It was sometimes 2 years ago when my childhood girlfriend left me without any reason, i was preparing for my degree examination and due to the shock i messed up my GP which landed me to 2nd class lower instead of 2.1. The shock even made me to relocate to Abuja immediately after the exam and the guy that took her away frm me ve also left her.to cut the story short, the guy left her and she is coming back to me and before and after my nysc there is dis girl that has been too nice to me in Abuja where i live now to the fact that she now tells me how much she love me. MY QUESTIONS ARE

SHOULD I ACCEPT HER AND LUV HER AGAIN
HOW CAN I LOVE DIS NEW GIRL
HOW DO I KNOW A TRUE LOVE
I AM TOO EMOTIONAL, HOW DO I OVERCOME DIS

Damn!!




How long ago did ur ex leave u?
Me thinks u shd stick to being single for a while, and get over how ur feeling. It aint healthy! Learn to love urself, get some confidence, socialise with people and forget bout woman palava. It might take u a while to sort urself out cos u been loving this chick for time but u HAVE to get over her.

Wot's gonna happen if u 4give ur ex, get bk with her, and then this kinda ish happens again? Or it doesn't but u can't bring urself to forget bout wot happened? You will never trust her again.

I don't think u like this ur friend enough to get together. Cos if u did, u won't be thinking too much bout it. And don't use her as a rebound, cos it seems to me like she would like a relationship with u. . .Don't lead her on. Then again, it might do u good to get into a relationship to take ur mind off ur ex.

Good luck.

kellorah:

Damn!!




How long ago did your ex leave u?
Me thinks u shd stick to being single for a while, and get over how your feeling. It aint healthy! Learn to love urself, get some confidence, socialise with people and forget bout woman palava. It might take u a while to sort urself out cos u been loving this chick for time but u HAVE to get over her.

Wot's gonna happen if u 4give your ex, get bk with her, and then this kinda ish happens again? Or it doesn't but u can't bring urself to forget bout wot happened? You will never trust her again.

I don't think u like this your friend enough to get together. Cos if u did, u won't be thinking too much bout it. And don't use her as a rebound, cos it seems to me like she would like a relationship with u. . .Don't lead her on. Then again, it might do u good to get into a relationship to take your mind off your ex.

Good luck.

well said

badly said, lol

LOL! State ur opinion on the issue, oga.

@kellorah thanks 4 ur adviceand as4 ur quest is 2years now. for the new girl, i still fine is diffcult to luv her

Sup Kell. hope you're not a heart breaker like the poster.

stanleychi:

It was sometimes 2 years ago when my childhood girlfriend[b] left me without any reason[/b], i was preparing for my degree examination and due to the shock i messed up my GP which landed me to 2nd class lower instead of 2.1. The shock even made me to relocate to Abuja immediately after the exam and the guy that took her away frm me ve also left her.to cut the story short, the guy left her and she is coming back to me and before and after my nysc there is dis girl that has been too nice to me in Abuja where i live now to the fact that she now tells me how much she love me. MY QUESTIONS ARE

SHOULD I ACCEPT HER AND LUV HER AGAIN
HOW CAN I LOVE DIS NEW GIRL
HOW DO I KNOW A TRUE LOVE
I AM TOO EMOTIONAL, HOW DO I OVERCOME DIS

I wonder when people will ever learn. She learnt you for someone else and is only coming back cos the guy has left her and you want to dump a perfectly good girl. Accept her again and be ready to bunk your job when she leaves again cos she will.

How dare you take her back
and the part where u said u got 2.2 instead of 2.1 because of her is utter rubbish!! just say u no read! instead of using her as excuse.

stanleychi:

@kellorah thanks 4 your adviceand as4 your quest is 2years now. for the new girl, i still fine is diffcult to luv her

She left u 2 years ago, and ur still confused? AWWW. I don't think it will b wise for u to get back together.

chipmunkey:

Sup Kell. hope you're not a heart breaker like the poster.

Hahaha, wow. Hope my posts don't come across as one who is.

As for the question, No. [Besides, the poster isn't the heart breaker, it's his ex. ]

@ poster,
well my thinking is that a girl who will leave u for another guy after all these yrs will definately leave u again when the opportunity comes up, she is just using u as her fall back, she will bail once another opportunity presents itself.
well as some one mentioned earlier, u shd probably stay single for some time n really work on ur emotions b4 u think of falling in love again, it's a gradual thing. don't try to rush it ok.