Whether men and women realize it or not, control is essential in every relationship. The key is to maintain a balance of control between both individuals. If too much control is given to one individual things can go south quickly. Take for example a woman’s first date with a man. She gets dressed up, he picks her up, he wines her, he dines her, he holds a great conversation and he makes her laugh. In the minds of most women this is an ideal date, but that can be the furthest from the truth if she relinquished all control to the man. In most cases, women aren’t aware that they are relinquishing control to the man, but it’s happening. It is vital when a woman goes on a date that she never gives full control to a man. The control must remain balanced. By all means she should allow the man to treat her with respect and show her a good time, but she must never become lazy. Don’t let the man ask all the questions or expect him to lead the conversation. That’s a one-sided approach and a huge mistake. The man will sense that she is sitting back and allowing him to dictate and determine the course of the conversation, the date and ultimately their future together. When a woman allows that to happen she has given that man all of the control. She has also made it clear to that man that she isn’t truly invested, which in some cases will lead men to detach any feelings they had for the woman and never contact or call her again.

TEVLI:
And Trapqueen77 jst stole my spot...

TrapQueen77:









Did I? I don't steal ur spotty spot ooo... Ask kisschrix

TEVLI:
u been mentioning kisschrix in almost every thread.... 're we looking at a budding romance?? :/

TrapQueen77:







Hahahahaha... Not that close but we're good...

CreamyMoltenLar:
Actually most of them can't help it. Majority of Naija girls are poor conversationalists, and that's because they don't improve upon themselves. After turning their brains to mush from overexposure to Korean, Mexican, Filipino and Bollywood soaps, all they can scrounge up is K, Kk, yh, owk and lol at every comment. Shout out to the dwindling minority that can actually keep up with a conversation, y'all are a dying breed

vicstar:
why can't someone be addicted to getting a paycheck instead of being on every thread smh for the trapped souls

TEVLI:
jst mention me in ur pre-wedding pix thread

TEVLI:
u been mentioning kisschrix in almost every thread.... 're we looking at a budding romance?? :/

post=50974232:
Chei bro. You deserve a bottle of beer. What's ya brand ?

CreamyMoltenLar:
Legend

TrapQueen77:







What if I tell u I don't believe in marriage?

KissChrix:


Bro, let's take a peek at the bible

TEVLI:
oga abeg no use force smash Trapq pussy o ,, she is still a virgin y'knw

KissChrix:

Trapqueen, I heard you're still a virqin?

post=50974711:
Why una choose to Derail this thread ..

judeefcc:
anything trapqueen77 is derailed thats why people hate her

post=50974814:
But na my thread na.

judeefcc:
anything trapqueen77 is derailed thats why people hate her

judeefcc:
anything trapqueen77 is derailed thats why people hate her

judeefcc:
no worry i go soon handle her, her soup dey fire

judeefcc:
no worry i go soon handle her, her soup dey fire

iamDaisy:
Jude the troublemaker

KissChrix:


Babaly

TrapQueen77:





Waaah
Waaaah
Waaaahhh...... U can't even finished wat u started on ur thread and u run away and cry for the mods and now ur here chasin upandan...


Mad Man