Mzgracie:


Sent

tomisinobm:


Received.

Thank you so much

elpatch:
please,send me a copy :atiadeleke@gmail.com

Enybliss:
the problem now is how to get this awesome book

Zibi1:
When i saw d name "On becoming" i thought that maybe its a book that talks about how she started and her challenges of been successful and so on!
I never knew that what was in that book was all about Maje and Anita, she just decided to spoil their name to the world, just because of money and her failed relationship, is she the only one that have been through difficult situations? No! Is she moving on? No! they said good name is better than gold and silver and i feel this book will definitely hunt her in the future... I wonder what people will learn in this book that is full of hatred, pain and controversies!!!
If all of us were to write a book about our relationship i guess we will be the best authors of all time!!!
Someone that will go and be advising other people about their relationship but her own no get head... Mumu

BossLadyF:


I have the soft copy

tomisinobm:


Done. Kindly confirm receipt.

repogirl:
She might have realised it late but thank goodness it wasn't too late. She still has her whole life ahead of her. She should enjoy it to the fullest and leave that Aje to settle his baby mamas. He will still get a few more baby mamas in the next coming years.

But Toke it will be the greatest fúck up if you make up with him at any time. Its very obvious he knows how to meander his way back to you. You berra stay far away from him.

Mzgracie:


I checked the mail delivery subsystem. It said the email either doesn't exist or check for typos.. send anoda email

Mzgracie:
The day I read this story. I prayed and prayed.. choosing the wrong man not only break u down emotionally.. it affects everything that concerns u.. I must commend Toke for opening our spiritual eyes to somethings..

BossLadyF:
Looking forward to reading the book

estheora:

Toke makinwa clearly advertised her book on kemi filani blog just to get more sale.Y'all fell for it.
The book is not for anyone to learn from it, its mainly to enrich her purse.
Who are the next to write book to get more money:
Tiwa Savage- she made a rong move going to pulse tv, it's should have bin a book
Linda Ikeji- The book will be on how different men broke her heart.
Toyin Aimakhu- I'm sure She'll make more cash than Toke.
Rubbish

Mzgracie:


Give me ur email

estheora:

Toke makinwa clearly advertised her book on kemi filani blog just to get more sale.Y'all fell for it.
The book is not for anyone to learn from it, its mainly to enrich her purse.
Who are the next to write book to get more money:
Tiwa Savage- she made a rong move going to pulse tv, it's should have bin a book
Linda Ikeji- The book will be on how different men broke her heart.
Toyin Aimakhu- I'm sure She'll make more cash than Toke.
Rubbish

Orikinla:
She forced herself on him.
She was emotionally immature and insecure.
He took advantage of her vulnerability.

queenfav:
Despite my very crazy schedule, I managed to read it last night.. My thoughts on it.... let's see.
1.If a man shows you his attitude the first time,believe him.This book has even reinforced my stance of moving on when I sense any signs of a relationship being toxic.I can break up with a guy after 3 days of datind,when i notice what I can't stand and the fact that it won't change.. Yes, lemme date 100 till I meet that one I can live with, I will rake my chances. lol..


2.Always listen to your instincts..Toke had to go through 12 years of hurt and divorce to realize you can't change a man by loving him,its. two way street and has to be 50/50.


3.Beauty cannot keep a man..I mean, I broke in a million pieces when i read the part about toke asking maje what was it about Anita he couldn't let go of.Like really? Look at Toke and and look at Anita.Yet the plain looking babe held her Maje on lockdown for years.Its clear the heart wants who it wants afterall..



4.As a woman, financial independence is key!Toke would have been forced to remain in her marriage admist the lies and public humiliation if she didn't have her own money.I repeat this daily,single ladies,strive to have your own money ooo.That way having a man is just an 'icing on the cake' not the cake itself.


5.Sayings like 'the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know','the next man/woman might be worse, lemme stay here' etc would ultimately lead to your doom like in Toke's case.I learnt that once you sense a pattern (not a one time screw up) e.g lies,cheating and the likes.Please check out of that relationship fast or you must be ready for worse in future and develop a good coping mechanism.


6.Marriage is nor the be ll and and all.Its not every one you love you should marry.Toke saw the signs,yet felt marriage would make Make a better man.Unfortunately, it even dealt her the worse emotional blow in the history of their relationship.


7.Most friends and family may be wrong, but at times when they say something about your partner, please listen.God might just be speaking through them. However apply caution and be very objective about their observations.


Finally,i'll say it's a very good book..One every woman should read..There's something to learn from it for everyone.I admired how Toke owned up to her own shortcomings and issues. I was expecting it to be all about Maje's wrongs, but it was mature of her to own up to her own faults that may have led to the breakdown of their marriage.I give her kudos,she has been through hell and back and is still standing tall.Many women would have committed suicide or acted rashly,but she kept her cool and didn't fuel the already flying rumours about her marital woes.
(pardon the typos, I just needed to say this real quick)

Mzgracie:

Give me ur email

BossLadyF:


I haven't. Please do you have the soft copy?

Emaprince:
Nonsense!!!

It seems this Toke is paying people to help promote her book. I've seen so much about it on front page lately... and I don't think there's anything to learn here from the little excerpts I saw.

A whole Radio host that is suffering from low self esteem... went from dark skin to light skin pretending to be pleasing Maje.. balderdash!!!


And I was expecting to see what the OP learnt from the book only for him/her to post a summary of the book. SMH

Abenitohposh:
I admire her courage n respect her for the maturity,she kept quite all through the drama of their marriage she never granted any interview this was what I expected Toyin aimakhu to have done when her marriage crash but she is too emotional which lead her into dating another man this is the biggest mistake she made anyway toke I wish u well n I pray u find happiness in ur next reletionship

BossLadyF:


I haven't. Please do you have the soft copy?

Miles300:
Make she park well Abeg , which inspiration from Holy Spirit ? Na only u get broken home ! There is nothin to learn here .. Instead y 'all should read on those that have got a successful marriage nd learn one or 2 things from that ... !! Can a blind man lead a blid man ?

Mzgracie:




Perfect

okoji:
Yet you opened the thread, read through and still commented. SMH. World people!