Benita27:
You just did.

I implore my future hubby to bleep as much as he could, once i meet him he must be faithful...virgins are a No! No!!.

Longman6:


Would i be wrong if i reach a set of conclusion that sexual experience is your most preferred caterial in spouse selection and you don't mind the damages he has left in the wake before you got your desires(considering the shared opinion that Men are evil for breaking girls heart after series of sexual encounters)

jmoore:


Your future hubby will fu** Ada, Aisha, Ekaette and hundreds of girls, and he will suddenly become faithful when you meet him?

Benita27:
Yes!, there are men who wouldn't play games when married.

elantraceey:
Those ladies in the Op dey vex o


For me sha I'll prefer if he is a virgin though not really compulsory. A man that has such self-control and discipline in this age will most likely be faithful when he eventually gets married and at least there will be no Amaka or Imagbong that did it better, I'll be his first,only and best, mehn that'll be amazing. we'll both teach ourselves but this doesn't mean I doubt my sexual prowess though.

elantraceey:


You really think it'll be that easy? what if you don't get to satisfy him as some of those girls did and he ends up getting tempted or running back to them?


Marriage isn't just about sex and it shouldn't be based on it.

jmoore:

Keep dreaming. If he doesn't have self control when he was single, he will never be faithful when married. Only 2% can escape that.

jmoore:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
[clears throat]

elantraceey:
Those ladies in the Op dey vex o


For me sha I'll prefer if he is a virgin though not really compulsory. A man that has such self-control and discipline in this age will most likely be faithful when he eventually gets married and at least there will be no Amaka or Imagbong that did it better, I'll be his first,only and best, mehn that'll be amazing. we'll both teach ourselves but this doesn't mean I doubt my sexual prowess though.

Benita27:
I never said it's all about sex, some of you keep quoting me out of context.

Inasmuch as marriage isn't about sex, sex remains an integral part of marriage.

Benita27:
You'll be totally wrong to come to that conclusion. Something must be able to attract me to a guy. Character: primary, level of education: primary, then job and how he carries himself follows.

Sexual prowess would of course come later, but like i said " i can't deal with a virgin". Don't make it seem difficult to comprehend, i know you do understand my point of view.

jejemanito:
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Longman6:


I like the aforementioned qualities but your thoughts conform with social media stereotypes, am certain that in years to come your values would change and sex would no longer hold an important place in your value sets, remember the times you once thought your first boyfriend was going to be your husband and the moments you believed that you cant love any other guy like the ones you were dating then, only to find yourself in love like you did in the former... you are in that stage now with your thinking on sexual experience.. Ya sex is good even the stimulation that comes with cocaine cant march it

elantraceey:


Yes you are right but this man that seem all sexually active today might just become inactive tomorrow then what will you do?


Well everyone with their own choice though, the one that is very good today was once a virgin.

Benita27:
Lets wait until my values change sir!. That is inevitable. Don't ask me what i would do cos i suppose we'll both age gracefully.

Benita27:
You'll be totally wrong to come to that conclusion. Something must be able to attract me to a guy. Character: primary, level of education: primary, then job and how he carries himself follows.

Sexual prowess would of course come later, but like i said " i can't deal with a virgin". Don't make it seem difficult to comprehend, i know you do understand my point of view.

lefulefu:

see Benita u cant tell if a man is virgin or not.what of if the guy satisfied u on ur first encounter with and he has all the qualities u want and u later found out he was a virgin.will u dump him? when i did it the first time and i told her she was my first she disbelieved me.so dats hw it is.

Benita27:
What does a virgin know?.

Benita27:
Firstly, you can't equate a guy grounded in the bedroom with a promiscuous one. There are guys who venture into relationships but won't cheat on their gfs for any reason...they date when they have a reason to, which is inspired by love.

Secondly, the number of women he has slept with is inconsequential and doesn't count to me, provided he has a moral compass not to cheat on me, then i'm cool.

oilyqueen:
hmmmm

she is right