jeebeewell:

Having a good and successful marriage does not depend whether the man and woman in question were virgins.
Being a virgin does not have a pronounced effect on marriage, (although remaining a virgin has a worthy prize attached to it).
@ poster, You might be lured into delusion and deception if you make that your underlined criteria for a good wife.

I totally agree with you.


@ Poster.

Going through your post. I can deduce that you are a very responsible man. It is hard to find a guy like you in this generation that glorifies imorality. Though I wasn't a virgin prior to my marriage, I have dated three virgins in the past and I eventually got married to one of them after 2 yrs courtship. I refused sleep with them the moment I discovered they are virgins because I have a conscience that will haunt me if I take their virginity and walk away. The first time I slept with my wife was on our wedding day and I am glad that we have a blissfuly blessed union today.

However, I do not totally agree with your belief that your joy in marriage depends on you finding a virgin wife because I have seen a beautiful and Godfearing young woman who was raped as a virgin but still refuse give in to sex and imoral conduct. One of the virgins I dated was only a virgin for fear of pain and blood if she eventually gets disvirgined. I left her because I dont want to get married to someone I will be forcing to go to church every sunday. I will suggest you pray to God for direction rather than searching virgin.

A good woman like vission is rare to find in today's world- I would say less than 2% even on this land call Nairaland.
I understand the poster's point, it is better to marry a virgin with her ills rather than marrying a lose girl with same ills. Every man has this secret desire to marry a virgin and I do not think anyone would like to marry a lady that has had it countless time with several guys. If you are guy you would know how guys discuss their past sexcapades and how times they had it with a certain girl you know.
Now imagine what you will look like as a guy on alter about to wed  and some guys whispering to themselves and smiling at you and your wife, knowing her dark past. Or imagine yourself as a first man and first lady of a state. There is every tendency that a guy/girl would still sleep with their exes after marriage, 
For me a girl would get undiluted love from me if I married her a virgin regardless of her other weaknesses than someone I have no clue on what has passed through her laps.

Virginity pays and it is not lack of opportunity. But conserving oneself, having values and fearing God and not just switching and pouncing on every D at the slightest trip, opportunity or deceit.

Brigands demand your money or your life; women require both.
Funny thing about lyfe is the good one get the bad ones.
Good people------Bad leaders
Abundant natural resources-----Bad managers
Good girls-----Bad guys.
Me--------------*I pray I get a good girl like me or close to me*

lol,this topic reminds me of "make money or die trying"

No one is Perfect as so people do make mistakes.
the best is to get up, learn from them and move on.
Anyone looking for a virgin to marry should really check himself for he is not
really sincere or honest.
Look for character and values!!!

well,water and water is equal to water,it is not easy to get one but there are still some.you need some tips on how to get a virgin.contact me at highdeeskybabi@yahoo.com.i will surely but you through.

@ Mr Virgin
this is total BS!!!! if u cant trust your partner cos they've had partners in the past then u've got issues.
just scared u'd meet an expert and u wont be able to satisfy

jeebeewell:

Having a good and successful marriage does not depend whether the man and woman in question were virgins.
Being a virgin does not have a pronounced effect on marriage, (although remaining a virgin has a worthy prize attached to it).
@ poster, You might be lured into delusion and deception if you make that your underlined criteria for a good wife.

sure u very correct! but if a gal should keep her virginity till she's married du yu think she will be wayward afterwords!

How many girls want to marry a virgin btw?

never where will you see a virgin.

You go fine virgin tire. Well they are very difficult to get any way But i want to tell you that there are still virgins. I know lots of them.

I am a counsellor so i come in contact with lots of them. I have them as my clients. Just keep searching you will still find.

But if you really love a lady dont let virginity piss you off. love have nothing to do with virginity.

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winta2007:

never where will you see a virgin.

well i tell yah what, they still exist just that in this world where immoralities is a normal thing! so dont think every1 is like you

Radiant:

How many girls want to marry a virgin btw?

if you cant others can

Been a virgin does not show in character neither does it form good character.
@ Poster, a woman with godly and good character should be your criteria.

virgin or not virgin is not the main point in choosing your life partner,the most important thing is getting a girl that understands ,tolerates,loves and cherish you more than any other man on earth.She may not be a virgin ,so far the above qualities are  there,she can never look out for another man.

I know that men are promiscuous in nature but just see your wife as one in a million and nothing will make you to have feeling for another woman.Sometimes the  problem is from we(men), we don't care about how a woman feels,we are so selfish when it comes to satisfying our sexual desires.

before you start looking for a virgin,ask all your sisters if they were virgin  before the got married?what if you disvirgin her and at the  point ,you were financially ready to get married?

Above all, if you are a virgin you must come across one.your social status determines the type of people you meet. give your life to Christ U will meet many of them out there.live a club life you will always meet people their holes are too inviting. the choice is yours

funny

I don't think you are ready for marriage yet. Still sampling, abi? Jocker

the fact that you abstain urself from sex does not mean u will marry a virgin, a lot of gals have been deceived with love and have been victims of all sorts, that does not mean that they wayward or something.

benlay:

the fact that you abstain urself from sex does not mean u will marry a virgin, a lot of gals have been deceived with love and have been victims of all sorts, that does not mean that they wayward or something.

hmmmmmmmm word! so just go afta the character! what if the virgin is the nagging type?

