Do you have a girl that you like and don’t know how to go about making her your friend? Are you finding it difficult getting a lady you like? Or are you a shy guy that finds it difficult to approach any lady you like? Do you know that you don’t need to feel ashamed of yourself for being too shy to approach a lady and start flowing with her in conversation? It is a natural thing for every man to be shy and become filled with fear of rejection when meeting a lady he likes for the first time. Folks you don’t need to be ashamed of your shy attitude when it comes to meeting a lady you like because this article will be of help to you in many ways. With the tips in this write up you can make any girl fall in love with you naturally, without stressing yourself unnecessarily. The are some of the things you can do to make any girl you like.
1. Take good care of yourself and dress well. Before you can get good attraction from any girl, you must speak her language in terms of fashion and social lifestyle. Your taste must march hers. You must be socially compatible to the girl you want so much in your life. If you are not compatible to each other she may have little or no attraction for you.
2. Take interest in her. Give her some of your energy and time but don’t over do it. Giver your time and resources by showing interest in what she does, like, anything that catches her fancy. Show genuine interest in her problems and help her find solution to her problem when one is badly needed by her. Whenever she calls for genuine help from you in getting something done, be there for her. Do not hesitate particularly if such is an immediate need of hers.
3. Encourage her to talk about herself when you are together and listen with rapt attention to everything she says. Ladies like and easily fall in love with men who want to know more about, men that encourage them to talk about themselves. They see such men as someone who care about their welfare and will not dominate them i.e. someone who will be romantic enough and care about their opinions and how they feel. Encouraging any lady to tell you one or two things about herself or any other things about her that will be of interest to her will make you a great personality in her mind.
4. Be fun to be with. Ladies want fun and will like to associate with people who can give them plenty of fun in their lives. They want to be around humorous men, men who are happy and can also make them happy. Men that always have smiles on their faces no matter what they are going through. They see these kinds of men as secured men who know what they do and where they want to be in life. They see them as well focused and stress adjusted. They see them as men who know how to manage their life affairs well.
6. Make the lady feel important about herself by appreciating what she does, say, buy or have. Whatever you see that she cherish, praise her for it. We all want some appreciation for what we do, we all want to be recognized and praised for what we think we do well including our decisions and opinions. Ladies like you and I, like anyone who appreciates us and respect our opinions. When you praise and appreciate her genuinely for what she has done that you like, that lady will like you for it.
7. Always put her interest before yours. If you want a lady to like you always put her interests and desires first before your own. That will proof to her that you are gentleman who is not a selfish, such lady will see you as someone who have respect for her. So if you want a lady to like you always put her interest before yours.
8. Give her a gift when the occasion demands for it. Surprise that lady with a gift she would like and appreciate. Giving her gifts when the time and occasion demands for it will go a long way in soften her heart towards you. Women want themselves to be catered for, women love to be cherished, pampered, and women want to be put on a pedestal, a high place in your mind and if you can proof to her how much you like her by making a special presentation to her she will love you for it. You can make gift presentation such as her paintings or her sculptural feature, buy her shoes, jewelry etc. Think of what you know she is dreaming of having that you can get for her. This you can present to her as birthday, Xmas, New Year or Easter gift. Whatever it is, but be care about it so that you don’t look like someone who is trying to entice her with money and gifts. This will only make you look like the nice guy who gets nothing for his effort at the end of it all and I know you don’t want to end up being a nice but her lover.

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man you need to stop posting these       things

you know what

NO 1.   It takes nothing for a woman to like a man all he has to do is be himself.  If she sees him and like him thats it


you should realise there is such a thing as the the law of attraction.  You can dress slick, smell nice, look nice as backside and the woman will still go out with Mr plain and ugly its all about what makes her comfy.

@coco, nowadayz girls don't obey the law of attraction. An ugly guy wif big bucks ,wrong dress sense, wud steal a gurl from her guy, in a jiffy

@coco, nowadayz girls don't obey the law of attraction. An ugly guy wif big bucks ,wrong dress sense, wud steal a gurl from her guy, in a jiffy

yes ke

@ poster,na naija be ds.
And for Heaven sake ,why will a guy try to be attaractive or pretend to be who he is not just becos he wants to ask a lady out.So he can borrow dress and car becos he wantsa to ask a society lady out?a shy guy shld ry and work on his confidence and be him self.I am sure the right girl for him will fall in.
The major caus e of broken rships or marriage ds days is that most guys/gals go for what they want and not for what is right for them.Forgetting that what they want might not be the right thing for them.

wait , do you actually think a fool will think of that, konga has more packs than dbanj yet he dont get girls why, he is broke, get your money rite themm girls will like you

@poster,did u do all these 2 get ur girl&r u still doing them now u'v got her?