A lot of suspcious thingst(that I will not start mentioning here)have happened over my wife that I don't want to sleep with her again until I found out and confirm that she did not slept with other men.For if she did, she will confess and Cleansing must be performed before I start sleeping with her again.That's the only condition.I stopped making love with her for like two months now because of my suspense that she sleeps arround.My question is how will I find out if she had slept with men?,I am considering taking her to shrine to prove herself innocent as she keep denying,Pls no insult as you should know that there is no smoke without fire.The point here is while she is denying she have not been sleeping with other men as I suspected for some time now,she MUST prove hundred percent innocent before I start making love with her,otherwise I may dissolve the union.What other ways do u think to confirm apart from shrine?

She is ur wife, na u know how u dey handle her

Smell her you-know-what every now and then. If you perceive something off....it's likely another man's cassava.

Why don't you put your money where your mouth is? Here are my suggestions, take your pick:


Plant bugs and spy gadgets on her

Contract some smart guys to go undercover and trail her everywhere

Get a drone to monitor her movements by yourself.

...Or you could just shut it and quit being paranoid!

Op you have to sincerely state categorically us the suspicious movements or acts which you have caught her that made you to suspect she's sleeping around . failure to do so . she's innocent to your accusations.

Op, sorry.

op...dont mind naira landers they can never give you any reasonable answer... ehmm...just watsap me nd I will send you my address..direct your wife to my place alone and I will run the test for you...my middle finger gat some magic for stuff like this...... ..... don't mention, what are friends for?

ok

Ok @ op be honest, are you faithful to your wife? Let's start with you first

I think you are the one that need deliverance for thinking of taking her to a shine without concrete evidence that she is sleeping around

Lace magun on her
You will see what you're looking for

Throw the first stone if you have no sin!

dangotesmummy:
Lace magun on her
You will see what you're looking for

Hah, Uncle you are harsh o!
But you know if a woman is innocent magun kills her after a while.
What if his wife is innocent? She should die abi?
Biko suggest another thing.

@ OP
Hope you too will swear at the shrine too. See where your mind went to; shrine?
Swear too that you've never cheated on her and let's pick it from there.
Anyways, your suspicions might be off. Pls be very sure first as being accused falsely can be very painful.

Godmother:


Hah, Uncle you are harsh o!
But you know if a woman is innocent magun kills her after a while.
What if his wife is innocent? She should die abi?
Biko suggest another thing.

@ OP
Hope you too will swear at the shrine too. See where your mind went to; shrine?
Swear too that you've never cheated on her and let's pick it from there.
Anyways, your suspicions might be off. Pls be very sure first as being accused falsely can be very painful.

and he will also run mad for falsely accusing his wife of infidelity. After the magun didn't work on her because she's innocent

Shebi na him dey find evidence

Make he dey find. He'll get what he's looking for

dangotesmummy:
and he will also run mad for falsely accusing his wife of infidelity. After the magun didn't work on her because she's innocent

Shebi na him dey find evidence

Make he dey find. He'll get what he's looking for

From what I know of magun, if she's guilty it will catch her in the act
But if she's innocent and doesn't sleep with a man after a certain period, she dies.

You're making accusations that you're not substantiating.

Men who accuse their wives incessantly like this are usually the guilty ones.

Since you've been punishing your wife for two months by not sleeping with her because of your assumption that she's sleeping around, are you saying that you have not been sleeping with anyone else?

Godmother:


From what I know of magun, if she's guilty it will catch her in the act
But if she's innocent and doesn't sleep with a man after a certain period, she DIES

and the man runs mad because her blood is now on his head

Wow so she's GUILTY until proven Innocent

Smh for this op.

Someone who cheats is more likely to be suspicious of his wife cheating. So what are the evidences you have against your wife. Or are you scared about something you see in you.

pcguru1:
Someone who cheats is more likely to be suspicious of his wife cheating. So what are the evidences you have against your wife. Or are you scared about something you see in you.

the bolded is so true.

just saw godmother's signature: what you see in others exists in you.

So men like this really exist. O di egwu o.

She is innocent until proven guilty, not the other way round.

Your question: "How do I prove she has been sleeping with other men?" shows that you are convinced that she did so why should she try to prove her innocence?

Now tell us what makes you think that she is guilty?

Why should a man think of taking his wife to a shrine on any grounds?...this is why marriage scares people.

Yieldings:
You're making accusations that you're not substantiating.

Men who accuse their wives incessantly like this are usually the guilty ones.

Since you've been punishing your wife for two months by not sleeping with her because of your assumption that she's sleeping around, are you saying that you have not been sleeping with anyone else?

Important matter should not be treated with levity.If I am not faithful with her or sleeping arroud,I won't post this.Pls give the post their seriousness and importance it derserve.

Pinkdiamondz:
Wow so she's GUILTY until proven Innocent

Exactly! That's the summary.

teemy:
just saw godmother's signature: what you see in others exists in you.

Yea, that's true

pcguru1:
Someone who cheats is more likely to be suspicious of his wife cheating. So what are the evidences you have against your wife. Or are you scared about something you see in you.

i see you are playing mind games

Bawal:


Exactly! That's the summary.

You need psychiatric help sir. This is not correct.

If you carry on like this she will cheat or leave you.

Bawal:



Important matter should not be treated with levity.If I am not faithful with her or sleeping arroud,I won't post this.Pls give the post their seriousness and importance it derserve.

https://www.nairaland.com/3115407/pls-sexually-addicted-big-boobs

So on this you won't cheating. ?


Look you're out of work and stressed and depressed probably and you are taking it out on her. What do you want your bride price back? Leave the poor woman before she kills you or you kill her. You are unwell! !