a story to tel.only GOD can judge.

Was only kidding with that little statement you know. I think you understand?.

no i dont

whitesturd:

no i dont

You mean you didn't still understand?. Anyway, I mean I was only kidding about the statement:

sofeco:

Well, I just felt once you are a female, isn't that what you gonna say?.

U got it right?.

Can well all agree that most men are bad and some women are catching up with them?

Ebonyeyes:

Can well all agree that most men are bad and some women are catching up with them?

I think NO, because women leads while men follows.

sofeco:

I think NO, because women leads while men follows.

I second that statement

I beg to disagre wt u guys.sofeco.i now understand.

Wow here we go with another post blaming women for everything.

Agnesqueen:

Wow here we go with another post blaming women for everything.

Yes didnt you read the memo? Women are the causes of all evils in the world; War in Iraq, Corrupt politicians, Global warming, Yahooing, kidnapping etc. These men will blame everything on women.

you guys set the ball rolling so we are just playing along
you cant eat your cake and have it

y me:

you guys set the ball rolling so we are just playing along
you cant eat your cake and have it 

dont mind em jare
@ poster two can play this game God no go vex but i understand your point tho but still

mura fockerz~

@ y me,
we didnt set any ball rolling, D balls were set from ladies trough their modern attitude. & even if guys start D game, are U ladies not supposed to give D game a limit, if not 4 D sake of money & fun hat todays ladies are running after. & also mind U todays guys want to eat their cake & av it back. It's just 4 ladies to be carefull & I know they wont.
But am not among them oo, that's Y we are shinning our eyes wella b4 we pick a lady.


@ mura fukerz am not a player oo, I be complete cool guy.

we are all evil and deceitful also we all have prices.in short we are all ho's but we don't know it.u might not be bought with money but sumtin else. so why disturb urself.naturally we fundamentally flawed as humans, but still sum just go to a greater extent, so thats why i trust no one not even myself,

life circumstance can turn people into what they might not want to be, so not a good idea to judge. I personally cannot date a guy because of money (i'm too much of a goody two shoe) but i can understand the point of view of Nija girls that chase money afterall Nija is an oppressive society with little financial security plus the fact that Nija guys are mostly dishonest, irresponsible guys (rich and poor). Therefore if the choice is between boring dates with a useless poor bloke and luxury date with a useless rich bloke that is prepared to lavish me with money it is quite obvious which one i will choose.

@POSTER,u r ryt. . . . . but u've said it all ''nt all of dem'' though money makes d world go round bt dis adage as bin misunderstood,most girls want 2 b wif a guy wif ride or lotta cash.but to me it 3 category (1)d poor background nd i neva chop((2)rich background nd forcing der sef on guyz wit dere money(3)middle class nd''it my boyfriend responsibility''.dou dis myt b mixed,but ur gf demands money 4 hair or clothe 1c in a while doesnt mean she z dere b'cos of ur money . . . . . . let say,only GOD UNDERSTAND THIS BETTER . . !

While i think the poster has some point with the women of today, i also think guys are not totally blameless. Its all part of the package of relationship, like when you expect a girl to have sex with you, then she also expects that the guys should damn well spend some good money on her. The society and environment plays a huge role too. In Nigeria now, lots of ladies are acting big and flaunting what they got from their rich guys, some ladies don't want to be left behind and they strive for the same status. I think finally it all lies in personal values and upbringing ( which may change with environment) . Environment is a big contextual factor in this issue cos when lots of people are doing it, it appears to be a norm and it goes that way.

Pls can we stick to the topic

@OP stop giving them money

lil dainty:

@POSTER,u r ryt. . . . . but u've said it all ''nt all of dem'' though money makes d world go round bt dis adage as bin misunderstood,most girls want 2 b wif a guy wif ride or lotta cash.but to me it 3 category (1)d poor background nd i neva chop((2)rich background nd forcing der sef on guyz wit dere money(3)middle class nd''it my boyfriend responsibility''.dou dis myt b mixed,but your gf demands money 4 hair or clothe 1c in a while doesnt mean she z dere b'cos of your money . . . . . . let say,only GOD UNDERSTAND THIS BETTER . . !

YEEEAHH, YOU GOT IT RIGHT.

ginger1:

While i think the poster has some point with the women of today, i also think guys are not totally blameless. Its all part of the package of relationship, like when you expect a girl to have sex with you, then she also expects that the guys should damn well spend some good money on her. The society and environment plays a huge role too. In Nigeria now, lots of ladies are acting big and flaunting what they got from their rich guys, some ladies don't want to be left behind and they strive for the same status. I think finally it all lies in personal values and upbringing ( which may change with environment) . Environment is a big contextual factor in this issue cos when lots of people are doing it, it appears to be a norm and it goes that way.

YOU ARE TALKING, NICE ONE.

Kunbee:

Pls can we stick to the topic

@OP stop giving them money

Kunbeeee, We guys should stop giving you money? what has money got to do with what's going on today.

Anyway, will you ladies be spending on us, and we would surely be a responsible guys to you, lol

Really.

^^^well guys dont spend on me and i dont spend money on anybody cos am selfish , but on a serious note avoid those chics unless u are attracted to them

Kunbee:

^^^well guys dont spend on me and i dont spend money on anybody cos am selfish , but on a serious note avoid those chics unless u are attracted to them

Mhmm, you mean you are selfish? that's nice. But anyways,

no one can cheat nature, u r gonna get wat u give!

whitesturd:

well,as far as i am concerned,guys are guilty as much as girls are.even guys push girls into al these stuffs.so the question should be God please change our boys,gentlemen,men's mind for us

whitesturd:

poster.ure getin it al wrong,the fact dt i am female doesnt mean i should advocate 4 dem,if u check my posts,u wl see that if the situation calls 4 me to bash ladies,i will.and i am nt saying that ladies are al dt perfect.but if u luk at the world 2day,u see diff pple wt diff behaviour,God has created men and women in such a way dt there wl be controversy.wel.if u know wt some ladies are goin 2ru or ve gun 2ru in the hands of men and vice-versa,u wl know dt at the end of the day,evrybody has a story to tel.only GOD can judge.

mennnnnnnn u've said it all **thumb up**