posakosa:

Ok, let me be clear

1. the poster is not the saint he may be claiming to be; hence working mercilessly to portray the woman as a psycho

2. if the poster claims that she is a psycho, why let her talk to your wife. Isn't that exposing your wife to danger.


Is that clear ?

I would have to agree with posakosa
If your ex is as crazy as she's portrayed here, it would make absolute sense not to expose your family to her. But tell your wife 'bout what's been happening between you.
Then try to conciliate with your ex. It's easier now you ar both married than it would have been if she was still single.