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At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by lawrenzi(m): 4:49pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Dear lawrenzi, I will be 30 by March 2017 and my dad says I am not yet ready for marriage, he seems not to have any specific reason for this position and I am already losing sense. My boyfriend of 7 years has been patient enough, and we have gone to meet him and to appeal to him and what he kept saying is that when I am ready he would know. unfortunately my mum don’t stay with us and even when she comes around she does not have much say on what happens. Should I move away from the house, please I need your advice. Thanks, Horlar. 08068367### http://www.lawrenzi.com/2017/01/03/at-30-my-dad-says-i-am-not-yet-ready-for-marriage/ you can also drop your comment on our comment box on lawrenzi.com. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
You are indeed not yet ready. When your dad control you like a teenager and makes decisions on your behalf offcourse he's gonna think you are still a kid hence the reason he's treating you this way. There's respecting your parents n then been foolish and letting them ruin your life. You are doing the later very welll bravo. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by famousbowale: 4:54pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Age is not maturity 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Papasmal(m): 4:56pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Bae menopause is knocking. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu:Hmmmn cos you already have someone servicing your big bum thats why you talking thrash.. Which parent won't wish his/her child well!? Instead of you to advice em on how to cajole or psych the parent so if theres a secret, the cat wud be let outta tha bag, u here talking gibberish.. Mehn your a confirmed Sadist 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by BlackDBagba: 4:58pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
You're not ready. When you are, you'll walk away and he ready to face life without him. Right now, you're still under his control and two men can't be controlling you at the same time. Move out and get married when you're ready. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by sweettease(f): 4:58pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Justdulla:Why you come take am personal now? Is there no freedom of opinion here again? Shuo |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by beycity(m): 4:59pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Just get pregnant, then 80% of this issue is solved. 3 Likes |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Justdulla:dude stfu! There are parents that love to control their children. A 30 yr old woman and her dad is saying she's not yet ready and you are here talking through your anus. Think you with your fu..cki.ng brain. There comes a time in one life when one has to take control of your own life. Let your parent guide you with their blessings but not control your life. Unless offcourse you are an adult with a teenage brain like yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
sweettease:Some people tend to abuse freedom of speech.. instead of suggesting ways in which the lady can forge agead, she add insukt join. some people just like to judge quick like they wear the same shoes with everyone. they dont know that in everybodys household , the system varies. 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Yhelay(m): 5:06pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
There are a lot of things that determines your maturity, far from age, being responsible one of them, try and do a genuine test on your maturity and answer yourself if you are truly mature and ready for a lifetime journey without your parents being fully involved in germane matters of your life 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu:so you adult with the adult brain in your mind you have spoken well aite? your so dumb like our Sports Minister mehn. So cos you priviledged to hold an internet enabled phone you typing thrash here. Even your grammatical presentation is below par. Someone seeks for advice, instead you quick to point their fault and insult the.. Your problem must be a problem. Anewaiz i dont waste time dispatching 'Psychiatric Patients with special needs to tha Thrash, Be Gone Dirt. 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Justdulla:ouch I can see I really hit a nerve with a grown man probably still living in his mother basement. You have watch the 40 year old virgin haven't you? pathetic loser! |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu:Don't forget she leaves with her father, age-wise she may be ready for marriage, but psychologically she may not really be ready: parents know their wards better. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by sweettease(f): 5:18pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Justdulla:anyway this is you exercising your freedom of speech |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu:Hahah no be only nerve na muscle. How about yah nairaland slut, cumming insane on erri post yah cucumber fanatic. Mind your business Mrs aproko stopping poking nose in people posts if you aint intelligent enough to comment. it saves time and makes Nairaland abound with wise folks. Deranged Sadist |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
sweettease:Yup only that i fight for common sense. I dont start beef, I kill it. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Splinz(m): 5:22pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
sweettease: E pain am sey no be him dey bang that arse... 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Quintessential1(f): 5:32pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
The truth is, for your father to insist you aren't yet ready for marriage, then it means you aren't. You've probably been exhibiting some traits that suggest irresponsibility or the incapability to sustain a marriage. I wouldn't like to believe that your father doesn't wish you well. You've got to look inwards and find out what is wrong. Better still, talk to him as a child would talk to a father. Pour out your heart to him, let him know that more than anything else, you desire to get married, and he should let you know why he feels you aren't, so you can make the necessary changes. 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Justdulla: Fu...c.k off my mentions man. You're just a jobless loner. Not wasting my time on you anymore. Talking about I must win beef online beef? I didn't know I w2as indeed dealing with a jobless computer nerd. Fu....ck off! |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
After reading his write up, I stand with his dad. Young man, please wait for more 10yrs. 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by ailehwise(m): 5:37pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
your mum is not always at home right?since your mum is not always at home, i guess that's why he is keeping you. cooking, washing of plates, cleaning of rooms. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Chanchit: 5:38pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu: Her dad was right, if not she won't come and ask anonymous people online whether to marry or not. 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Chanchit:thanks jare. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Cornerstone2020(m): 5:44pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Please wait till you are forty 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
rokiatu:yoh call me jobless fuckface but you have been replying all along yiu b1tch ah know you love ma style.. Fake ass b1tch ass bitch. Your wana seem different but your the same punk ass hypocrite. Be Gone Daughter of Jezebel 1 Like |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by gunners160(m): 5:51pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
hmm,just here 2 rid comments and all i kan read is 2 people having an e fights and claimin 2 b adults |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
It is either her father saw something in her or he is just being over possessive. Whatever it is the Lady should talk to him to find out. If he remain adamant, she should get other family members involved. I wont suggest eloping with the man because, the parent's blessing matters a lot, The man may later in the future abuse her and it is never the right thing to do. |
Re: At 30, My Dad Says I Am Not Yet Ready For Marriage by wordbank(m): 6:05pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Op knows herself, she knows the attitude she put up when she's at home with her parents have, she knows her class of friends and so on. First you have to clear all doubts your parents. I said parents cos your mom is bias and need to be honest. Should you have some setbacks, try to catch up. You don't necessarily have to leave the house to prove your point as in the case of men. Make plans (short term) and actualise them. Marriage is not everything but can fulfil oneself. I wish you well |
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