We broke up and left each other since last year, but to her is like we are still near. She called me on day that she was coming to my house to celebrate her birthday with me that very day. I said no problem cos I now see her as just a friend.
She knows I have another date so I believe she was probably coming for just an old time gist. But when she came in her dress was just so transparent. I never look at her at the face till she left. Since then she keep coming to my house almost naked. She use to come with a car that was why she is not ashamed. Pls how can I stop this madness so I wont break my happiness?

Tell her your mind. . .

well i will you have to be very careful with her on else it can break up your new relationship you better tell her to her face to stop coming

macfunkky:

well i will you have to be very careful with her on else it can break up your new relationship you better tell her to her face to stop coming

As simple as that, unless you are harbouring other plans

How do you gals feel when a guy ask you to stop coming to his dwelling?

just close eye fuc.k am throwaway face~

Am ok with one p****y.

Poster is gay and insecure, thread closed lol

@poster
this girl is trying to show you what you gave up on. . . . . .and maybe hope that you will reconsider, who knows?.
not a big deal if you have your feet on the ground.
whenever she comes around again then think about all the reason why you guys broke up at the first place and that will do.

also, if transparent dresses and low cut stuff are a problem to your abilities to think straight in her presence then let her know that you dont want her to come to your crib with such ¨costume¨, et voila!

Thread careful on this and let her know that you have moved on

Rhymez:

We broke up and left each other since last year, but to her is like we are still near. She called me on day that she was coming to my house to celebrate her birthday with me that very day. I said no problem cos I now see her as just a friend.
She knows I have another date so I believe she was probably coming for just an old time gist. But when she came in her dress was just so transparent. I never look at her at the face till she left. Since then she keep coming to my house almost naked. She use to come with a car that was why she is not ashamed. Pls how can I stop this madness so I wont break my happiness?

If i were ur new gf i will dump ur sorry backside, u don't allow an ex that close to u when u got another gal.
This is somebody u have slept with b4 then u allowed her to come and celebrate her BD in ur house?
Ok, call the 1st day a mistake, why did u allow her to come again wearing next to nothing?

My dog's ex-bitch use to come visiting during her heat knowing fully well my dog has got a new bitch but you'll never hear me complain on his behalf on nairaland. Abeg comot dia!

She wants to be re-annexed!

Ask her her mission, tell her your mission but if she does'nt want redemption then u give her salvation before it becomes a tempation.

Raymond247:

Ask her her mission, tell her your mission but if she does'nt want redemption then u give her salvation before it becomes a tempation.

i love this

Rhymez:

How do you gals feel when a guy ask you to stop coming to his dwelling?

just wanna ask this same question

@poster, just koboko her bikini and shine her kitten

You are still attracted to her and you enjoy her visits.

It's could be a sign that she has gotten over you, she simply wants you back .

If you don't have any interest in her kindly tell her to stop coming
or are you gaining anything from her coming? you let us know.
I had such experience my ex girlfriend after one year said she saw in her prayers that am
her husband, knowing fully well that am in a serious relationship that might
lead to marriage. I told her off in a polite way because i cherish my relationship.
IS LEFT FOR YOU TO DECIDE.

Raymo:

I had such experience my ex girlfriend after one year said she saw in her prayers that am
her husband

. Her pastor told her to fast more for the revelation to come to manisfestation

tell her to stop coming,if she still wants to be"friends" with you and keep visiting then let her know she has to dress decently when coming,cest finis

sweeti14:

tell her to stop coming,if she still wants to be"friends" with you and keep visiting then let her know she has to dress decently when coming,cest finis

. Thanks but on the contrary dont you think is kind of embarrassing her by telling her to stop putting her choices of dressing?

@poster
keep F@*king her as long as she keeps coming , wont stop u from loving ur new girlfriend!!!!

don't open the door for hookers

ASK if she want to get 'lashed'?If YES and you are not game then make her bounce,if NO tell her to stop dressing silly,

guy, enter her, then tell her ur mind, cos if u dont taste it how will u know ur no more interested?

For the guys that said I should shag her, I cant cos I lost my shagging feelings for her.

all these advice and you havent agreed to any?? then sharrraappp dia

the shaggers advice are winning

Are u a lady in the body or just an internet lady? How can you support the shaggers?

rhymez, i didnt say i support the shaggers, but man, they sure are aplenty. i am a real woman in the body o

how do u know ur shagging feelings for her dont exist anymore, when u havent tasted her lately?

stop her from coming - sit down and have a talk on what you want to do. IMHO tell her to scram!!

for the sake of old times,think now or regret later,your new girl is visitin her ex, thats it