Winnelyn:
The things men like in women often have nothing to do with looks, bra size or any of the standard things we think men fall for, although physical appearance is the first thing they notice (don’t we all?)  when it comes to settling down, looks often come in last and count the least!
Believe it or not, there are at least 10 completely non-physical things men like in women and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend could list many more and confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful and soft are not the only things that made him fall in love with you
1. A Good listeners
Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen , You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care.
Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it I’m here for you.” The ability to listen and really hear what's being said is one of the things men likes in women because it's so supportive -- and they're much more likely to reciprocate.
2. Spontaneous
Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the traits men likes in women the most,Most of our men would never sing in front of us (professional singers excluded) but they just love to hear us sing (even if it sounds more like howling)  they love to see us dance around the house, they will gladly throw us a surprise if they know the reaction will be positive and they Love to see us being us (even if it involves a certain dose of silliness). 
3. A Good cook
Our grandmas used to say that the only way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach oh yah remember that one? Well, we have learned by now that’s not the only way, although it certainly is one of the ways and, if I may add, a very good one....Men love women who can cook and women who would be willing to learn to cook for them.
That’s when that traditional part of the brain turns on to note the woman in question would be a good wife It’s a cliche, I know, but even experts agree on this one! hope you are a good cook??
4. Ready to compromise
Every man feels better when he knows his lady is ready to negotiate and work hard to find a solution that will be acceptable for both sides,So, I hope you’re ready to compromise, though guys like boobs long legs and big butt, they all agree this non-physical quality is far more important, It makes for a much longer, happier, more fulfilling relationship as well.
5. Caring
He really wants to know that you care for him but be careful, because repeating “I love you” until he can’t take it anymore isn’t a good way to let him know how you feel.
An average man will tell you that he loves you once and show you how much he loves you five times...You should do the same Baby him when he’s sick or tired, surprise him every once in a while, listen to his problems, SHOW him everything you want to tell him because this quality is one of the very important things men like in women.
6. A good Sense of humor
A sense of humor is also one of the things men like in women, especially in women they are planning to settle down with! Time to find your funny bone, ladies!
Now, I wonder why is that so… are they planning to make a lot of jokes or do they just want to make sure we’re able to find positive or maybe even funny sides in the future events that aren’t guaranteed to be stress free and easy? I don’t know but a sense of humor definitely gets my vote!
7. A strong woman
One of the best things men likes in women is a quality like no other, a virtue that no woman of today could live without strength! You don’t have to lose your best damsel in distress act, in fact, you can even let him “save” you once in a while, but he has to know you’ll be there if things start to get ugly...He has to know that there is a strong rock he can grab for under that delicate butterfly facade of yours a woman he can count on.
8. Be natural when it counts
Just because we like makeup doesn’t mean that we have to wear it all of the time...A guy wants a girl that is going to be natural when it counts, A guy loves it when a girl doesn’t take two hours to look perfect when in his opinion, she is perfect no matter what..He wants a girl that is so confident in herself, she doesn’t need anything but herself.
9. Get down and dirty at anytime
Of course, getting down and dirty is going to be a huge plus to a guy He wants someone that isn’t going to freak out about a bug or getting their nails dirty..He wants someone that would be down with doing ‘boy’ things and can be tomboyish just sometimes!
10. Motherly instinct
Ahan last but not the least... the motherly instinct is a definite must for most guys, He wants someone that will take care of him … and in turn, he will take care of you.
Guys also want to know that whomever they choose to have a family with, their kids will be taken care of in the best possible way, You see, the things men like in women are a
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