Abrupt:


I'll have to disagree to agree with you. Depending on what you mean by 'Disagreement.' Relationships can be disagreement free, there are tons of relationship like that out there.




This is most likely based on inexperience from your part. Disagreement does not make relationship stronger, this is some kind of controversial myth. Let me put it this way, how often do you and your BFF disagree? And what does disagreement do to the friendship bond? Relationship may require more emotion than friendship does, but the disagreement effect remains the same. So, disagreement is by no means healthy for relationship.


You're wrong. Scientifically, disagreement is based on the level of understanding. So it's the other way around, the less you fight the more healthier the relationship is. Understand?

Please try and be realistic

Divay22:
So you mean if there is no disagreement in a relationship then something is wrong or fishy....

No.
If there is no disagreement there is nothing wrong with the relationship.
Bamisepeters is saying when disagreement occurs, we should learn to forgive asap & kill all egos.

There are two sides to a coin when matter arise we look at it in both ways that we may balance the equation and not to disagree with each other. But in the process we agree to disagree and disagree to agree.

Disagreement is not just when you go angry at each other. Yes it is very possible for fight not to occur but the issue is that at times you disagree on some issues which has destroyed many homes but you handling it right makes you feel your relationship is special, you only did what many others couldn't do. There are so many rooms for disagreement but you handled them well doesn't mean many other immature beings go the same way as you do.

bamisepeters:
Raise up your hand if you have never had disagreement in your relationship or marriage.

can't u include dis questn in ur post

U'r d op nd u stil dy drag ftc

delishpot:


Disagreement does not mean war. Don't tell me your partner agrees 100% with every thing you say, every idea you bring and every step you want the family to take? No single disagreement on any issue that you guys later resolved? Did you marry one of the chibok girls? Cos only a sex slave would live with you without any disagreement. When no be corpse you marry.
Abeg look well before you call Gods name in a lie.

Thank you, my issue is that many just reply to topic and not content.

Divay22:
So you mean if there is no disagreement in a relationship then something is wrong or fishy....

babe there's no way u won't av misunderstanding in a relationship no matter hw perfect the partners are

segzyogondus:
Everyone got their own understanding about various things... You are right about Disagreements and being mature enough to get it settled immediately but when there is no Disagreement do you have to make one available by all means? No so it depends on the two of you before Disagreement comes up so you don't expect people to just try disagree about things cos they feel if it occurs then it would make the relationship stronger mind you not everyone can handle disagreements better still they rather just apologize and let it go else there comes the over reaction and then things go from bad to worse and that ends it,they go their separate ways

you don't need to find, it will definitely come because we cannot agree on same thing at all times. Apologizing and letting go is submission of ego to alow peace which is my point. Thank you for the comment.

yeah...disagreement is good for a relationship to grow stronger....
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Sincere4u:

On any good day, i can pass for a relationship counsellor but now i can only desire to be counselled.
What do you have to say about a relationship where someone surrenders his ego and tries everything he could to put things right but the other party doesn't want to see an end to the problem?.

That party just want to move on as there is another party the second party is interested in partying with, so the first party need to just move on as well as destiny does not have the first two parties together. I hope you understand? Thanks for your comment anyways.

Baba4dgals:
can't u include dis questn in ur post

U'r d op nd u stil dy drag ftc

apologies.

Baba4dgals:
babe there's no way u won't av misunderstanding in a relationship no matter hw perfect the partners are

Sorry I can if i want to,but be4 i do this that means our level of communication is dead

Divay22:
Sorry I can if i want to,but be4 i do this that means our level of communication is dead

for ur level of communication to be dead that means u'r nt in a good terms wit ur partner

bamisepeters:
apologies.

Lolz Jst kidding

Divay22:
So you mean if there is no disagreement in a relationship then something is wrong or fishy....

The things is that it makes you get to know better who Your partner really is bro!!!

Divay22:
So you mean if there is no disagreement in a relationship then something is wrong or fishy....

Are you a learn at this?

Abrupt:


I'll have to disagree to agree with you. Depending on what you mean by 'Disagreement.' Relationships can be disagreement free, there are tons of relationship like that out there.




