am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me.
though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might.
i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

What do you want us to tell you?

It's obvious you already know what you want.
Whatever happens,someone's going to be hurt.
You,the woman or your son.
You can't take the 'hurt' outta issues like this.

Why do you want to quit your marriage without trying to work things out with your wife? Do you even value your union at all? You have such an awful feeling towards your home and you haven't thought of talking over with your wife? How do you expect her to change assuming she's the problem?

Bros, biko try and work out things with your wife! There must be something that made you marry her in the first place.

You should atleast try and make things work instead of walking away. Her happy to see u back from work means she values ur company and u can go about with d thought of her cheating just because of her lies...

this is why i only want baby mamas

Check Yourself something is wrong with you... you have just spoken from a selfish angle.

gabazin080:
am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me.
though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might.
i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

What do you mean by quitting without hurting her Is she a bloody cold stone devoid of feelings

jorion:
this is why i only want baby mamas

ur popsy had only babymamas?

carry ur matter go court

Tell them to put asonder

carry ur matter go court

Tell them to put asonder in ur marriage

Splinz:


What do you mean by quitting without hurting her Is she a bloody cold stone devoid of feelings

Don't mind him... He doesn't even know what marriage is all about

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Gosh!

You want to hurt someone but you don't want her to feel hurt? Are you for real? Do you mean she doesn't have feelings?

gabazin080:
am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me.
though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might.
i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

I am certain that another lady is already in the equation,

ammyluv2002:
Why do you want to quit your marriage without trying to work things out with your wife? Do you even value your union at all? You have such an awful feeling towards your home and you haven't thought of talking over with your wife? How do you expect her to change assuming she's the problem?

Bros, biko try and work out things with your wife! There must be something that made you marry her in the first place.

the lies are becoming too much. telling lies about her movement. imagine me hearing sounds of conductors in garrage and my wife telling me she's at home

There is no way you will quit without hurting her.

gabazin080:
the lies are becoming too much. telling lies about her movement. imagine me hearing sounds of conductors in garrage and my wife telling me she's at home

Maybe you don't allow her to be herself na. Most people lie out of fear. If she was not afraid you would react negatively I doubt she would lie. Unless her good morning are also lies, I see no reason why this should make you quit.
Besides, why would you take the child from her? Is she a bad mother? Who will take care of him? Your mom? Come on man, you want to kick her out of her marriage and then take her baby from her and you are asking for how to do it without hurting her?
Ask any couple married for 5 yes and up, they will tell you marriage is not a place of perfection. And the early part of it is the toughest part.

dollyjoy:
I am certain that another lady is already in the equation,

nothing like that at all. just dont love her anymore

Try and make it work for your son sake .... please don't allow that little boy grow up without father or mother figure.

you can kill her nah

gabazin080:
nothing like that at all. just dont love her anymore

Marry another wife na, and promote her to senior wife instead of divorcing her.

delishpot:


Maybe you don't allow her to be herself na. Most people lie out of fear. If she was not afraid you would react negatively I doubt she would lie. Unless her good morning are also lies, I see no reason why this should make you quit.
Besides, why would you take the child from her? Is she a bad mother? Who will take care of him? Your mom?

being afraid is not an excuse to tell lies. i always love to hear the truth and nothing but the truth.
who will take care of my boy? i dont know yet

Didn't you notice her lies when you guys were dating? Or you just ignored and hoping she'll change?

Well I had similar ish some months back......No child Tho, and I thank God I called it quit.

My advice: Don't quit yet. talk to her about this and watch her for sometime, if she doesn't change, then do what you have to do.
Mind you: it'll hurt her feelings badly cos she's human




#but women sabi lie o! This my own will deny something that happened even in your presence within seconds!

MrPresident1:


Marry another wife na, and promote her to senior wife instead of divorcing her.

And you believe she would want this? Would you accept your wife to promote you to senior husband?

MrPresident1:


Marry another wife na, and promote her to senior wife instead of divorcing her.

having 2 wives is not an option for me.

gabazin080:
being afraid is not an excuse to tell lies. i always love to hear the truth and nothing but the truth.
who will take care of my boy? i dont know yet

Well, hopefully you will find a human being that would never tell a lie to marry.
Being afraid is a very big reason to tell lies. Judging by the way you take life, you seem to be a dictator who sets rules and expects one to follow regardless. I hope I am wring tho.

gabazin080:
the lies are becoming too much. telling lies about her movement. imagine me hearing sounds of conductors in garrage and my wife telling me she's at home

Communication is free! Tell her how you feel. She's your wife so there's nothing to hide here. Ask her questions where necessary, tell her your concerns. You're giving up so early as if you want to leave with the lies as an excuse. You're not even willing to fight for her and that will definitely hurt her feelings.

delishpot:

And you believe she would want this? Would you accept your wife to promote you to senior husband?

A woman cannot have two husbands. Ori gbogbo yin a to pe wale

He should marry another wife and promote the older one to senior wife

austinosita:
Didn't you notice her lies when you guys were dating? Or you just ignored and hoping she'll change?

Well I had similar ish some months back......No child Tho, and I thank God I called it quit.

My advice: Don't quit yet. talk to her about this and watch her for sometime, if she doesn't change, then do what you have to do.
Mind you: it'll hurt her feelings badly cos she's human

the lies aint new to me but i felt i can change her

MrPresident1:


A woman cannot have two husbands. Ori gbogbo yin a to pe wale

He should marry another wife and promote the older one to senior wife

Lol Na you sabi o

gabazin080:
having 2 wives is not an option for me.

But divorce is an option for you abi? Yeah right!