importexpert:


if dad thinks in your way, you will not be here now. bro get married and give birth to our future president and keep that your saving money thing aside

importexpert:



bro congratulations. you have successfully proven that you need urgent attention . if you believe mom truly loves you without seeing it and playing with it, why do you want to play with that of others before believing them ?

importexpert:


yes. it is that decision that keeps couples married for over 5 decades and not just love

Gflat:
I don't like doing this but that third comment guy above me is a dreamer!
Before you start making demands on the type of woman you desire or before you start complaining about being forced to marry a girl, have you even asked yourself if any lady wants a guy like you?

These boys need to stop watching soap opera it is affecting their sixth sense. Forcing you on a girl. Women have suffered

@ Op, Don't contradict yourself Mr!

relationship is all about love. You can't be in a relationship with someone you don't love.

Number 5. This is a warning to all ladies Don't date broke boys, you will suffer. I promise you. Broke boys are not worth it. Run my sister run!

Bonus point Of your boyfriend is into MMM dump him before he use you to GH/PH

tomdon:

Abeg epp me ansk am ooo. Lol

Damfostopper:
Jan : Manutd vs Hull
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Jan 22: Chelsea vs HULL
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Jan 26: HULL vs Man United
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Feb 1: Man United vs HULL
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Feb 4: HULL vs Liverpool
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Feb 11: Arsenal vs HULL
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Wickedness
If FA no longer need Hull they should say it clear rather than doing this

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importexpert:
Many relationships of today are short lived because singles do not have correct mindset about relationship. If a person’s mindset is wrong, no conditions will ever be favorable for a lasting relationship. Below are seven wrong mindsets that people have today.

1. There is a Mr. or Miss Right for everyone

Fact: There is nothing like Mr. Right or Miss Right. What we call the right person is simply the person with whom we feel we are compatible. The thought that there is a right person tends to make singles put the success of a relationship on the incoming partner. Anybody can be your Mr. Right if both of you will only work on being a Right partner.

2. Relationship is about love

Fact: Relationship is more than a feeling. It is a decision. Feelings are temporal. They can vanish at any point in time. At such times, it is the decision to love your partner regardless that counts. And that decision has to be reinforced each day.

3. Mindset: A perfect relationship does not have problems

Fact: If you are having problems with your relationship, then you should be happy that you both are being real and there is no pretense. This enables the two of you to work on accommodating your differences. If you always quit relationships because of problems, you will most likely opt for divorce in future.

4. You can start a relationship anytime you have the feeling

Fact: It is better you do not rush in to any relationship if you want something that would last. We use approximately 15 years of our lives in school to prepare us to earn income. We spend weeks and months preparing for competitions. Shouldn’t you take some time to prepare yourself for a relationship? A relationship is more than what you should jump in to.

5. Your potential partner should be able to satisfy your needs

Fact: Even though it is important that needs of both parties are met, if your desire is to primarily get someone to meet your needs, you are not ready for a relationship. The important question is, what value can you add to your partner? Relationships that last have the partners looking out first for each other rather than themselves. It’s called selflessness.

6. Expecting a relationship to lead to marriage

Fact: While it is a good aim that relationships should lead to marriage, it is not always so. Having that mindset will put unnecessary pressure on you during dating and make you do things out of desperation. And you know one thing about desperation? It never ends well. Hope your relationship lead to marriage but don’t try to force it. ladies i understand that menopause is knocking but force and desperation will not solve the problem. just allow the wify material in you to reflect and hope it leads to marriage.

7. Everybody is doing it.

Fact: A lot of singles have ventured in to relationships because everyone seemed to be doing it. They do so because they could not handle the pressure of being different. Hasty move in to a relationship will make you prone to speedy break up. . Do not let anyone rush you. If you are not ready yet, take your time. Life is not necessarily about who did it first but about who did it well.

dingbang:



Forcing me to marry a girl is d worst mistake someone can ever make... Just as its d decision of God almighty alone to determine whether rapture will hold now or not, same way its my decision to marry a girl ...

Nma27:
What if your family likes the lady and expects you to marry her? Will you go against them, knowing fully well that they might not welcome d lady your heart beats for?

dingbang:



Forcing me to marry a girl is d worst mistake someone can ever make... Just as its d decision of God almighty alone to determine whether rapture will hold now or not, same way its my decision to marry a girl ...

SavageGarden:


Haha can't you people stop being fools and blind pupils? Rapture? You really but that shit man with all the brain in your head..your father's all of 'em hoped on rapture from you imaginary God..when will it ever come?? All this for a Jew who died 2 thousand fucking years ago..Haha

dingbang:
Jesus loves you bro. More than you can ever think of..

Heavance:
That number 2 ehn....
Ever wondered why love just vanishes at some point in the relationship, you try to ask what happened to you, but you just can't figure it out, and it's not as if you are seeing someone else...... then you realize the pressure and hustle of life is just the cause.
The simple thing is, it gets to the point when guys realize we don't just settle down because of love, so many factors come into play.
The lady's career, mindset towards the work ahead, what is she adding to the union, is she the kind that can stand with you when you are broke, a lot just keeps coming to mind.
That's where balancing comes into play ahead of love

Johnsown1:
Most nigerian gals do not know what relationship is. Many of them sees it as a bisnes venture inwhich their financial obligations has to be settled and pay back with sex.
I wish they can wake up from their sleeps and face the reality.
There is no need for a single like me going into a relationship by inwhich ma partner will not add meanings to ma life.

Alondra:
You point 2 is contradicting. Your decision to love your partner regardless.... You are indirectly suggesting relationship is about Love which is true. A relationship based on anything other than love is like a paper in the wind.

Point6. Intentions should be cleared to avoid contentions. Relationships should be defined. A lady or Man who is matured enough and is ready to settle down shouldn't be in relationship with one who is not. At a point in a person's life, there is an expectation of relationship leading to marriage.

Nice thread by the way

Ibj50:
alondra, i see you always smiling, keep smiling

Alondra:

Justnora:


But if your sister is to marry dangote's son you wont be saying this. It is a duty for a man to take care of his woman men these days are just becoming lazy.

irumanle:
Exact situation i'm facing right now.

Johnsown1:


And don't u think that is a duty of a lady is to take care of his man, Dangote son is a human not a bank,

Sometimes i wonders if gals of this our generation have dreams apart from thinking about sex and reproducing.

Heavance:

You just nailed it....
Is it that ladies don't have any kind of dream these days?
You see them watch a guy proposing on Instagram daily, and keep wasting data on wedding post, and pre-wedding photos (that seem to be all their dreams) No wonder many see marriage as an achievement.
They can take eternity to prepare for wedding day and they won't ever prepare for life of marriage