So my 2yr relationship is now hanging by a thread.
She is already making plans to leave Nigeria for Rome and it makes me feel like she's leaving me behind. She's promising me that we can still make it work but i don't believe that. I know how humans behave when they are not being watched. I feel bad because we've been working hard to keep the relationship strong but she suddenly decided to travel. Like she doesn't consider me at all. What should i do?

if you love something set it free, if it comes back its yours, but if it doesn't its never yours

I know how u feel but the issue now is that...


U have not tried to mk it work n yet u hv given up....dts FAILURE already.



Dem tell u say e nor dey happen?

Wait till it goes wrong n even then try ur best to fix it.


Optimists will say it will always work.
Pessimists will say it will neva work.
Realists will say lets see how it goes.

Move on dude, she z gone!

Just have faith and stop being negative

Gone with the wind!

dude,she is gone

BlackDBagba:
Gone with the wind!

Lol, bet why are u like this??

Op, just be optimistic bout the whole thing.....and if it doesn't work out, move on

casttlebarbz:
if you love something set it free, if it comes back its yours, but if it doesn't its never yours

this is the best thing you can do, you can't impose anything on her especially if she isn't your wife

So, because she's dating you she should not go for greener pastures again huh

Rome?
If she is not going there for education
Forget it
She is going for prostitution...
No one cries over a prostitute
Harsh but truth

mavelos1o:
So my 2yr relationship is now hanging by a thread.
She is already making plans to leave Nigeria for Rome and it makes me feel like she's leaving me behind. She's promising me that we can still make it work but i don't believe that. I know how humans behave when they are not being watched. I feel bad because we've been working hard to keep the relationship strong but she suddenly decided to travel. Like she doesn't consider me at all. What should i do?

Let her go Na.Sheybe girls plenty?

What will be will be.

Guy just have it in mind that the girl is gone cos she will be introduced to new things, an will be meeting new people. we all know how women behaves, pls just zero your mind from her and move on. even if she comes back she can't be the same again. i once have had a girl I trusted but wen she travel to the east everything change.

succyreal:
Guy just have it in mind that the girl is gone cos she will be introduced to new things, an will be meeting new people. we all know how women behaves, pls just zero your mind from her and move on. even if she comes back she can't be the same again. i once have had a girl I trusted but wen she travel to the east everything change.

That's my fear. She's already changing sef. She has not even traveled. Now she's being cautious with what she does with me. She hardly has time for me. She's the kind of person that travels to a place and she becomes different overnight, zero phone calls or texting. and she will always avoid a long conversation by saying she's busy. that's why i'm having many thoughts about her going very far.

She will come back with Roman pussy

Op don't worry. She is going to Europe but she is Black.

Most Black women in Europe except UK are as single as Bleep. She might get pretty bleeped really well but most probably she is going to remain single whenever she chooses to come back home.

BlackDBagba:
Gone with the wind!

Classic movie

my brother before you started the relationship didn't both of you discuss about your goals for the future..............all I see here is a brother that was used...

Just start looking elsewhere. Most people who travel out these days don't think twice before settling down over there.

My bf left not up to a year now and he's already married over there. (He might even see my comment because he's still on Nairaland deceiving some girls)

Even my cousin's gf that went for masters said she isn't coming back anymore.

we just had a deep discussion and it's clear. she doesn't plan on coming back. She wants her bearing to spoil when she gets there . well it's over. Bleep Love

Dammiesugar:
Just start looking elsewhere. Most people who travel out these days don't think twice before settling down over there.

My bf left not up to a year now and he's already married over there. (He might even see my comment because he's still on Nairaland deceiving some girls)

Even my cousin's gf that went for masters said she isn't coming back anymore.

LOL
Dami, let's hook up o

Is she from Edo?
if so, she only went there to hustle
She is coming back to you

Believe she is gonee.

If she still have two months to stay in 9ja just get her pregnant.... please am not feeling fine in case of any problem

She is gone bro, talking from experience

rebirthforgoody:
If she still have two months to stay in 9ja just get her pregnant.... please am not feeling fine in case of any problem

my sister pele Pm me so i can refer u

Forget her & be a man

She has been making plans to travel overseas and she was still involving herself in relationship. Mehn she's a selfish girl.

Medunah:

Lol, bet why are u like this??

Op, just be optimistic bout the whole thing.....and if it doesn't work out, move on

optimistic ke? All those hairy bald headed italian men that wont give a black woman breathing space. When dem lick op's girlfriend plate finish she will discard op very fast.

rebirthforgoody:
If she still have two months to stay in 9ja just get her pregnant.... please am not feeling fine in case of any problem

hehe babe wey don set her eyes on greener pasture u think she will be foolish to allow op get her prego?.

mavelos1o:

That's my fear. She's already changing sef. She has not even traveled. Now she's being cautious with what she does with me. She hardly has time for me. She's the kind of person that travels to a place and she becomes different overnight, zero phone calls or texting. and she will always avoid a long conversation by saying she's busy. that's why i'm having many thoughts about her going very far.

you know this why bother in the first place, it wouldn't have been more hurtful if she ditch you out to next neighbour, better work on yourself, woman aren't worth what you think