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If you want just a fling, then be clear 'verbally' that it's just a fling. Just as guys can't read minds, the case is the same for females. There are scenarios where you meet a girl in a club, and then you guys agree to go home and you're clear that it's no strings attached and a one of thing. But when you wake up the next morning and start asking for numbers and repeat performances, then you're just sending mixed signals and whatever drama you get in return is your burden to bare.

zugoboss:
Most girls find it difficult to tell if a guy wants a fling or a relationship.Can't a guy & a girl have a one-off thing without the girl using it as an excuse to bug the guy.Though there are guys that sweet talk a girl,lie to her or promise her heaven & earth just to get down with her.But there are situations where u find urself wit the opposite sex maybe in a party or just a casual visit then thru body language there's a spark.What should a guy do to avoid this?
No hating pls,

You very much answered your question there son.

So when the action is about to get started, you pop the statement 'girl,this just a fling be warned' I get it now.

zugoboss (m)

When u did probably did nt tell her it is, there is a rule to this thing nw make a gal understand her stand if she likes u, she will stay.

IT IS NOT THEIR FAULT. GIRLS ARE LIKE KIDS. THEY CAN BE CONVINCED AND CONFUSED EASILY.
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