The qualities that initially attract you to a man are not always the ones that guarantee that he would be an ideal life partner. If you are seriously considering settling down and you still don't understand what qualities you look for in a man then this list can help you sort that out.

Personality: Your preferences should be in full consideration of what would complement your own personality. Some of the things you prefer may just be the traditional ones but not necessarily the ones that would fit who you truly are.

Do you want someone who is funny? Because you normally experience bad days, you want someone who makes you laugh out loud when you're having a bad day. Or do you want someone who is stable and lets you feel safe and secure because you're a practical person who works equally hard. Always look for someone who matches your personality.

Social Skills: Are you an extrovert? Do you fancy the night life and social functions? Or are you a homebody? Or are you biased to a guy whose sense of family is very strong? Take time to consider what level of social skills you feel most comfortable with. There's no point hooking up with a party person when you're a true blue homebody.

The Wallet Aspect: What about the subject of money? Where does he stand on the role of finances? Does he believe in what is his is also yours? Or is he the type who needs to confer all decisions about money? And where do you stand?

Sexual Issues: Do you want someone who is sexually charged or active? Or are you the once a month type? Are you traditional? You've got to know what you want in this regard. Sexual compatibility can provide an extra element of chemistry and intensity in your relationship.

Spiritual Compatibility: Whether you are religious or not, you would want a partner to agree with your view on this aspect. Spiritual beliefs are deeply ingrained in your upbringing and chances are, he or she will not veer away from his set of beliefs either. If you're a Christian, don't go looking for an atheist.

Relational Style: Are you looking for a prince who makes you his everything? Or are you the type who wants an occasional break from each other? Find out how your dream guy relates to you. If you're the type who wants love notes and phone calls every hour, but he just doesn't have it in him, then you're in for a big disappointment.

Physical Attributes: How would you like your partner to look like? Perhaps you're petite and you would also want a small guy? Do you want the athletic type? Who cares? But it's part of the formula so go ahead and make a list of what you want your partner to look like. Besides his physical characteristics is what initially attracts you to another person.

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