This is most likely based on inexperience from your part. Disagreement does not make relationship stronger, this is some kind of controversial myth. Let me put it this way, how often do you and your BFF disagree? And what does disagreement do to the friendship bond? Relationship may require more emotion than friendship does, but the disagreement effect remains the same. So, disagreement is by no means healthy for relationship.


You're wrong. Scientifically, disagreement is based on the level of understanding. So it's the other way around, the less you fight the more healthier the relationship is. Understand?

I don't really get your point, because the op is 100% right

ireneony:
Who relationship help

Irenony

piagetskinner:


Nope that's not what he's saying...hes saying its impossible not to have disagreements,,no matter how subtle

ok thanks

bamisepeters:
Raise up your hand if you have never had disagreement in your relationship or marriage.

I have never had disagreement in my relationship of 1 year and 6 month, I work so hard to make that happen.

bamisepeters:
Raise up your hand if you have never had disagreement in your relationship or marriage.

Nawa for u...you post and still come be FTC...take time OP. meanwhile I still stand by my Word #A relationship where u disagree more than u agree is doomed to fail.

Hillary4Jesus:
Nawao Nawao

Hillary4jesus...hmmmmmmm,
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Dindondin:

No
If there is no disagreement there is nothing wrong with the relationship.
Bamisepeters is saying when disagreement occurs, we should learn to forgive asap & kill all egos.

Nop if there is no disagreement there is everything wrong with d relationship because it is based on fears and dictatorship.

Ikio:
Nop if there is no disagreement there is everything wrong with d relationship because it is based on fears and dictatorship.

A relationship can exist with only little disagreements
Infact minor ones.

Dindondin:

A relationship can exist with only little disagreements
Infact minor ones.

Sure thing.
But there no truth relationship that is based on just little disagreement it don't even exist becos in relationships u don't know him or her don't lie to yourself courtship,dating and the rest don't help you guy know yourselves better it just increases how you feel about him or her,or why do u think people get divorced? do u think they didn't spend time to know themselves?There Is no little disagreement in any relationships.

How long shud d disagreement last?

Ikio:
Sure thing.
But there no truth relationship that is based on just little disagreement it don't even exist becos in relationships u don't know him or her don't lie to yourself courtship,dating and the rest don't help you guy know yourselves better it just increases how you feel about him or her,or why do u think people get divorced? do u think they didn't spend time to know themselves?There Is no little disagreement in any relationships.

There is. Its just few nowadays. Cos the union of present day is based on feminism, too much expectation, take me for who I am without adjusting for better conduct. When you learn to forgive easily, adjust to suit each other easily, bury ego, your relationship ll v little disagreement.

Dindondin:

There is. Its just few nowadays. Cos the union of present day is based on feminism, too much expectation, take me for who I am without adjusting for better conduct. When you learn to forgive easily, adjust to suit each other easily, bury ego, your relationship ll v little disagreement.

Nice Point but all what you said it can never be with little disagreement.

babs4few:
How long shud d disagreement last?

one must be ready to allow peace even if the 2nd party isn't a peace lover, this is called ego submission, it should not linger for hours.

Ikio:
Nice Point but all what you said it can never be with little disagreement.

there is little disagreement. Its a disagreement that comes from little issue (little getting missed calls, not remembering special dates, getting late to family meeting, church etc) & its ended asap.

segzyogondus:
Everyone got their own understanding about various things... You are right about Disagreements and being mature enough to get it settled immediately but when there is no Disagreement do you have to make one available by all means? No so it depends on the two of you before Disagreement comes up so you don't expect people to just try disagree about things cos they feel if it occurs then it would make the relationship stronger mind you not everyone can handle disagreements better still they rather just apologize and let it go else there comes the over reaction and then things go from bad to worse and that ends it,they go their separate ways

No one is forcing disagreement on anyone. Point is, when it happens, it should be seen as a lesson into what makes ones partner tick. It should help both parties know their strong points and weak points and work together to fix, appreciate, talk things over, submit, sacrifice and help them know the likes and dislikes of each other. This is what the OP is talking about. Even kids from the same parents argue and disagree talk less of two people who come from different backgrounds.