I have noticing and experiencing this character of some female folks I don't know if anyone has experienced it too. I have this girl in my lodge at school that will leave her room only to come and sleep in my room and it was like that for long, at a time people started thinking we were up to something else whereas we were just cool and nothing attached. Any day my male friends comes around and decides to spend the night in my house she becomes restless and decides to seek for where to sleep, she will call her friends to let them know that she is coming to spend the night in their house. Since she rented her apartment she has never slept alone, except when her friends visits with her. She rarely sleep in her apartment. I have asked so many times why she can't just sleep alone for even a night but she will never tell me.
The other day I visited a far relative in the same school she was telling me how her parents will call to ask her about how she has been managing sleeping alone, she will tell them that she has been trying, whereas she doesn't even sleep in her room, she sleeps in her neighbour's room. I was suprise to notice this character in her too, I thought it was reduced to the lady in my "compound" alone.
I have Choosen to pro-actively make a survey on this very issue and most of the ladies I encountered never admitted they could sleep in a room alone, even most of the ones that admitted they could were not sacrosanct in their convinction enough, I think they were only trying to save face.

THE QUESTION IS: what is the reason why most ladies can't sleep alone? Are u a lady? Can u sleep alone?

Probably possessed and suffer nightmares

Maybe she has experienced a robbery or something similar before and hasn't gotten over that trauma.

I'm a girl, I prefer being alone and sleeping alone, i Dont keep friends so I hardly have visitors, I hate it when a female comes to sleep over, I just prefer being alone, I have two female neighbours that can't sleep alone, it irritates me, I feel its a sign of weakness, they always have friends around them.

Na craze deh cause am

May they are afriaid of the night.

youngest85:
Na craze deh cause am

Lol

Lavendra:
I'm a girl, I prefer being alone and sleeping alone, i Dont keep friends so I hardly have visitors, I hate it when a female comes to sleep over, I just prefer being alone, I have two female neighbours that can't sleep alone, it irritates me, I feel its a sign of weakness, they always have friends around them.

Thank you ma, atleast u confirmed what I am saying. It is really difficult to ascertain where their problem is coming from.

A female friend of mine also told me that. .that's why she opted for school hostel

More answers are needed. I noticed it back then in school.

Most of them experiences sleep paralysis... To some its called pressing.

2016 thread in 2018 Forward ever ,backward never

PigMeat:
I have noticing and experiencing this character of some female folks I don't know if anyone has experienced it too. I have this girl in my lodge at school that will leave her room only to come and sleep in my room and it was like that for long, at a time people started thinking we were up to something else whereas we were just cool and nothing attached. Any day my male friends comes around and decides to spend the night in my house she becomes restless and decides to seek for where to sleep, she will call her friends to let them know that she is coming to spend the night in their house. Since she rented her apartment she has never slept alone, except when her friends visits with her. She rarely sleep in her apartment. I have asked so many times why she can't just sleep alone for even a night but she will never tell me.
The other day I visited a far relative in the same school she was telling me how her parents will call to ask her about how she has been managing sleeping alone, she will tell them that she has been trying, whereas she doesn't even sleep in her room, she sleeps in her neighbour's room. I was suprise to notice this character in her too, I thought it was reduced to the lady in my "compound" alone.
I have Choosen to pro-actively make a survey on this very issue and most of the ladies I encountered never admitted they could sleep in a room alone, even most of the ones that admitted they could were not sacrosanct in their convinction enough, I think they were only trying to save face.

THE QUESTION IS: what is the reason why most ladies can't sleep alone? Are u a lady? Can u sleep alone?

Benwems:
More answers are needed. I noticed it back then in school.

It's threads like this that makes Nairaland a den for breeding ignorance.