#1. People pretend like it’s some sort of vital milestone on an invisible checklist that you need to complete. In reality, three are so many other fulfilling milestones that don’t require you finding your future husband, and you should set those for yourself rather than feeling as though being single in your 20s is something negative.

#2. If you throw a wedding in your 30s, your other friends will have their shit together enough to afford an awesome destination wedding, or some other party that they might be broke to go in their 20s (and you probably will be too).

#3. Being totally comfortable in the realms of being emotionally independent will make you a better partner in the long run. The longer you have time to put your shit together in your twenties, the better a partner you’ll make in your 30s.

#4. You have to date a few men to figure out what you want in the long run, because it’s hard to jut know right off the bat. Even if you love your first partner, you don’t necessarily know everything about yourself that you want and need, and you might need some time to grow on your own before you figure that out.

#5. Traveling by yourself is one of the most fulfilling and self-expanding things you can do to take yourself out of your comfort zone and truly get to know yourself. Doing that with a partner is a totally different experience and a good one, but this one is important to do first, when you’re younger.

#6. Because your “failures” are actually your greatest successes – because you’re figuring out more and more what makes you truly happy! Failures are just signs of learning and evolving, so the more you fail, the more you’re working towards your greater happiness.

#7. Because sometimes we can tend to settle when we’re younger and less experienced. If we’re scared we’ll never find someone that will compare to our first love, or low self-esteem is preventing us from being with someone we deserve, that fear can often keep us held down with someone that doesn’t truly make you happy. You deserve more than to settle, so just wait it out. Solo nights with Netflix and cheesecake aren’t so bad.

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http://www.flexyhubs.com/2016/09/18-reasons-you-shouldnt-get-married.html

Seems like Op is more than 30yrs. Just trying to give reasons for his inadequacies. Stop this frustration-borne generalisation trend.

Omo come see sense..

ediemafio:
Omo come see sense..

sorry oo but op have you not heard that from 30 the fertility of a woman who has not had child before begins to drop ? And in this days of rediusd male fertility worldwide her chances becomes even slimer if her husband is not superfertile.

maybe true for men


no woman should try this oo