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How Do I Handle This? by Prognose: 10:58pm On May 12, 2018
How do you deal with an ex who keeps calling you from time to time and crying on the phone? It's been 10 years. She's now married yet she still calls once in a while and at first all is cheerful and normal gisting, next thing she starts bringing up our past relationship and starts to cry. I've told her she's married now and all that is in the past but it doesn't seem to help. I deleted her number from my phone but for some reason I haven't been able to block her cos I'm worried she might need my help or something urgent. I'm not interested in getting back with her in any way but I'm still worried about her. Why wouldn't she have moved on after all this while?

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by daewoorazer(m): 11:00pm On May 12, 2018

It’s a simple somfin...

Put urself in her husband’s shoes...
Except you are enjoying the attention...
Wouldn’t you wish the ex vanishes?

If you like yourself, change your mobile and cut her off all social sturvs...

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Prognose: 11:19pm On May 12, 2018
daewoorazer:

It’s a simple somfin...

Put urself in her husband’s shoes...
Except you are enjoying the attention...
Wouldn’t you wish the ex vanishes?

If you like yourself, change your mobile and cut her off all social sturvs...


She's currently separated from her husband (about a year now, nothing to do with me). And no I'm not enjoying the attention if not I wouldn't have brought the matter here in the first place.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Prognose: 11:20pm On May 12, 2018
She doesn't call often, like twice or three times every year for the past 10 years. So it's not like we're in continuous contact. But anytime she does call it ends in tears. It's the tears I can't stand.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:02am On May 13, 2018
she is only separated, not legally divorced, Do not fall for her tears, she's only working your emotions and you falling for it, that's why you came crying for help on nairaland.

chances are she's lonely due to the separation and she needs an old flame due to the fact that she's lonely and hõrny which causes her depression and the result is the crying over the phone.

Neglect her! Do not take her calls or reply her text/Whatsapp. she go rest. if you keep replying, you would keep falling for her tears and with that, she would work you to comfort her to bed. And you wouldn't even realize it till you start banging her.

Neglect her!

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 3:00am On May 13, 2018
Simple! She don enter husband house see say not all dat glitter is gold. For her to be separated from her hubby sef, means she doesn't get much care, respect and love as she got from you. The separation is also making her think of past love

No shook head o, if d trouble happen finish she go put all d blame on you like say no be she start am. Na so women dey do. Carry ur priick go for another pusssy.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by pocohantas(f): 4:59am On May 13, 2018
Prognose:
She doesn't call often, like twice or three times every year for the past 10 years. So it's not like we're in continuous contact. But anytime she does call it ends in tears. It's the tears I can't stand.

Say no more, you still like her...

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:39am On May 13, 2018
You want to eat food meant for the gods! undecided
Stop indulging her, else you'll dish yourself something quite unsavoury!

A part of you wants her whether you admit it or not. That's why you entertain her calls and have refused to block her once and for all.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Blonchilli(m): 7:41am On May 13, 2018
Only a man who loves death and wants to be unfortunate in life has an affair with a married woman. Op warn that loose woman and cut any ties with her. Let she be someone's headache.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by ahnie: 9:24am On May 13, 2018
For your own safety
...blacklist her number

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by wonyi: 10:47am On May 13, 2018
Prognose:
How do you deal with an ex who keeps calling you from time to time and crying on the phone? It's been 10 years. She's now married yet she still calls once in a while and at first all is cheerful and normal gisting, next thing she starts bringing up our past relationship and starts to cry. I've told her she's married now and all that is in the past but it doesn't seem to help. I deleted her number from my phone but for some reason I haven't been able to block her cos I'm worried she might need my help or something urgent. I'm not interested in getting back with her in any way but I'm still worried about her. Why wouldn't she have moved on after all this while?


Hope no blood Oath between you both?

Hope no abortion between you both?

Hope she didn't lose any vital reproductive organs?

Have you been supporting her financially?

You must not answers just to guide u

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by ahnie: 12:08am On May 14, 2018
wonyi:



Hope no blood Oath between you both?

Hope no abortion between you both?

Hope she didn't lose any vital reproductive organs?

Have you been supporting her financially?

You must not answers just to guide u


Thanks for the share in my diary!

