Hmmmn!at times it is very necessary to do so.I dated this guy back then thought i was the one then one day he left his phone to attend to something,didn't notice the phone at first.i saw it from a distance where he left then i just told myself look he left his phone,i had a second thought not to but something just kept telling me check it so i did hmmmn....first i checked his messages lawd!so many love n sex messages sent to one girl like that then my heart started pounding like i saw a ghost as if it wasn't enough i saw that he just saved her name with both their names put together.it was then i knew i meant nothing to him.he caught me with the phone and just snatched it from me by then tears had started rolling down my face,all he could say was who said you could go through my phone and that was it,everything ended there.why i was pained was the fact that i was 2months pregnant then and there was nothing more to do.i just had to let him go.

Kk

Its really not kul,means der is no trust..and what you don't know wunt kill you

barallanee:
Its really not kul,means der is no trust..and what you don't know wunt kill you

Hmmm

A relationship that lacks openess is a deceptive relationship. This is not a matter of trust. The last time i checked trust isn't a gift, it must be earned. So what is in your phone that he or she can't check?

SmartchoiceNGR:

Hmmm

such and old topic...wer did u vomit dis one frm

DONT EVER CHECK YOUR PARTNERS PHONE.......

1. YOU LOSE THE TRUST U HAVE IN YOURSELF........
Snooping means you lack trust in yourself, People will say that it is the other person that they do not trust, but in snooping, you are actually feeling like you’re not enough for your partner. It affects your self-esteem and confidence.

2.EMOTIONAL TORTURE........
There’s no such thing as innocent snooping, there’s always a reason for checking your partner’s phone. It’s either you see something incrimination which would hurt you or you find nothing which brings about uncertainty. Don’t torture yourself emotionally by checking your partner’s phone.

3 MISUNDERSTANDING..........
When you snoop into your partner’s phone, you'll misunderstand something which would eventually lead to an argument. If these arguments continue, the relationship becomes very difficult to maintain. We all know what arguments in a relationship eventually leads to.

4.TRUST ISSUES......
Snooping into your partner’s phone results to distrusting your partner, You don’t believe whatever he says and the relationship starts turning sour. As it was said earlier that trust is the bedrock of every relationship. If you want to keep your relationship, quit snooping into your partner’s phone.

5.BREAK UP / SEPARATION........
If arguments continue to argue with your partner or nag because you saw something on his phone, the relationship gets tiring. Your partner will get fed someday and decide to end the relationship.
If you want to keep him, love is not enough, you have to trust.

Quit snooping and start trusting!

At least do it with their permission

seangy4konji:
my girl of 5 years hecked her phone only to see her message of you that cannot do ore than 1 rounds...big dick for nothing...and a whole lot of useless talk all because i travelled for 4 months to hustle for marriage in abuja...

oh boy check at time to know what you are going into...

They are all hoes...

True talk bro.... One should check once in a while.