Hi Nairaland!
Please I have a number of pressing issues bothering me. I'm 29, deeply introverted & maybe because of that I'm not able to have real friends I can trust. I do get a little paranoid & highly critical & distrusting of people most times cos looking back to my youth people only come to me because of the little money or possessions I have. I get this feeling that they're always looking to take advantage of me & I get extremely cautious. I've also never really been in an intimate relationship probably cos my view about women, love & marriage is completely distorted.

Recently I met this runs babe in my area & I've been meeting with her. The last time I saw her she was all smiles, kissed me for the first time & blurted out "I love you". Now, I wasn't so brilliant in school, neither am I also socially intelligent but I have this intuitive ability to detect straight BS when I see it in people. I know she doesn't mean that & only wants my money. My question is what's the smart way to end this "thing" with this girl? cos she mentioned she had a BF in Port/H (I believe that anyway) & she'll only kiss someone who's a BF. Doesn't the kiss mean she wants me to be her BF even if only in the interim? Also what if I only want her as a fucck buddy, how do I tell her?

Most importantly, I'm at a place where I don't see people as people anymore. I don't like people, I don't trust em. I'm pretty much a loner & cool with it. If people don't want to rock with me for whatever reason then fucck em!

Flee away from fornication, for they shall have their place in the lake of fire

Stop giving her attention bro, if u are not smart academically and socially then where does ur strenght lies.!!!!!!!

kinibigdeal:
Flee away from fornication, for they shall have their place in the lake of fire

Ur case is spiritual....

this one is strong

Bro, just tell her what u want. Be confident, go like this.


"Sandra(whatever her name is), from all indications, u are a runs girl, I like u, but I am not sure if u like me too, infact I don't trust u, considering the fact that u have a BF elsewhere. U once mentioned that u love me, maybe it was a joke, maybe u are serious, I don't know. The thing is, I have weighed my options, I am an introvert, I don't trust people naturally, so, going into relationship that might hit the rocks out of betrayal and the nature of ur job, it will affect me psychologically and otherwise. So let's get this straight, I want u as a friend and also a fuccck buddy, nothing serious attached. How do u see that? Make sure u are looking into her eyes while saying it.




If u have money(like if u are financially independent, trust me, there is nothing u cannot say).

It is well Op

chigoizie7:
Bro, just tell her what u want. Be confident, go like this.


"Sandra(whatever her name is), from all indications, u are a runs girl, I like u, but I am not sure if u like me too, infact I don't trust u, considering the fact that u have a BF elsewhere. U once mentioned that u love me, maybe it was a joke, maybe u are serious, I don't know. The thing is, I have weighed my options, I am an introvert, I don't trust people naturally, so, going into relationship that might hit the rocks out of betrayal and the nature of ur job, it will affect me psychologically and otherwise. So let's get this straight, I want u as a friend and also a fuccck buddy, nothing serious attached. How do u see that? Make sure u are looking into her eyes while saying it.




If u have money(like if u are financially independent, trust me, there is nothing u cannot say).

Thanks bruh, I could use this with some tweaks.

Chidonc:
Stop giving her attention bro, if u are not smart academically and socially then where does ur strenght lies.!!!!!!!

I'm predominantly artistic actually, I do designs & sketches in my spare time.

beinstein:

Oga no vex for me with that kain eye na wetin?

Tyviv:
It is well Op

Madam pray for me o. She even called with a different number this evening & when I asked she said "it's your baby now". I'm like (nigguh when did...)

kinibigdeal:
Flee away from fornication, for they shall have their place in the lake of fire

Ride on Pastor.

fluxmind:


Madam pray for me o. She even called with a different number this evening & when I asked she said "it's your baby now". I'm like (nigguh when did...)

you need plenty prayers ... The baby thing is actually no big deal

Tyviv:
It is well Op

No be only WELL, na BOREHOLE.

Haba!! My Sister,
Im talk say e no well? Op dey ask for solution, you dey tell am say it is well.
Proffer solution to his predicament, that's what he's asking for Ma'am.

OhMyG0d:
No be only WELL, na BOREHOLE.

Haba!! My Sister,
Im talk say e no well? Op dey ask for solution, you dey tell am say it is well.
Proffer solution to his predicament, that's what he's asking for Ma'am.

my brother, the story is confusing... Op doesn't like her or he feels she is after his money and calls her olosho and same him want to be her Bleep buddy...

Don't allow her tie u down wit swit words,make her understand wht u want

fluxmind:


I'm predominantly artistic actually, I do designs & sketches in my spare time.

u mustnt give a Bleep about people but stil learn to be socialized.

Demonstrate, do not explicate. Apologies Robert Greene.

No be on top every mata dem dey convene panel.

You don't need to say anything. Just keep railing her.

With this one, you could casually mention you're seeing other girls, if the need arises.

Bro you have a multitude of issues
How about you actually stop entertaining this person,you don't call her,no communication of any kind. This is not a serious thing so why are you making it look like you are getting divorced?

Jesus is only d way out .

Tell her you want her as a sexmate. That shouldn't be too hard for her. Give her the conditions you want.

Truss me if you indeed have money and you think that's what she's after, then, she would agree to your conditions.

fluxmind:
Hi Nairaland!
Most importantly, I'm at a place where I don't see people as people anymore. I don't like people, I don't trust em. I'm pretty much a loner & cool with it. If people don't want to rock with me for whatever reason then fucck em!

I like dz part ,I'm also at this place but it contradict ur whole storyline. People at this point don't care about what a girl will think or how to discharge a girl more or less an olosho.

They don't bring such issues to Nairaland, they don't care about people's opinion. They just don't give a fuccck. They just do what they like how they like it.

fluxmind:
Hi Nairaland!
Please I have a number of pressing issues bothering me. I'm 29, deeply introverted & maybe because of that I'm not able to have real friends I can trust. I do get a little paranoid & highly critical & distrusting of people most times cos looking back to my youth people only come to me because of the little money or possessions I have. I get this feeling that they're always looking to take advantage of me & I get extremely cautious. I've also never really been in an intimate relationship probably cos my view about women, love & marriage is completely distorted.

Recently I met this runs babe in my area & I've been meeting with her. The last time I saw her she was all smiles, kissed me for the first time & blurted out "I love you". Now, I wasn't so brilliant in school, neither am I also socially intelligent but I have this intuitive ability to detect straight BS when I see it in people. I know she doesn't mean that & only wants my money. My question is what's the smart way to end this "thing" with this girl? cos she mentioned she had a BF in Port/H (I believe that anyway) & she'll only kiss someone who's a BF. Doesn't the kiss mean she wants me to be her BF even if only in the interim? Also what if I only want her as a fucck buddy, how do I tell her?

Most importantly, I'm at a place where I don't see people as people anymore. I don't like people, I don't trust em. I'm pretty much a loner & cool with it. If people don't want to rock with me for whatever reason then fucck em!

bro stop masturbating...
it wil help u gt out dis tin u put ur self......

izito:



bro stop masturbating...
it wil help u gt out dis tin u put ur self......

See guilty conscience. Typical Nigerian! I dey talk about Olosho, you're mentioning masturbation. Biko si eba puo! Gerrarahere nigguh i'm getting money & b!tches.

I need a sex mate that come from osun, osogbo preside, that is good on bed based on monthly salary any interested ladies should chart with me on whatsapp 07069459076

toneyblack:
I need a sex mate that come from osun, osogbo preside, that is good on bed based on monthly salary any interested ladies should chart with me on whatsapp 07069459076

Hey you erase this post with immediate effect! Lekwanu esisi?

Hahahah
Op. Which money she wan chop?

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