Now, iv been to a lot of clubs, lounges and bars in lagos, port harcourt and enugu. And iv noticed that our girls dont go to these places unless a guy takes them. You go to a club and all the girls are with a guy that brought them, some others would be with aristos that brought them, and if you manage to see a girl on her own you are sure to find out that she is a professional ashawo. It seems that our girls only go to clubs and bars whenever a guy invites them or their friend is celebrating her birthday. My question is, is it that our girls are too stingy to spend money on themselves?

Lol, Guilty conscience has already started kicking in. Who mentioned anything about mr biggs now? I didnt. I said clubs, lounges, bars, Read,

Why would a Nigerian girl who cannot buy meat pie for herself should take another person out.

Ok, thanks for contributing.

@born, exactly my point.

I do agree that some ladies will never go out unless they are invited. Others would never go out no matter the invitation. but then a few would go out on their own and have a good time. But mostly in the company of their fellow female friends.

So poster it depends on the types u have met. I have seen the good the bad and the ugly.
And all women don't exactly think or act alike.

Lol, Haha. Well, whoever wishes can insult rather than debate. 70% of nigerians are illitrates anyway (note: litracy is not just about reading and writing, its about reasoning too and being civilized). According to UN, lol. So d insults dont bother me. The remaining 30% can debate like civilized human beings. Debate on!

@clare, yeah i guess. Most of them prefer goon with boyfriends or their girlfriends. Thats not bad but when their with their girlfriends you know say the formings go plenty, lol

~Killz~:

Why do Nigerian guys not go out alone, but will always get a girl to go with? Your point is pointedly pointless, and utterly hopeless! I would have considered your statement if you had visited clubs and bars in the 36 states of the federation! Widen your exposure and stop making st[i]u[/i]pid statements! Gawd!

Man I don't know if u live in Nigeria or not. But ur generalisations about nigerian guys is totally wrong.
If u take a survey of 2 bars each across the 36 states u will find out its very common to see just guys sitting at a table drinking and chatting away.
Like I said a few ladies also know how to have a good time but its not usually common.
the poster is right to some extent. What I don't agree with however is that these women don't go out because they are too Stingy.
Its more about lifestyle rather than finance.

Vista414:

Lol,  Haha. Well, whoever wishes can insult rather than debate. 70% of nigerians are illitrates anyway (note: litracy is not just about reading and writing, its about reasoning too and being civilized). According to UN, lol. So d insults dont bother me. The remaining 30% can debate like civilized human beings. Debate on!

crazy poster thats hilarious. r u saying most posters here are illitrates n not civilized hehehehehe so insult is no good. i like u. hope some members get ears to understand.

@annoymus, thats it na. Me no get time for insults. @kingsley, i guess its about lifestyle. But you know if you call the average girl on phone at night, she would most likely want you to take her out. Or if you suggest taking her out, she would most likely agree if she is bored at home. So that shows you that she wants to go out even before you called her. thats her lifestyle but she wont until a guy controls her. Why?

I wonder how many bars, clubs and lounges the OP has been to that makes him make statements like this?

~Killz~:
Why do Nigerian guys not go out
alone, but will always get a girl to
go with? Your point is pointedly
pointless, and utterly hopeless! I
would have considered your
statement if you had visited clubs
and bars in the 36 states of the
federation! Widen your exposure
and stop making stupid
statements! Gawd!


^^Bros, u dey 9ja at all? I'm the kind of brother that barely hang out with girl(s) to fast food, joint spot etc, i prefer my homeboys instead & i'll let you know that what the poster said was absolutely right, yeah! u rarely see a 9ja girl who come into a fastfood, clubs etc without hanging with a guy. Sincerely, the basic aspect of it is that they're STINGY.

Mynd_44:
I wonder how many bars, clubs
and lounges the OP has been to
that makes him make statements
like this?

^^Mr.Mynd, for instance must you date every Nigerian girls across the nation before you know they love money?¿¿

@vista
U have a point. What am saying is that ladies are different. At least I know a few ladies who are my friends that do take themselves out every once in a while and sometimes even pay the bills when we are together.

Everything depends on mentality. and the type of gals u are used to.
But like u said the average Nigerian lady definetely thinks its a guys responsibility to take them out. That's just how it is.

^^Sure man, not that there are not good Nigerian girls that are independent but when 80% of Nigerian girls are dependent whilst the 20% are independent then how'll they classify all?

I would have agreed if the OP had used MOST.

ok

Op av u been to every bar and clubs in this country to no that ladies do not go to these places by themselves

sweetcocoa:

OP I read what you wrote but I know its only mr biggs that you take a girl to,stop lying about all those other places you mentioned,you yourself only visit those places on someone else's sponsorship,its usually a case of"guy make I take on bottle for your head" for you so stop fronting.

Guilty conscience for what na?those places or type of things are not my priority so I could care less about them,besides I spend my time in places that adds value to my life not clubs and bars.

na wah 4 u

^wetin I do again now?

Op, your head dey there jare, especially all this so called 'tec' girls, if you talk to them na dem go first begin talk about so and so fast food, but they can never even buy ordinary cream for themselves.
Although not all sha, me and my guys one day went to a fast food just to chillax and i saw this cute girl just on her own, eating alone, my respect for her just shot up, the rest girls where either with guys, or in a restless mood waiting for the guy to show up.
Though a girl being at a club alone might give another meaning shaaa

Ladies know what this guy said was true that is why they refuses to oppose him but some men still try to be stubborn defending them ladies on their harsh character, even if ladies walks together to buy snacks in school, everyone always buy for herself alone unlike guy who one person can buy for 5 guys, guys do walk together and most of them don't go out with ladies except on Bleep day

@op i understand ur point bt nt evry gal doz dat. I go out wit fwnds and most of d tym go out alone. Wen am wit fwends esp dudes i tend to form a little bit. Ma chicken fit fall for ground and i will ignore it cos if i pick am dey fit cast me. But wen am all by mysef i will go to a hidden corner after eatn ma food i will chew ma meat and pieces d bone lyk a correct 9ja gal, if it falls to d ground i will pick am up. Simples

Ok, I guess most girls dont like going alone coz a lot of guys would be all over them trying to toast. But i thought that should be fun for girls. Afterall, girls love attention. If you come to a club or bar alone a lot of guys would definately give you a lot of attention.

iice:

Sometimes going to the club can be creepy.
All sorts of things will disturb. You don't even enjoy being there.
Depending on the club, i go with my female friends or my brothers.
And no i don't accept drinks from strangers.

they are not talking of coca cola type of drink

One tin wit most guyz is dat d moment dey start takin u out or givn u gifts dey feel dat u r obliged to return d favour in one way or d oda.