Mr Kelly:

I totally agree with you.


@ Poster.

Going through your post. I can deduce that you are a very responsible man. It is hard to find a guy like you in this generation that glorifies imorality. Though I wasn't a virgin prior to my marriage, I have dated three virgins in the past and I eventually got married to one of them after 2 yrs courtship. I refused sleep with them the moment I discovered they are virgins because I have a conscience that will haunt me if I take their virginity and walk away. The first time I slept with my wife was on our wedding day and I am glad that we have a blissfuly blessed union today.

However, I do not totally agree with your belief that your joy in marriage depends on you finding a virgin wife because I have seen a beautiful and Godfearing young woman who was raped as a virgin but still refuse give in to sex and imoral conduct. One of the virgins I dated was only a virgin for fear of pain and blood if she eventually gets disvirgined. I left her because I dont want to get married to someone I will be forcing to go to church every sunday. I will suggest you pray to God for direction rather than searching virgin.

I really appreciate wat u said, i know my happiness does not depend on the virginity but another criteria is dat she must be God fearing.
I always feel that getting married to a non virgin does not balance the equation, i makes me feel cheated. Then i feel insecure knowing dat my wife to be has slept with someone else in the past and i can't know the extent whether she got pregnant and aborted it or not, so to save myself the stress i decided it must be a virgin.

chocobabi:

well,water and water is equal to water,it is not easy to get one but there are still some.you need some tips on how to get a virgin.contact me at highdeeskybabi@yahoo.com.i will surely but you through.

Ar u a professor of virgins, how will u do dat?

What the hell is everyone talking about when did virginity go out of fashion? it is similar to saying, Most Nigerian leaders are thieves, therefore stealing is good and all Nigerian are thieves for those that says virginity is lack of opportunity; don't worry your sisters and your daughters would find plenty opportunities, infact they would take hold of every opportunity until they become opportunist.-Amen.
If abstinence is out of fashion just remember HIV and STDs aren't out of fashion. The only thing i would agree with others is that virginity would not guarantee you a successful marriage but it's a good start. Moral decadence is the order of the day, it's so shameful that some girls have lost count of the number of men they've slept with, they are still counting and they are very proud of it !!!!!! If you think sex would keep that guy tied to you then you are the greatest foooooool!!!!!!!!!!!

samtoye:

What the hell is everyone talking about when did virginity go out of fashion? it is similar to saying, Most Nigerian leaders are thieves, therefore stealing is good and all Nigerian are thieves for those that says virginity is lack of opportunity; don't worry your sisters and your daughters would find plenty opportunities, infact they would take hold of every opportunity until they become opportunist.-Amen.
If abstinence is out of fashion just remember HIV and STDs aren't out of fashion. The only thing i would agree with others is that virginity would not guarantee you a successful marriage but it's a good start. Moral decadence is the order of the day, it's so shameful that some girls have lost count of the number of men they've slept with, they are still counting and they are very proud of it !!!!!! If you think sex would keep that guy tied to you then you are the greatest foooooool!!!!!!!!!!!

thank God for your wisdom!

tithe:

Ar u a professor of virgins, how will u do dat?

ask am abeg

IT''S BEST YOU GET A VIRGIN AND NEVER DISVIRGIN HER

COS ONCE ITS OPEN ITS NO MORE GUARANTEED

SO EITHER LEARN TO TRUST THE ONE(S) THAT ARE ALREADY OPEN

OR YOU LIVE YOUR LIVE MONITORING THE ONE/ONES YOU'LL OPEN

A WORD FROM THE WISE

It is obvious that virgins and non-virgins will always ve a different view of this topic, i think taking advice from a virgin will be safe.

make she dey wait for you abi? mugu

why would anyone opt for a virgin considering the stress and the gushhhhhhh . broda you must be insane beside she is but a human and shes got feelings. come how old are you?

I love the title of this thread: Get a Virgin or Die Trying!

@op,
I dey your side. Virgins are the shiznitz!

@ Poster

I'm a virgin, WILL YOU MARRY ME

Not funny lolllllllllllllllllll


Please Note: i also have virgin sisters, plus my Mum is a virgin, we are all up for grabs. Holla

aomom:

if you cant others can

I love this challenge. I may just marry you if you tell me you're a virgin.

samtoye:

What the hell is everyone talking about when did virginity go out of fashion? it is similar to saying, Most Nigerian leaders are thieves, therefore stealing is good and all Nigerian are thieves for those that says virginity is lack of opportunity; don't worry your sisters and your daughters would find plenty opportunities, infact they would take hold of every opportunity until they become opportunist.-Amen.
If abstinence is out of fashion just remember HIV and STDs aren't out of fashion. The only thing i would agree with others is that virginity would not guarantee you a successful marriage but it's a good start. Moral decadence is the order of the day, it's so shameful that some girls have lost count of the number of men they've slept with, they are still counting and they are very proud of it !!!!!! If you think sex would keep that guy tied to you then you are the greatest foooooool!!!!!!!!!!!

Good one.

You go old if U still dey look for Virgin 4 9ja o cos it no more a yardstick for marriage even Virgin Nigeria sef don disvirgin , I rest my case.

gay dipshits are at it again, gays!