jeff1607:



from your opinion who do u think worries more about the well-being of the union excluding the kids

the well-being of the union is a two-way thing which means both parties should always worry about it because if the union should later go south it will affect the products of the union more, I mean the children. So I can't say who worries more

STENON:
What if he becomes the cheating partner after marriage and that's the number one thing i detest most....


what if he won't support my Dreams and Vision of becoming a Professor in the next ten years.

what if his family is not friendly and welcoming

what if he is not motivating me ...

Lol!!!! how old are you?

singlessubway:
Lol!!!! how old are you?

I am "x+y" years old. Find x and y

Titilayooni:
Afraid of been tired of the love we initially shared....

This will definitely happen at some point sometime nits just an opportunity to show the depth of what u both feel

Fear of marrying the wrong woman and fear of getting divorced

morayo3:
ORO LO SO

What does it mean

Commitment forever....thats creepy

Bisjosh:
Commitment forever....thats creepy

lol

Afraid of getting married to a man now while I'm yet to achieve any of my dreams in life. Afraid he may try to discourage me from living ,going after my dreams in life. I don't want a man that will ever lose interest in me,raise his hands on me or see me as a woman married only for kids. I want a bestfriend and lover in a husband.

afraid my hubby may stop loving me if we get married, also afraid of divorce cos it will surely affect d kids & a loveless marriage is worst cos marriage should be enjoy not endure

Fear of marrying the wrong woman. Fear of been in a loveless marriage.
Fear of the "lady faking it till she makes it"
Fear of a lady showing her BEST attitude during courtship and bringing out the REST in marriage.

Marriage should be enjoyed and not endured.

Fear of Anuptaphobia. Nothing is as bad as marrying the wrong man.

simply put..................fear of the unknown.
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d unknown include;marrying the wrong woman
having a dirty partner
fear of the hard times if d partner doesn't hv the nous to endure and persevere as I can etc

A MAN THAT HAS A HIGH LIBIDO LIKE ME HAS SERIOUS ISSUES TO DEAL WITH WHEN HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED

jeff1607:
I know money, financial status, mental preparedness and more are necessary in marriage but putting all that aside what are yours fears? Mine has a lot of what ifs


what if in the long run it gets boring with everything looking like a routine with the fire that was present initially, will she try to rekindle it? As we know most ladies (not all) tend to wait for the guy to everything to spice it all up, from kinky gossips or just gisting.

What if she doesn't have time for me and probably loves the kids more?

what if love making becomes more like a chore or routine, would she try to spice it up and become more adventurous?

what if am no more would she be able to handle everything all on her own ( men die before that wives).

what if she changes during the course of marriage ( like show her true colour or character)


what if she can't bear the usual hustle and bustle in marriage and decides to quit? ( marriage isn't all smooth)


Experienced minds can help out here and you can share yours too.

#nuffsaid

my greatest fear in marriage is child bearing, because before some women will get pregnant it will take years , some after one it will not come again and i have been hearing of some couples waiting for like 15 years, i dont think i can execerise such patient , so i pray I should not fall into such category!

Marriage is not the problem, that can be done on the cheap
The real problem is giving birth to kids you cannot afford to raise just to prove you are capable of doing something even goats and pigs do