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Bossontop(m): 12:23am On May 14, 2018
undecided
Better block her if u are not interested b4 she starts using emotional blackmail on you......ladies sabi dis tin wella

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by obowunmi(m): 12:23am On May 14, 2018
Block her and move on.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 12:25am On May 14, 2018
Seems I'm the only one that understands you here...
She calls just twice or thrice in a year?
And she ends up crying...
Well, that is not too worrisome, keep telling her she has to move on.
And I get your point about the reason you don't want to block her number.
Just make sure you don't fall into any emotional and psychological prison.
Thread carefully bro.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:25am On May 14, 2018
Go lick his balls one more time

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Zither(m): 12:25am On May 14, 2018
Bros, just give yourself respect and cut her off totally. She is using her feminine cunning to lure you into dangerous waters. She made her choice let her stick with it. You are threading on a land of mines with the way things are going between you and her.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by omoyankee3(m): 12:27am On May 14, 2018
Both of you still have feeling for each other.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:27am On May 14, 2018
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Re: How Do I Handle This? by laudate: 12:28am On May 14, 2018
Prognose:
How do you deal with an ex who keeps calling you from time to time and crying on the phone? It's been 10 years. She's now married yet she still calls once in a while and at first all is cheerful and normal gisting, next thing she starts bringing up our past relationship and starts to cry. I've told her she's married now and all that is in the past but it doesn't seem to help. I deleted her number from my phone but for some reason I haven't been able to block her cos I'm worried she might need my help or something urgent. I'm not interested in getting back with her in any way but I'm still worried about her. Why wouldn't she have moved on after all this while?

Tell your wife all about her. sad Next time she calls, ask your wife to answer the phone. undecided If she needs money, tell her you would ask your wife to send it to her. That way, you can quietly extricate yourself from her clutches, without saying too much about anything. Your wife will know the kind of words or treatment, to give her that will put a stop to all her crying....

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by IME1: 12:28am On May 14, 2018
undecided
Most likely you she ended the relationship
She now has 2 people to compare
U said 10 years shocked
She's cheating on her husband by even reaching out to you in such ulterior way
I'm all for maintaining friendships which are healthy
But this one is not
Flee from her
Tell her to respect herself, her husband, her marriage and you.
It's now she knows ur worth but it's too late
Even if it's after 1 month she don marry
Remember when u marry if u have not yet, you won't want your wife to do this to you with her ex undecided

Peace

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:28am On May 14, 2018
It's not a biggie.

You serve as a safe harbor for her. I will assume that your relationship was mostly good when you were together.

One of my Ex-Wives and also my high school girlfriend are my friend on Facebook.

If you are emotionally available then listen to her if you're not then tell her.

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by fykes(m): 12:31am On May 14, 2018
Blonchilli:
Only a man who loves death and wants to be unfortunate in life has an affair with a married woman. Op warn that loose woman and cut any ties with her. Let she be someone's headache.
Kindly expantiate on this pls
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:31am On May 14, 2018
Blonchilli:
Only a man who loves death and wants to be unfortunate in life has an affair with a married woman. Op warn that loose woman and cut any ties with her. Let she be someone's headache.

lies...

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by busky101(m): 12:32am On May 14, 2018
Plead the blood of Jesus each time she calls u
Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:32am On May 14, 2018
EgunMogaji:
It's not a biggie.

You serve as a safe harbor for her. I will assume that your relationship as mostly good when you were together.

One of my Ex-Wives and also my high school girlfriend are my friend on Facebook.

If you are emotionally available then listen to her if you're not then tell her.

Only matured and sensible advice so far... the rest are childish talks

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by chris31(m): 12:32am On May 14, 2018
The response u gives her still makes her believe that ur still interested in her if not she wouldn't have been calling
Tell urself the truth coz the death that kills a dog doesn't allow it to smell odour of poo

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by kolnel: 12:34am On May 14, 2018
Why are you telling us ?
Either report her to her hubby
Or
Nack her

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by koolaid87: 12:34am On May 14, 2018
Go give her the iron d1ck

She's suffering from an acute nolstagia


Don't bother nairalanders, we got serious issh to handle.

Thread closed.

Next!

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by Nobody: 12:35am On May 14, 2018
Here we go again...

How about ignoring the freaking calls?!

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by YorubaEmir: 12:36am On May 14, 2018
Chai... u reset her brain with sex

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Re: How Do I Handle This? by macphilip: 12:37am On May 14, 2018
do the needful bro

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