EazyMoh:
Ladies believe what you like, a mother is the most important woman in a man's life, not his wife.

AfroKnight:
Only a foolish woman contends with her mother in-law. A wife must respect the unique bond a man shares with his mother. She must accept the woman who raised the man she fell for. If not, then she is not ready to be a wife.

A mother is irreplaceable. We can't say the same for wives. If you cannot love your mother in law, the least you can do is keep your manipulation away from the relationship she shares with her son.

Over the years, wise women have earned the respect or even affection of their mothers in-law. Let the foolish ones pray empty powerless prayers instead of working on themselves. They will learn of the effect of their schemes when they have their own sons.

Ballajide:
If you get mama G as mother in law uh will wishes worse

suzan404:
I will never wish my mother-in-law death,ahan cos I'd definitely become one,what goes around comes around...Every daughter-in-law is a potential mother-in-law...we should just continue to pray to God to give us what we all desire...a mother-in-law like my own mother that's all I wish for....I wish my mother inlaw (whoever she is) the best things in life.

RaeMystix:
What if the mother inlaw is a witch unkO?

shumuel:
Op God bless you, and its so spot on that i have not much to say, i was just thinking of this last week and honestly its disheartening to hear ladies say such while they are all also praying to be mothers to boys; which would also make them MILs in future, mtcheeeew! May our ladies receive sense.

luminouz:

suzan404: :
I will never wish my mother-in-law death,ahan cos I'd definitely become one,what goes around comes around...Every daughter-in-law is a potential mother-in-law...we should just continue to pray to God to give us what we all desire...a mother-in-law like my own mother that's all I wish for....smileyI wish my mother inlaw (whoever she is) the best things in life.

Ur mother in law? That's my mum dear! Ur so lucky!

fluxbush:
Ugh! Another thread for guys to bash DILs. Already, one Ahab above is talking shit about wives being replaceable. Now with attitudes like that, when a supposed husband can't and won't caution his erring mother, do you really expect the ' bought out' wife to show love and wish the MIL well? And all in the name of cementing the bond between mother and son, as if the wife was cultivated from a tree.

I am not for wishing MILs death, karma or not, but when men learn to put everyone in their proper places,there will never be scenarios where MILs and DILs will be antagonistic towards each other. The onus lies on our lily-livered men and husbands.

Food for thought: MILs are not the mothers of the wives,so don't expect them to flow same as they flow with their actual blood. I can tell my mum that I am tired and won't cook for a day and she will understand me cuz I am her daughter. Say that to MIL and my box is already on its way to my father's house

ginggerxy:
then why would you want to marry the son of a witch?

RaeMystix:

Maybe such wasn't discovered until after the wedding?

queenesthr:


A mother is the most important woman in a woman's life, not her husband.

kennygee:
Hmmn. It is well.

Not that I support the idea of praying for a MIL to die before entering her son's house. But we should consider the reason behind why a sane person would wish that.

Some of these ladies watched the way a MIL maltreated their Mum or their sister or aunt.

The day wey my mama gist me Wetin her MIL do her as a young wife of 22, I felt for her. She said her MIL came for Omuguo and didn't even touch any of her babies (twins), there were times soap would enter our nose when she is bathing us and she would run out to ask for the help of neighbours while her MIL is in the room.

Still she forgave the woman even tho the woman's character didn't change. The woman no go say my mama no try for her, may God rest her soul.

So instead of wishing the woman dead, pray ahead that God will give you a MIL like ur own mother, that God will make her love you even more than her own child, make you sef ready keep head down.


If u enter her son house dey do any how, you go see any how.

mapet:

EazyMoh:
Ladies believe what you like, a mother is the most important woman in a man's life, not his wife.
*Modified
The moment a wife looks down on her MIL she has set her marriage in the path of disaster. Even if the MIL is wicked and unkind, even if she insults and slaps the DIL , SHE SHOULD NEVER THINK OF RETALIATING. Better for her to insult me than to insult my mother.

Bisjosh:
Truth be told ...

Some MIL already see a DIL as rival even before getting to know her.
they feel she will turn the attention her son showers on her to only herself (DIL)

ladies should stop pretending they love their MIL just to get the son then turn around after the wedding to show their beasty side.

If u know the mama is too tied to her son and u cant cope pls , no need in marrying the son. Look for someone else.

Women are their own worst enemies. You dont see this happening between son inlaw and father inlaw.

And for the husbands pls stop thinking over righteous of your moms. If your mum treats you well doesnt mean she treats others well. MILs are not angels.

Spot on..

bamisepeters:
i am happy i am saying minds, but happier my write-ups are making frontpage, if not seun who made this forum possible and his subordinates lalasticlala and co i may not be able to speak to thousands of you. @ all, thank you for your comments, those comments means a lot to my growth, don't stop following me. #proudwriter

bumi10:
Wen i heard this first from a friend, i really thought she was joking until i noticed she said it to someone else



but how can ladies be this selfish? is simply, what you wish someone is what you wish yourself.



If u don't already knw that, is better u know it now.


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fluxbush:
Ugh! Another thread for guys to bash DILs. Already, one Ahab above is talking shit about wives being replaceable. Now with attitudes like that, when a supposed husband can't and won't caution his erring mother, do you really expect the ' bought out' wife to show love and wish the MIL well? And all in the name of cementing the bond between mother and son, as if the wife was cultivated from a tree.

I am not for wishing MILs death, karma or not, but when men learn to put everyone in their proper places,there will never be scenarios where MILs and DILs will be antagonistic towards each other. The onus lies on our lily-livered men and husbands.

Food for thought: MILs are not the mothers of the wives,so don't expect them to flow same as they flow with their actual blood. I can tell my mum that I am tired and won't cook for a day and she will understand me cuz I am her daughter. Say that to MIL and my box is already on its way to my father's house.

APCmyheart:


One them, Your likes will be claiming superiority over the man, You will always want to have control over him more than his mother, You will always want to dictate how he treat his mother, You will want to know when he give her money, How much he gave her.. Continue..

Well maybe you need to learn first from your mother how to treat your MIL except you were brought up by a mother who is like you.

Flashh:
Let them know.