Hello Nairaland family.
I date this gurl some yrs back after 6month I realise that she need support not boyfriend,I stop going to her house and never allow her to visit me but promised to give her full support.
She is orphan,she had issued with a developer she and her junion ones give there parent property to develop.i try to resolve the issue with the developer and her family outside court but fail.I proceed to court on there behave,after 4yrs in court,I spend over 3million within the 4yrs,at last court give judgement in there favour.within this 4yrs in court I never visit her or allow her to see me,I send money to her account to settle the lawyer though I do talk and visit the lawyer.
There family take full possession of the property.
Recently I lost my Job and she is ready to support me financially but I stop her,becaused she might take the advatage my situation now.
Am married but she is not aware.she send a text to,me saying who is she to me.fiance,girlfriend,casual friend or sex mate.i reaply by saying all of the above.how should I handle her without hurt her feeling or my?

Blood of jesus.

Tell her the truth and free yourself from all bondages. I believe if she is matured with active conscience, she can still support you

mercichoco:
Tell her the truth and free yourself from all bondages. I believe if she is matured with active conscience, she can still support you

She is the type that desperate to move to my house....she need some money for surgery ouside the country since 3yrs now but she can't since her money not yet Complete..she send me text saying she don't think she can love any man again if not me....i have been avoiding her for 5yrs plus now yet she never give up

Jus pregnate the 2 gals and have them both

story! ! story!! any body can just post anything

you spent 3mil for a total stranger...how much did you spend for your mother and siblings


you are not even a good story teller

arthurshelly:


She is the type that desperate to move to my house....she need some money for surgery ouside the country since 3yrs now but she can't since her money not yet Complete..she send me text saying she don't think she can love any man again if not me....i have been avoiding her for 5yrs plus now yet she never give up

Thats it, you have been avoiding her, pls tell her point black your true feelings towards her. Make her understand why it won't work, and get a wife if you havn't.

carmag:
story! ! story!! any body can just post anything

you spent 3mil for a total stranger...how much did you spend for your mother and siblings


you are not even a good story teller

Its only God that bless without sorrow...not about spending 3 million on stranger its about how God touch you....It's stranger on here that help me get a job that make me own a house,build my parent house married in less than 5yrs and i never meet the stranger till now but i talk to her on phone till date.God can used anyone for ur breakthrough.....its not story story abeg....stay of this thread if you don't have any meaniful contribution.

Well d best tyn is for u to make her understand u a married and if u think u love her too. Den take her as second wife, no big deal

mercichoco:
Thats it, you have been avoiding her, pls tell her point black your true feelings towards her. Make her understand why it won't work, and get a wife if you havn't.

Thank you sister...i have a wife with handsome boy now...i try to block her finally but I still have a feeling that I can still support her since she is orphans...though I don't have money to support her for now I believed everthibg is not money...i have make it clear to her with style that will cant be together but she keep saying will need to seat together to iron it out...

Sbsex:
Well d best tyn is for u to make her understand u a married and if u think u love her too. Den take her as second wife, no big deal

Married should be the last thing she should think about now but she never agree...someone that need to undergo surgery outside the country since 3yrs now, heath wise she cant cope with marriage with her challenge now but she never agree....,second wife kee?

mercichoco:
Thats it, you have been avoiding her, pls tell her point black your true feelings towards her. Make her understand why it won't work, and get a wife if you havn't.

we need to talk pls...