Me and Chioma started tooking about marriage in November 2020 on WhatsApp. Her friend matched us . Though it's a long distance relationship..... Just last month I had accident with my car. It was a fatal accident. I sold the car scrab and bought another one. The car damaged beyond repair. I told her to borrow me 20k or 10k to sort myself... She agreed to borrow me 10k but she didn't send the money. She later snubbed me.
I even told her I pay her in two weeks time unfailingly.
Her birthday was on 4th of this month. So I snubbed her and didn't post her pictures or wish her a happy birthday.
She has been very upset with me.
Chioma is a business woman and model .. She claims she pays a house rent of #1.3million in Maitama Abuja. One bedroom flat. She is claiming it's her 24th birthday.
She also claimed she graduated from University at the age of 19.
Though she invited me to her birthday in Maitama Abuja. But me I no go o.

Was I right snubbing her in her birthday?
Shebi I did the right thing ?

Lastly Chioma has high taste.
She likes doing everything big ..

She once told me she can't live with tenants.
That she just wants to live in a bungalow with me her future husband.

Summary In King James Version:


An accident art yonder, cometh from unawareness and devoured me, not completely, but thine Grace. I, stoodth and approached the motor car and resold it, but mine angel, my better half refusedth to oblige to accept to give out, to borrow me some petty wages. O, death, why! On her birthday, I refusedth to be an attendant and I seek, of thou, what art you advise to giveth me?

By the way, tooking baa? Cow will jam you.

Didinrin

The whole story is like primary two prep story book as I was reading it....

Baba rest

Tooking kee you there bro OP

For typing mumu mumu nonsense

I see you marrying chioma after big baba have knack her tire
I see you selling your properties to cater for her needs

I see you living in a room face me slap you
Finally, I see chioma disappointing and leaving you

This I have seen to mumu OP

You dealing with a hoe!

Everybody dey catch for Nairaland.

Seun, you see your life?

She belongs to the streets bruh...

She will finish you..

Guy pas the ball here... This field nor too wide o..

Guy pas the ball here...for my chest..... This field nor too wide o..

MufasaLion:
You dealing with a hoe!

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Thanks bro. I appreciate.

And this thing you have with Chioma is a relationship right?

Cerebellum:
Tooking kee you there bro OP

For typing mumu mumu nonsense

I see you marrying chioma after big baba have knack her tire
I see you selling your properties to cater for her needs

I see you living in a room face me slap you
Finally, I see chioma disappointing and leaving you

This I have seen to mumu OP

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God forbid bad thing. I no marry again.

arthurwillia:
And this thing you have with Chioma is a relationship right?

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Yap Bro... It's a relationship o.

Rubbish post

mascot345:
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Thanks bro. I appreciate.

You're welcome. Y'all should stop loving with your heart only. Your brain should do the work more.

And you wanted to marry her? The kind of relationship you just described doesn't look like one where the two of you have ever discussed about marriage.

earthsync:
And you wanted to marry her? The kind of relationship you just described doesn't look like one where the two of you have ever discussed about marriage.

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We both discussed about marriage o.

Authoreety:
Guy pas the ball here... This field nor too wide o..

Lols

Michelle55:
That's not a relationship but a situationship, any lady that sees her future with you would always be willing to help you out financially provided she has it.

It's best you both go your separate ways.

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Wow thank you very much. I really appreciate this advice.

mascot345:
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We both discussed about marriage o.

Naim she dey act like that? naim una dey act like teenagers?

Michelle55:
That's not a relationship but a situationship, any lady that sees her future with you would always be willing to help you out financially provided she has it.

It's best you both go your separate ways.

mascot345:
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We both discussed about marriage o.

It doesn't matter a bit, by the way what attracted you to her, what values informs your decision about asking a lady out?

I feel the complete picture of your story is still missing, no reasonable lady should do this, however in a case where all you said is what it is, then the above advise by Michelle simply speaks to reality and you should evaluate yourself, not the your lady, bkos for you to make this kind of decision and allow it linger to this point speaks a lot.

@OP Don't worry.. her sugar daddies will attend you guys wedding, spray you money and even dash you cash and other gift items.
But Chioma sef dey stingy, what is 10k that she can't send to her future husband.

mascot345:
Me and Chioma started tooking about marriage in November 2020 on WhatsApp. Her friend matched us . Though it's a long distance relationship..... Just last month I had accident with my car. It was a fatal accident. I sold the car scrab and bought another one. The car damaged beyond repair. I told her to borrow me 20k or 10k to sort myself... She agreed to borrow me 10k but she didn't send the money. She later snubbed me.
I even told her I pay her in two weeks time unfailingly.
Her birthday was on 4th of this month. So I snubbed her and didn't post her pictures or wish her a happy birthday.
She has been very upset with me.
Chioma is a business woman and model .. She claims she pays a house rent of #1.3million in Maitama Abuja. One bedroom flat. She is claiming it's her 24th birthday.
She also claimed she graduated from University at the age of 19.
Though she invited me to her birthday in Maitama Abuja. But me I no go o.

Was I right snubbing her in her birthday?
Shebi I did the right thing ?

Lastly Chioma has high taste.
She likes doing everything big ..

She once told me she can't live with tenants.
That she just wants to live in a bungalow with me her future husband.

