I've come to realise that after worshipping in many churches in the UK as an invitee, many unmarried ladies are really getting it wrong or just too proud for a man to approach them. Ironically, these are thesame people who pray on a daily basis, go for deliverance classes etc mainly to get married but hey almost all everyone of them REJECTS at least 99.9% of anyman who approaches them or not even show some sign of ineterest even though they seriously like the man as i've been told by many pastor.

I'm not disrespecting anywoman here but it's the fact, all you need is to visit a SINGLE counselling/meeting section of any Nigerian churches here in the UK you will confirm what i'm addressing here.

Could be about money again or too much of ego?

Poster

You are so right. and the ones who go to the pubs and clubs and bars also do the same. They will be praying for at least someone to come talk to them, but watch them all through the evening, all the men that approach them will get a no answer to everything, then you cant but conclude that they have sealed their own fate.

Most women just have to loosen up a bit to get who they have been destined for.

skyone:


Could be about money again or too much of ego?

simply stupid ego

skyone:

I've come to realise that after worshipping in many churches in the UK as an invitee, many unmarried ladies are really getting it wrong or just too proud for a man to approach them. Ironically, these are thesame people who pray on a daily basis, go for deliverance classes etc mainly to get married but hey almost all everyone of them REJECTS at least 99.9% of anyman who approaches them or not even show some sign of ineterest even though they seriously like the man as i've been told by many pastor.

I'm not disrespecting anywoman here but it's the fact, all you need is to visit a SINGLE counselling/meeting section of any Nigerian churches here in the UK you will confirm what i'm addressing here.

Could be about money again or too much of ego?

where are those type of women let me flog them
Maybe they dont like the guys approaching them,women can be very choosy you know especially when they have marriage in mind and not just a casual fling

bethangel:

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where are those type of women let me flog them
Maybe they dont like the guys approaching them,women can be very choosy you know especially when they have marriage in mind and not just a casual fling

look at the rubbish u have just posted ----odeoshi---

bethangel:

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where are those type of women let me flog them
Maybe they dont like the guys approaching them,women can be very choosy you know especially when they have marriage in mind and not just a casual fling

I really see nothing wrong in what this poster has posted. Marriage is a serious affair and why I dont advocate for women being choosy, I also dont think they should acept just any guy because they want they get married

posakosa:

look at the rubbish u have just posted ----odeoshi---

:osee me see wahala o
remember you're still on parole so better behave yourself

Godmother:

I really see nothing wrong in what this poster has posted. Marriage is a serious affair and why I dont advocate for women being choosy, I also dont think they should acept just any guy because they want they get married

You're a life saver dear, some mothers have really tried raising up kids.

bethangel:

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:osee me see wahala o
remember you're still on parole so better behave yourself

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You're a life saver dear, some mothers have really tried raising up kids.

i support u
ASL PLZ

the women are just being careful i guess.

So just because a girl is single, you expect her to jump headlong into a relationship with the first guy who says wassup?

Maybe they reject you because you approach them like you are the answer to all their prayers.

Leave them to worry about that now. Why worry about them? Go and find your own girl that will not REJECT at least 99.9% of any man who approaches her or show some sign of interest. Simple.

stillwater:

Leave them to worry about that now. Why worry about them? Go and find your own girl that will not REJECT at least 99.9% of any man who approaches her or show some sign of interest. Simple.

Why the spiritual councelling and the deliverance classes.

skyone:

Why the spiritual councelling and the deliverance classes.

Why are you asking me? Go and ask them.

stillwater:

Leave them to worry about that now. Why worry about them? Go and find your own girl that will not REJECT at least 99.9% of any man who approaches her or show some sign of interest. Simple.

Stillwater of course not i woudn't expect them to say yes to everyman but what about when a lady "Nigerian Lady" actually fancy a man and still form mountains; common why the ego and fake charisma  

stillwater:

Why are you asking me? Go and ask them.

but i thought you are also in the bang wagon

skyone:

Stillwater of course not i woudn't expect them to say yes to everyman but what about when a lady "Nigerian Lady" actually fancy a man and cant still form mountains; common why the ego and fake charisma  

Are you sure they like you?

stillwater:

Are you sure they like you?

you should ask "do i like them" and which is too late though

skyone:

you should ask "do i like them" and which is too late though

You don't like them, then leave them alone.

stillwater:

You don't like them, then leave them alone.

I would have left them but i felt in my mind that they might be acting in a perilous manner which could let them down big time so i thought i should come in and give some warmly advise.

skyone:

I would have left them but i felt in my mind that they might be acting in a perilous manner which could let them down big time so i thought i should come in and give some warmly advise.

When you see them, tell them.

Stillwater which one do you belong to

bethangel:

:osee me see wahala o
remember you're still on parole so better behave yourself

who put you on parole---- oloshiburuku----

@poster

Exaggerate your post a little bit more.
Then People will understand you.

@ poster--- how about some women don't feel comfortable searching or finding a man at church when they are suppposed to be there worshipping god.

posakosa:

@ poster--- how about some women don't feel comfortable searching or finding a man at church when they are suppposed to be there worshipping god.

pharisee like you

^^^^^ i know u're trying to grab my attention---- hehehe <pls find ur love elsewhere>

Godmother:

I really see nothing wrong in what this poster has posted. Marriage is a serious affair and why I dont advocate for women being choosy, I also dont think they should acept just any guy because they want they get married

Yeah

@Poster don't take it as an offence, just move on and keep searching

@ poster, a few questions:

Is every man who approaches a woman looking for a relationship?
Do women presume every man approaching them wants a relationship?
How exactly do men approach women - how do they act?  What do they say?
Is a woman's presumed snobbery/egotism based on her body language or something else?

Answer those questions and then I can get the bigger picture.

@poster,
Most women praying for husbands are not interested in just any man. They only want someone with 100% perfection. And that is why they are singles in the first place. God will send them a perfect man when they reach menopause.

posakosa:

^^^^^ i know u're trying to grab my attention---- hehehe <pls find your love elsewhere>

***hissssssssssssssssssssssss***

The fact is women dont know what they want. One minute its this, next minute its that. Whether d females admit it or not, its true. Women sometimes are KINDA stupid. And yes, u can insult me now. Keep it coming.