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She married him a niece man. He was industrious, understanding and generous. He has a good education and works with one of the new generation banks. Few weeks after their wedding, he began to develop a habit. He comes home with varieties of pornographic movies and would ask her to sleep with him in demonstration of each pattern shown on the scenes. The poor girl wouldn’t oblige, after all he is her husband. But the act became worrisome for her when the husband began to make it a daily affair. Even when she was pregnant, he would do same and to the extent of forcing her where clearly she has shown no interest or attempted to refuse. It is getting out of hand. The girl had advised the man to shun movies and sleep with her when necessary just as nature would have allowed him. But he wouldn’t stop. She also complained to her own parents who insisted she continued with her marriage and pray that the husband changes in his bad habit. Recently, she sustained serious bruises from the husband raping her with an almost seven months pregnancy. She is threatening to back off the marriage and requires the humble ideas of the forum to guide her intended action, because the husband does look like he was going to change so long as fresh blues still sale in the market.

tpm:
because the husband does look like he was going to change so long as fresh blues still sale in the market.

ha ha ha

Serious, the husband raping his own wife must be MAD

this is sad and if it is true there should be no decision to make but to go before he finally kills her, there has to be a source of this behavior, just a thought.

There is only one way of changing someone, Prayers.that's what she should.no man can help in such situation.communication is also important.God help her.

wait husband is doing it wit th wife, y'all r complaining, should do it wit someone else?

kpolli:
wait husband is doing it wit th wife, y'all r complaining, should do it wit someone else?

She is not a s.x toy, her wish should be respected

well, thats rite but lets also acknowledge the fact that he picked his wife to do it wit,
i know men that sleep around cos they cant b adventorous wit their wives

kpolli:
well, thats rite but lets also acknowledge the fact that he picked his wife to do it wit,
i know men that sleep around cos they cant b adventorous wit their wives

Yes but she HAS to approve it, it supposed to be 'love making' forcing his 'fetish' on her is like rape

She's lucky he's experimenting with his wife. He could always go outside for the adventure.

How does a man despoil his wife? What does despoil even mean?

What else could she do than to save her precious life at least going for separation for a while and see what happens next with her addicted porn husband habits, perhaps he changes from his immoral act to a normal one

deniyor:
How does a man despoil his wife? What does despoil even mean?

I wonder o!

Despoil: to strip of possessions, things of value, etc.; rob; plunder; pillage. (according to the dictionary).

despoil is the edited version (nairaland edits) of the word r-a-p-e

when he's off to work, she needs to be watching lotz of chinese movies too, so when he comes to practicalize he's moves on her, she will have some moves to demonstrate too.

deniyor:
She's lucky he's experimenting with his wife. He could always go outside for the adventure.

How does a man despoil his wife? What does despoil even mean?

na wa oh, clap for urself, u seem to understand luck very well oh, am very lucky if my husband rapes me instead of someone, ahhh the silver lining in every cloud eh? way to be positive,  

if a person doesn't want to have sex, he or she should not be forced to, point blank, being married is not equivalent to being owned like chattel or land, it means u are committed to a long term relationship: look up the word relationship: it takes more than one, so if the husband is alone he wont despoil himself abi?
ok, so why do it to his wife, for the Christians here- bible says husbands love ur wives as u love ur own body, for the rest- if u husband try raping you- keep a sharp pin under pillow and stick for body, he will remember to ask first next time o,  

smooooooth:
when he's off to work, she needs to be watching lotz of chinese movies too, so when he comes to practicalize he's moves on her, she will have some moves to demonstrate too.

hmmm
like karate chop and things right do jakie chan on him

wow, that's tough. clearly he doesn't respect her or her wishes. she need to move out. (then he'll know what he's missing. They said you
never know what you have until it's gone.
OR she could watch those movies as well and beat him to his game