Mr man you better run for your dear life before chioma destroys your life.For your information chioma is high class olosho who's bills are foot by Abuja sugar daddies..I stay in Abuja so I know what I am talking about,come to Wuse 2,Gwarinpa,Asokoro,Maitama,Guzape and see how these girls live their life.Most of them don't work but you will see them driving jeep and living expensive lifestyle... Ask yourself this question is Chioma the kind of woman you desire as wife...l rest my case

Michelle55:
That's not a relationship but a situationship, any lady that sees her future with you would always be willing to help you out financially provided she has it.

You have spoken well and are 100% correct

slimman007:


Mr man you better run for your dear life before chioma destroys your life.For your information chioma is high class olosho who's bills are foot by Abuja sugar daddies..I stay in Abuja so I know what I am talking about,come to Wuse 2,Gwarinpa,Asokoro,Maitama,Guzape and see how these girls live their life.Most of them don't work but you will see them driving jeep and living expensive lifestyle... Ask yourself this question is Chioma the kind of woman you desire as wife...l rest my case

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U are speaking the truth o... The babe na high class o. Always showing posh areas in her status. Thank you so much for your advice. I really appreciate.
I suspect she is high class olosho....

mascot345:
Me and Chioma started tooking about marriage in November 2020 on WhatsApp. Her friend matched us . Though it's a long distance relationship..... Just last month I had accident with my car. It was a fatal accident. I sold the car scrab and bought another one. The car damaged beyond repair. I told her to borrow me 20k or 10k to sort myself... She agreed to borrow me 10k but she didn't send the money. She later snubbed me.
I even told her I pay her in two weeks time unfailingly.
Her birthday was on 4th of this month. So I snubbed her and didn't post her pictures or wish her a happy birthday.
She has been very upset with me.
Chioma is a business woman and model .. She claims she pays a house rent of #1.3million in Maitama Abuja. One bedroom flat. She is claiming it's her 24th birthday.
She also claimed she graduated from University at the age of 19.
Though she invited me to her birthday in Maitama Abuja. But me I no go o.

Was I right snubbing her in her birthday?
Shebi I did the right thing ?

Lastly Chioma has high taste.
She likes doing everything big ..

She once told me she can't live with tenants.
That she just wants to live in a bungalow with me her future husband.

the first line got me uninterested.. next pls

slimman007:


Mr man you better run for your dear life before chioma destroys your life.For your information chioma is high class olosho who's bills are foot by Abuja sugar daddies..I stay in Abuja so I know what I am talking about,come to Wuse 2,Gwarinpa,Asokoro,Maitama,Guzape and see how these girls live their life.Most of them don't work but you will see them driving jeep and living expensive lifestyle... Ask yourself this question is Chioma the kind of woman you desire as wife...l rest my case

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Yap the babe lives expensive life style.
Even I earn high too. I am an Engineer in Telecom. Her post dey intimidate me self.

My brother before you leave her make sure you use her Abuja connections to get contracts

chatinent:
Summary In King James Version:


An accident art yonder, cometh from unawareness and devoured me, not completely, but thine Grace. I, stoodth and approached the motor car and resold it, but mine angel, my better half refusedth to oblige to accept to give out, to borrow me some petty wages. O, death, why! On her birthday, I refusedth to be an attendant and I seek, of thou, what art you advise to giveth me?

By the way, tooking baa? Cow will jam you.

U didn't even overreact bro!

Call her tell her say ogun kee her papa!!!

Call her say chioma na ogun go kee your mama!!
Even at that you're not still overreacting with this petty curse

Na when ogun truly kee her papa and mana then that will be overreacting

Yusufisraelj:





It doesn't matter a bit, by the way what attracted you to her, what values informs your decision about asking a lady out?

I feel the complete picture of your story is still missing, no reasonable lady should do this, however in a case where all you said is what it is, then the above advise by Michelle simply speaks to reality and you should evaluate yourself, not the your lady, bkos for you to make this kind of decision and allow it linger to this point speaks a lot.

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She is hard working o. She is a business woman and a model too.

She knows how to cook very well.

She is food vendor too. In a big way.

But suspect she is into runs too.
I am not sure about that.

mascot345:
Me and Chioma started tooking about marriage in November 2020 on WhatsApp. Her friend matched us . Though it's a long distance relationship..... Just last month I had accident with my car. It was a fatal accident. I sold the car scrab and bought another one. The car damaged beyond repair. I told her to borrow me 20k or 10k to sort myself... She agreed to borrow me 10k but she didn't send the money. She later snubbed me.
I even told her I pay her in two weeks time unfailingly.
Her birthday was on 4th of this month. So I snubbed her and didn't post her pictures or wish her a happy birthday.
She has been very upset with me.
Chioma is a business woman and model .. She claims she pays a house rent of #1.3million in Maitama Abuja. One bedroom flat. She is claiming it's her 24th birthday.
She also claimed she graduated from University at the age of 19.
Though she invited me to her birthday in Maitama Abuja. But me I no go o.

Was I right snubbing her in her birthday?
Shebi I did the right thing ?

Lastly Chioma has high taste.
She likes doing everything big ..

She once told me she can't live with tenants.
That she just wants to live in a bungalow with me her future husband.

Someone that has the means and isn't ready to partner with you.

Is that one a wife? Give yourself sense.